MVD - Well my disability claim was denied

[RuralNc]

"I want to put the GoFundMe up but not if it causes more drama and stress for me."

Lol. This dude has zero shame.

Welcome to the Cave.

Not sure how familiar you are with this situation, or Matt/MVD, but "zero shame" doesnt even begin to describe it. Assuming Matt is even real. 

Moving along....

ForgedCrank (942 posts)

36. How many

jobs have you applied for so far?
There are plenty of places who will work with you.
I work with some blind folks and assist them with things like shopping, etc, and 2 of them work part time jobs. They aren't making 100K a year, but they are doing pretty decent and getting along.
Have you given it a try? Many of these places are very accommodating.

Once again, as in the previous thread, ForgedCrank is trying to encourage Matt to get a job. I think we all know where this advice will up. After all, Matt living his carefree lifestyle of mooching will not be jeopardized by "getting a job".

Treefrog (3,822 posts)

37. I'm going to guess a job isn't what this poster is looking

for...just a hunch.

 

Im patiently waiting for the link for the GoFundMe. We all know Matt is itching to get it going. Probably needs a Motor upgrade on his Speed Boat. 

[SVPete]

If MVD worked as hard at a job as he does at mooching and leeching, he'd be the manager/mangler/stuporvisor of something by now.

[freedumb2003b]

"I want to put the GoFundMe up but not if it causes more drama and stress for me."

Lol. This dude has zero shame.

Wrlcome!

Nice opening post   You get it for sure.

Shame is an unheardof concept for DUmmies. They are PROUD of their immioesty, perversion, gaming the system, drug addictions and of course, ebegging.

[RuralNc]

And its time for a talk with Matt. Cue the sad Trombone...

ForgedCrank (960 posts)

47. It's not simply

a matter of if people care or not. DU members has proven over the past year through your many gofundme promotions that they care about others, but you are asking a lot of people, and some of those have very little to give, so it's time to be frank and address it rather than ignore the posts asking you about it.
I think you are at that point now where you are going to have to address the elephant in the room if you are going to ask DU'ers for more free money. I don't speak for anyone but myself, but I don't believe this is an unpopular thought that I have going on here.

Why is it that you can't get at least a part time job to help your situation? Better yet, what are the reasons you CAN go get a job? There are plenty out there and willing employers.
I've seen people with pretty serious disabilities working for their money. You appear to have acceptable communication skills, you can navigate the doctor, the disability interviews, etc, and you can communicate pretty well with your posts. You can hear well enough to speak on the phone, communicate with the Uber drivers etc, so what is the obstacle for you and how can you work on that?

You're going to have to get brutally honest with yourself and act accordingly at this point. Every day that you put it off makes your situation more serious, and more difficult to correct, and charity from gofundme drives is not going to fix it. Neither is waiting years for a disability claim to finally be approved, if ever.
Talk to us about this, we are here to help, not just to be critical just for the fun of it, because this isn't fun at all. I'm trying to help you, but you have to be willing first, and you have to be able to make changes that you are obviously very resistant to making. Want is no longer an option for you, you have to for the sake of yourself AND your mother.

Exactly Muppet! Its our job to mock, ridicule, and make fun of you. 

mvd (64,351 posts)

48. Friend might have use for garage storage when he moves out..

of his former fiancé’s place on October 1. But no interest now. I need to do something now.

I know as a newbie, I have no power of persuasion here. But, I nominate MVD/Matt for the "Lack of Self Awareness" Award. The whole  concept of "get a job" just flies over his head. 

So, lets say he rents out the Garage. The friend might need it for storage. How much are we talking here. Maybe $100 a month, or there-abouts?

Lurking Muppets. I believe you should go ahead and lube up. 

[FunkyZero]

Im patiently waiting for the link for the GoFundMe. We all know Matt is itching to get it going. Probably needs a Motor upgrade on his Speed Boat. 

oh, we know full well it's coming. this is simply his primer thread, trying to get the wind direction and speed.
I'm guessing tomorrow, if not a late night sneak-it-in post hoping to avoid the radar alarms. our boy Matt isn't capable of reading the room very well, that has become quite obvious. Someone else said it already, but this lazy glob of sh** has no shame.
I have a feeling based on the primitives response to his nonsense that it won't go over quite so smoothly this time.
Even poo-pants Pam was on his case last time... she was all bent out of shape because she gave that grifter money and wanted it back. hahaha!
I do hope he is able to extract a few more grand out of those imbeciles before he is booted.

