Well obviously the correct answer is: "no, it's the fat that makes you look fat." But who wants to hear the truth?
Hell no, it makes you do something about it if you have to know the truth. It's funny how once you start doing something about it though, you actually prefer truth over false flattery isn't it?
Exactly!!! Those comments only hurt me when they are true and I'm not doing anything to reverse the situation. Telling me I'm out of shape while I'm proactively working on getting back into shape doesn't really bother me.
Couldn't agree more, Dixie and I think that is because when you are being proactive, you know you are moving towards a goal. Even if something is said in a mean-spirit, it really matters very little to your character and you easily weed it out and if it's said constructively, you take it in, and use it as more motivation towards a goal. I'm with you,sister!

Now where did those men run off too?
