I think you are right that men bounce back quicker than women. I can honestly say this from a personal point of a women's view...This is especially true, it the relationship was an abusive one(mine was mentally and emotionally). I think that is why I am skittish, shy, and have a hard time starting relationships. I want a special someone so much, but I am scared to death!! I don't hate men,I certainly don't wage war on them, cus each one is different...