We will have been together 15 years in January....and he wouldn't dare give me an appliance for Christmas!
My birthday is the 22nd .....which is not Christmas!.....so he gets double hit at the same time. I usually get a "big" gift on my birthday and gift certificates and something to open (several times it's been a Waterford ornament)on Christmas.
Since he looks for the path of least resistance....he hits the jewelry store on my birthday...though he made the comment a week or so ago, I was not getting anymore jewelry except for one piece and I wasn't getting it yet. That would be an engagement/wedding ring....but it's still under debate when....I haven't exactly accepted...

I love gift certificates. Either to a dept store or spa....not for my hair or nails as those are routine, but for a massage or facial ....which I'm less likely to spend on myself.
My most favorite gift from him though was a custom made fishing rod. He taught me years ago to like fishing and when he gave me my own rod....with teal green wraps - my favorite color which he hates - meant so much. Way more than the diamonds every have.
My second favorite is a simple gold bangle bracelet that he gave me my first birthday we were together....I always wear it.
My kids either give me specific books that I want or gift certificates to the spa. The gift certificate amounts are indicative of what they can afford....manicures are cheapest....massages are the most. I have received multiple manicure GC's.

Clothes are never a good gift....particularly a flannel nightgown.
