Oh look, the primitive misspelled "ass".
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OH, OH, we all know what guilt gifts are.
Right out of the blue for no reason husband sends flowers or comes home with an expensive piece of jewelery that he says reminded him of YOU. Husband surprises you with a cruise and once aboard he disappears for hours at a time. Buys you a nice car but keeps it in his name.
One day he introduces you to his buddy with a knock out wife, you find the couple spend all weekend at your home and you find you spend most of the time with HIS buddy as your husband and his wife are off together to play golf.
I have no problem with gilt gifts, keep the stuff coming, as long as the Hubby hires a buff pool boy, shows up at PTA meetings and dropped everything to take me to a parents hospital bed.
For better or worse is a vow, but this does not mean you have to get the worse, hang in there and get the better.-----The equalizer among the sexes, the male compelled to give guilt gifts.