[RuralNc]

oh, we know full well it's coming. this is simply his primer thread, trying to get the wind direction and speed.
I'm guessing tomorrow, if not a late night sneak-it-in post hoping to avoid the radar alarms. our boy Matt isn't capable of reading the room very well, that has become quite obvious. Someone else said it already, but this lazy glob of sh** has no shame.
I have a feeling based on the primitives response to his nonsense that it won't go over quite so smoothly this time.
Even poo-pants Pam was on his case last time... she was all bent out of shape because she gave that grifter money and wanted it back. hahaha!
I do hope he is able to extract a few more grand out of those imbeciles before he is booted.

Could very well.

Im thinking Matt should simply say he got a job and its just not quiet enough to cover the ongoing costs. Ya know, another big electric bill or water. Its going to get shut off... 

That pesky "job" suggestion is going to be holding back his fund raising.

Lurking Matt/MVD. Im not saying you should lie to your fellow worthless DUmp muppets, but they expect you to get a job. Its not like they can verify your employment. Then, who knows, your a little short on payday. You need a little help. Know what Im saying?  (pro tip: read that in your best Mafia Voice)

[SVPete]

...
I know as a newbie, I have no power of persuasion here. But, I nominate MVD/Matt for the "Lack of Self Awareness" Award. The whole  concept of "get a job" just flies over his head. 
...

MVD also does not get that you cannot pay ongoing expenses with one-time $$. Jobs provide weekly/bi-weekly/etc. $$; GFMs and GSMs (Go Scam Me) are one-time $$.

[ABC-2]

Message to the no doubt lurking, lazy, lout, Matt "MVD"

And for the second & last time from me ...

(Is the music to the one which SVPete  was referring, in his post earlier on.)


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nbGthv-dJp4

[ABC-2]

Hell's bells ... 

Sorry Pete, just realized you DID post the music!

[SVPete]

Hell's bells ... 

Sorry Pete, just realized you DID post the music!

It's a classic well worth playing over and over and ...

My musical era was The Beatles and the psychedelic era, but I had some older cousins who were in high school during the doowop era and lent me their record collection.

[FiddyBeowulf]

[FunkyZero]

It's a classic well worth playing over and over and ...

...    https://youtu.be/y3Zsztxl6jc

[DefiantSix]

Message to the no doubt lurking, lazy, lout, Matt "MVD"

And for the second & last time from me ...

(Is the music to the one which SVPete  was referring, in his post earlier on.)


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nbGthv-dJp4

And for the response from Matty boi...

https://youtu.be/P7Tcggo45TQ

[RuralNc]

mvd (64,355 posts)

55. I've contacted a social worker in Collegeville

Had to deal with mom in hospital 3 times and she does like a psychiatrist but paying her may be an issue. The social worker is supposed to come next week. I understand jobs but want to get through this month’s emergency. I have never worked and that is for a reason. But keeping everything as options - have to.

Uh huh. SO it looks like Matt just needs to get thru this month. Oct. will be his break-out month! He will be hitting the streets, beating on doors, filling out job applications....  He just needs a little help right now. 

[Rebel]

Posts this useless, waste of oxygen has ignored:

Treefrog (3,829 posts)

37. I'm going to guess a job isn't what this poster is looking

Treefrog (3,829 posts)

39. And I applaud that.

I just think this person isn't interested in running out of excuses.

ForgedCrank (963 posts)

47. It's not simply

a matter of if people care or not. DU members has proven over the past year through your many gofundme promotions that they care about others, but you are asking a lot of people, and some of those have very little to give, so it's time to be frank and address it rather than ignore the posts asking you about it.
I think you are at that point now where you are going to have to address the elephant in the room if you are going to ask DU'ers for more free money. I don't speak for anyone but myself, but I don't believe this is an unpopular thought that I have going on here.

