No, I mean they want to control other people. If people like me were the majority the Congress would meet for a week and go home, the government would be so small that it would have no real impact on day to day lives. We have no desire for government to control anyone or anything.
'Makers vs Takers' is another good term for the differences between one side and the other.
Everyone is naturally inclined to want to control other people, to impose their values on the public at large. The main difference between the
stereotypical established left and right are what aspects of life, culture, and society they look to regulate and or restrict and what they look to liberalize.
Fortunately not everyone melds into the stereotypical.