I assumed I'd be a stay-home mom, maybe work part-time...but was stupid enough to marry an abusive man. After the divorce, he committed suicide, so my 3 kids and I ended up living on $650 a month Survivor's benefit (because we were divorced, all his estate and life insurance was put up for our kids.) I got an Associates of Science in Electronics, had my 4th kid just before graduation, and a few months later found a MINIMUM WAGE JOB. **GASP** After 30 days, they gave me a nickel raise, but at least I was above minimum wage, right?
After 5 years at that job, I got a job at the local hospital. I kept it for 7 years, until I remarried, then found work with a hospital system closer to my husband's children. I've been at that place for over 11 years now, and we're finally doing well enough that we now have 10 acres and a fairly nice home.
Know how I got here? I KEPT MY JOBS. I've seem many, many people fail, the vast majority because they did something stupid to lose a job (coming to work drunk or high, no-call-no-show, failing drug tests, or just quitting when they got mad.) The most repeated advice I've given my 7 kids is Get and Job, and then Keep IT, no matter how much it sucks, you hate it, your boss is a jerk...until you get a better job! The ones that listened are VERY successful.