Why is it that you can't get at least a part time job to help your situation? Better yet, what are the reasons you CAN go get a job? There are plenty out there and willing employers.
I've seen people with pretty serious disabilities working for their money. You appear to have acceptable communication skills, you can navigate the doctor, the disability interviews, etc, and you can communicate pretty well with your posts. You can hear well enough to speak on the phone, communicate with the Uber drivers etc, so what is the obstacle for you and how can you work on that?

You're going to have to get brutally honest with yourself and act accordingly at this point. Every day that you put it off makes your situation more serious, and more difficult to correct, and charity from gofundme drives is not going to fix it. Neither is waiting years for a disability claim to finally be approved, if ever.
Talk to us about this, we are here to help, not just to be critical just for the fun of it, because this isn't fun at all. I'm trying to help you, but you have to be willing first, and you have to be able to make changes that you are obviously very resistant to making. Want is no longer an option for you, you have to for the sake of yourself AND your mother.

demtenjeep (31,900 posts)

65. Thinking about food pantries but want to avoid if possible.

but you have no problem asking strangers for money?


why avoid food pantries? If I needed food, there would not be hesitation

[SVPete]

Marginal people like hoarders, cat "ladies", etc. always have an iron-clad "reason" for the irrational behaviors that trap them.

[FunkyZero]

I was surprised today noting that this was still idle and he hadn't made a new GFM thread. Looks like the DUmmies have him backed into a corner.
Any bets on how long he'll be able to contain himself before putting one up? Is there a new xbox game nearing release?
tic... tic... tic...

[67 Rover]

I was surprised today noting that this was still idle and he hadn't made a new GFM thread. Looks like the DUmmies have him backed into a corner.
Any bets on how long he'll be able to contain himself before putting one up? Is there a new xbox game nearing release?
tic... tic... tic...

No Xbox game but there is the new IPhone that he desperately needs. 

[FunkyZero]

Oh this thread is starting to get hostile pretty quick.  PooPants Pam weights in too...

Response to mvd (Reply #34)Wed Sep 7, 2022, 05:10 PM
demtenjeep (31,905 posts)

82. GO GET A JOB

like the rest of us
I poop 25 times a day but I still work
You can do SOMETHING

HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAHA!!!

Response to demtenjeep (Reply #82)Wed Sep 7, 2022, 05:14 PM
Star Member mvd (64,363 posts)

83. ???
I am not having this thread devolve into petty arguments. Unbelievable. I will make my own choices.

Response to mvd (Reply #83)Wed Sep 7, 2022, 05:15 PM
demtenjeep (31,905 posts)

85. no one is making petty arguments

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Response to mvd (Reply #75)Wed Sep 7, 2022, 03:40 PM
Thtwudbeme (7,691 posts)

76. I am sorry- I don't think you are going to get too many more donations on DU.
I really don't, mvd. I am sorry- but- upthread you stated that you do not want to use a food pantry.
If I have been reading your threads and gofundme's correctly- your water and power will be shut off soon. That was not worth an uber trip to the grocery store.
You also wrote that "you wonder if people still care." If DUers didn't care, they would not have offered you all the suggestions they have. Sometimes "caring" means "no more money."
You are very young (compared to me)- I had a tough row to hoe in my forties too. You CAN do this. Getting a job will be hard, but you can do it.

Response to mvd (Reply #75)Wed Sep 7, 2022, 04:41 PM
Star Member XanaDUer2 (5,736 posts)

79. But when will you?
You'll need more money next month. Of course DUers "care" you've gotten 10k here!

Response to mvd (Reply #69)Wed Sep 7, 2022, 05:14 PM
demtenjeep (31,905 posts)

84. SO IN OTHER WORDS- if PEOPLE OF DU GIVE YOU MONEY SO WHAT?
Man that is WRONG
YOU USE PEOPLE

Response to mvd (Reply #83)Wed Sep 7, 2022, 05:36 PM
demtenjeep (31,909 posts)

91. your own choices do NOT include
begging more money from us

Response to demtenjeep (Reply #65)Wed Sep 7, 2022, 04:47 PM
Star Member BlackSkimmer (47,458 posts)

80. Great question.
These threads are getting to be kind of predictable, ya know?

Blackskimmer to the rescue!

