She was a disabled woman. Yea the disabled people can put a crimp on the rest of us who want to get on with our lives. Life can suck that way.
When given the choice between life and death, what should we as a moral people default to?
She never left specific instructions. But, if it were me, I guarantee you I would never choose to die by dehydration. The only difference between that and a bullet to the head is about 2 weeks. I'd take the bullet.
Well, that covers it. Had busybodies with no legal standing not intervened, Terri Shaiivo would have been able to pass without the harder death. But since she had no ability to "feel" anything it is a difference without a distinction.
Please read my upstream post. And think about it. When you get married, you legally transfer your relationship from your parents (which relationship was essentially severed from the age of majority anyway) to your spouse.
If you become incapacitated, do you want the State or a bunch of people you never met making decisions for you? Or do you want the person you chose to be your life partner to make those decisions? (yeah, I know what a shrinking violet you are -- your decisions aren't worth crap (sarcasm honey!)).
Now, stand back. Every marriage is different. Most are great -- a wonderful partnership between soulmates. Some are less than that. But, the decision to become married creates a legal relationship that creates the presumption of love and equality.
If you let The Man challenge the Shaivo marriage and the decisions therein, then you allow that same intrusion on your everyday life.
A final note: If there was evidence of abuse that led to Terri Shaivo's condition, that is a different situation. But there is no such evidence.
Last question: Who decides your fate? The person you chose as your legal live partner? Or others?