(sigh)...apparently, you've yet to learn that good Mexican food isn't necessarily HOT, but does have good flavor, which requires SPICES.
I like a good kick, but I'm not one of those assholes who have to sit on the can an hour later screaming, "COME ON ICE CREAM!!!!"
And oh yea--when you go to Margarita's for an enchilada plate, it helps if the cheese ISN'T Velveeta, and it helps even more if you don't use flour tortillas, and the real kicker is putting SAUCE on the enchiladas. Oh, and finally, when one orders a chimi, it should never, ever, EVER come out with brown gravy on it, and the chile relleno should not be served on the same plate it was welded to in the microwave. These are all experiences I've had in New Hampshire.