AND another thing (I'm on a roll). My moonbat brother who will be 50 in January does just enough to get by. He lives with my dad and his wife and has nothing to retire on or to show for his 50 years of life. He has counted on my grandma his whole life to "save" him and get him out of debt. He spends so much time trying to either figure out how to get " his" money from my gramda and uncle (that recently died) or figuring how much he will get when my grandma finally dies. If he spent 1/2 the time working on a career as he has with his get rich quick schemes (including gambling) he would have been successful.
He filed for bankruptcy (while living with my dad), over $50k. Most of it gambling (casinos). He charged up a ton on photography stuff before he filed KNOWING he was going to file. He went to school for art late in life. He planned on doing photography but refuses to do weddings or anything he could actually make money with (he is actually very good). He wants to do coffee table books of stupid crap that no one will buy and thinks the government should support him in that effort. He has another $54k in student loans that he couldn't file on when he filed for bankruptcy. Instead of using his degree to pay off his loan, he is waiting for my grandma to die so he can pay it off.
My husband by contrast has worked since he was 14 (besides the paper route/mowing lawns type thing), went to college for 6 years (we paid for it all and it took us 10 years to pay it off), had a baby when he had two years left of college, lost his first job out of college a few months after we bought a house, worked three jobs until he got a new "real" job, drove back and forth on the weekends (from lake havasu to Phoenix) until we sold our house, got another job a few years later and we moved to Dallas and has worked for the same company since 1994. He worked his way up from a designer to VP of product development. He makes what Obama calls "rich" and he works for every cent of it. He leaves the house at 5:30 in the morning and gets home after 7:00 at night. He travels, sometimes for weeks at a time. He has the responsibility of a real company on his shoulders, if he screws up bad things could happen.
I am very bitter about freeloaders. I know that for those of you who are having a hard time right now are thinking cry me a ****ing river but we aren't rich in the sense that Obama tries to conjure up. We live in CA, we are paying for our sons college and his room and board, we have car payments, large house payment (the house here in CA cost three times what out house in Texas cost), property taxes, 10% state taxes and already pay a huge amount in Fed taxes.
When Obamacare passed my brother called me up and said, "so how does it feel to pay for my healthcare now". I will just say that I went off on him and he hasn't mention politics since. I swear if anyone says to my face that we should pay "our fair share" I will smack the shit out of them.
Wow, I think the prednisone is catching up with me. I am angry today.