Response to BlackSkimmer (Reply #80)Wed Sep 7, 2022, 05:19 PM
demtenjeep (31,907 posts)

88. if I am remembering right-it is the 7th
I seem to remember the 7th is the day the other thread started

Sorry for all the pasting, I'm afraid this thread will get deleted and all these treasures will be lost forever...  we simply can't have that.

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Response to XanaDUer2 (Reply #63)Wed Sep 7, 2022, 05:16 PM
Star Member mvd (64,363 posts)

86. Worth it
I like the way the thread looks now more because I don’t have time for the same arguments. At least you and others here care.

Response to mvd (Reply #86)Wed Sep 7, 2022, 05:24 PM
demtenjeep (31,907 posts)

89. it is disingenuous to imply that people don't care because we question you
your cavalier attitude about if people want to give you money why turn it down is horrid.
we asked you about what your autism keeps you from doing?
we were trying to help you think of jobs.
what we WILL NOT do is let you grift another dime here because NOTHING has changed

Response to demtenjeep (Reply #89)Wed Sep 7, 2022, 05:35 PM
Star Member XanaDUer2 (5,738 posts)

90. The quickest way to get a money stream
Outside of another GFM, is a job. Of course, consult an SSDI lawyer, but waiting for disability money is like waiting for Godot.
Of course, a GFM is the quickest, easiest, passive way to wrack money up.

Response to XanaDUer2 (Reply #90)Wed Sep 7, 2022, 05:37 PM
demtenjeep (31,909 posts)

92. but that isn't gonna happen this time

[RuralNc]

Oh this thread is starting to get hostile pretty quick.  PooPants Pam weights in too...

HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAHA!!!

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Blackskimmer to the rescue!

Sorry for all the pasting, I'm afraid this thread will get deleted and all these treasures will be lost forever...  we simply can't have that.

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No, no, no. You are doing the Lords work!

I checked in earlier this morning and all was quiet at the DUmp. Unlike the Muppets I had to get busy and do actual work. Just got home from taking the Mrs. out to a fancy sit-down Hamburger Joint. Discovered that you blessed us with this entertainment. HI-5 for sure!

[Rebel]

How'd I miss this?

Star Member mvd (64,363 posts)

33. For the hearing I have good evidence that maybe..

would be looked at differently with new people. For the autism, I haven’t taken a test but have had doctors say I have it. But not all autistic people get tested. Guess I might have to be.

This mfer hasn't even been tested!!! He's using it for the grift. What a pathetic f'n loser. 

[RuralNc]

mvd (64,363 posts)

57. Will do

I appreciate your suggestions. They have already helped and if I wasn’t in this emergency I think I would be on a better path already

I *think* the emergency was previously mentioned that his mother was in the hospital for the 3rd time this month. Or maybe his boat needs a new motor. Either one is just as likely as the other. 

XanaDUer2 (5,739 posts)

67. Whats happening this month?

Why does whatever is happening monthly keep happening? As someone mentioned, it's time to take a hard look at expenses and re-tool. If you need food, don't be too proud and avoid pantries? Isn't that better than running up this "Instacart" thing you talk about?

Try to find how to cut back. I mean, it appears to be paramount that you bring superfluous expenses down. When you're in a hole, stop digging yourself deeper. I've never Ubered, but it doesn't sound cheap.

Do you understand what some of us are talking about? The money is just not there.

What happened this month? Well its simple lurking Muppets. Matt likes to spend other peoples money the same way the typical Politician does. When it runs out. Beg for more. Simple.

Hey thats an idea. Maybe MVD needs to run for office. Its a do nothing job, and you earn some coin. 

mvd (64,363 posts)

68. It goes so quickly

I wish it was so easy. I have been finding some ways to cut back. I need to get out of this overdraft cycle. I am in such a hole right now though that I need some help right away.

Just so frustrating to be basically poverty level.

I was always good at not judging others but after going through this I know exactly how people feel.

Oh boy. Cue up the crocodile tears. 

And again with the supposed Overdraft fees. Running his checkbook like the .Gov?

[FunkyZero]

Some more gems...

