Jeees, When Hubbys Godmother died, his Aunt he did not or could not take the day off.
Most places have a list of relatives one is given a paid day up to 4 days pay in case of death.
Husband or wife
Sister or brother
grandparent
In laws ---close in laws.
Only problem was when we had to put down our big girl the Rottie and stopped after for supper at a restaurant. Both of us were red eyed from crying but managed to pull ourselves together to be in public.
We found a table and were sort of staring off in space when the bouncy waitress came skipping over with a all so happy voice and asked how we were doing that night.
This waitress must have been new on the job as she had not learned body language of her customers.
Without waiting for a reply she began to go into the days specials and asked for our drink order, we both ordered a double shot and a beer and the days special, what ever the heck that was and off she goes to bring us our drinks. -------There we sat, holding each others hand, both of us mentally remembering the years of fun we had with our Girl.
The bartender, older and wiser brought us our drinks and said if we needed anything to just wave. Hubby saw the bartender then speak to our waitress and she delivered our dinner without opening her mouth, and we were left in peace, no, how is your meal etc.
After we paid at the bar the bartender asked, or said to me, You two have had a hard day, the drinks are on the house. At that time I began to weep and Hubby said we had had a death in the family. The BT then said he was sorry, a parent? he asked. No, Hubby said our dog had to be put down.
BT then came out and escorted us to our car, gave us a card that was good for 2 free meals on the house.
Seems he had lost a devoted companion just a month ago and could relate to our pain.
We became the best customer of the bar and grill, because of that one person that could and did the right thing. When the place closed down 3 years later I felt homeless.
BTW our work gave both of a day off--no pay-- to pull ourselves together. In our neck of the woods dogs are family, no outside dogs in the winter and the Natives understand the loss.