Response to demtenjeep (Reply #89)Wed Sep 7, 2022, 05:35 PM
Star Member XanaDUer2 (5,739 posts)

90. The quickest way to get a money stream
Outside of another GFM, is a job. Of course, consult an SSDI lawyer, but waiting for disability money is like waiting for Godot.
Of course, a GFM is the quickest, easiest, passive way to wrack money up.
Joementum!

Response to XanaDUer2 (Reply #90)Wed Sep 7, 2022, 07:49 PM
Star Member BlackSkimmer (47,463 posts)

96. Funny, ain't it?

Response to BlackSkimmer (Reply #96)Wed Sep 7, 2022, 07:59 PM
Thtwudbeme (7,694 posts)

97. Sad. I see a lot of GFMs that make me feel crappy- the worst are for
funerals.
It's the new "private welfare," and GFM is getting rich off it.

Response to Thtwudbeme (Reply #97)Wed Sep 7, 2022, 08:00 PM
Star Member BlackSkimmer (47,463 posts)

98. Wow.

Well spotted.
The internet is a grift bonanza.
The only courage that matters is the kind t

Response to BlackSkimmer (Reply #98)Wed Sep 7, 2022, 08:14 PM
Thtwudbeme (7,694 posts)

99. It really is- we don't know who is behind the GFM's we donate to

Many times, especially here on DU, they tug on our heartstrings. I think Dems feel like they SHOULD be giving, and so they do.

I mean- we don't know mvd personally- I can make up stories in my mind (and I won't indulge them here)- but what he is writing COULD be and might be true.

Then again, he has shared his full name with us, and some of his background....so I know his father was a PhD research scientist that worked for the government...and I wonder why there is no pension? Why would a man of that intelligence buy a townhome that he knew his wife and disabled son would not be able to afford after his years long battle with cancer? Why didn't he leave an insurance policy? IF as mvd claims, why didn't his parents have him declared disabled two decades ago? mvd is obviously educated, obviously was upper middle class and clearly writes well. He would have done very well in jobs such as copywriting, content creation, or technical writing.

I will never know the answers to any of these questions. However, I DO know that it appears that he is addicted to the easy peasy money of GFM, and people usually don't attempt to stop their addictions until they are at rock bottom.

It's a rabbit hole of thought and a commentary on who we are as a country, and who we are as an online country.

I'm taking a liking to the BlackSkimmer primitive. He/she may be the first DUmmie I've ever seen that wasn't downright stupid or outright crazy.

[Rebel]

Thtwudbeme (7,696 posts)

Then again, he has shared his full name with us, and some of his background....so I know his father was a PhD research scientist that worked for the government...and I wonder why there is no pension? Why would a man of that intelligence buy a townhome that he knew his wife and disabled son would not be able to afford after his years long battle with cancer? Why didn't he leave an insurance policy? IF as mvd claims, why didn't his parents have him declared disabled two decades ago? mvd is obviously educated, obviously was upper middle class and clearly writes well. He would have done very well in jobs such as copywriting, content creation, or technical writing.

I'll take a crack at it. My two guesses:

1. He's lying about his mother, she has plenty of money, not in danger of losing her home, but she's telling him it's time for him to put his big girl panties on and get a f'n job because the 45 year gravy train is over and she has to fund her retired life as well. Basically giving him an ultimatum to get out.

2. His mother is actually mentally-incapacitated but he blew through all of her savings because he brings NOTHING to the table, and is out of money.......along with his mother.....for whom the money was intended.

Take your pick. {Disclosure: These are just guesses and my opinion only}.

[SVPete]

Thtwudbeme (7,694 posts)

99. It really is- we don't know who is behind the GFM's we donate to

Many times, especially here on DU, they tug on our heartstrings. I think Dems feel like they SHOULD be giving, and so they do.

I mean- we don't know mvd personally- I can make up stories in my mind (and I won't indulge them here)- but what he is writing COULD be and might be true.

Back in 1999 a liberal who was being hooted off a discussion board left a parting snark for a conservative member who had mentioned his profession. The liberal snarked that on the Internet people can claim to be whatever they want, and almost no one will be able to disprove it. So MVD really could be the marginal dysfunctional person he claims to be - not that he sees himself that way - or maybe he's some lazy twit trying to get others to buy the latest gaming machine and games to play. Either way, a leech is a leech.