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Title: Guys a question for you.
Post by: mamacags on March 29, 2009, 04:04:42 PM
These are your only options...

You have a choice of three women to marry.  Only three women in this contest.  Which one would you pick and why?

1. A super hot woman with a smokin' body but with serious mental problems.

2.  A regular looking woman who is seriously boring and you have no common interests.

3. A seriously ugly woman who weighs 250+ pounds but is really smart, a great cook, wonderful house wife, and loves sports as much as you.
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: asdf2231 on March 29, 2009, 04:16:35 PM
#3.

Because when you love somebody you see what's beautiful in who they are not what they look like.


Of course if #1 has SERIOUS mental problems you could always marry #3 and string her crazy ass along while you bang her on the side. If you were the kind of person who thought that way I mean.  :uhsure:





I kid.

Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: RobJohnson on March 29, 2009, 04:23:27 PM
#3 is out of the question because I do not like sports.

I've had alot of #1s and glad I never did get married.  :evillaugh:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Schadenfreude on March 29, 2009, 04:37:07 PM
Ah... if the only the women of the world fit into 3 discrete categories.

The men could pull up to a window and say "I'll have a #3".   :lmao:

Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Miss Mia on March 29, 2009, 04:38:28 PM
I've found that guys like a slightly overweight, cute, good personality, wicked smart and sometimes bitchy girl.  :wink:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: asdf2231 on March 29, 2009, 04:39:04 PM
Ah... if the only the women of the world fit into 3 discrete categories.

The men could pull up to a window and say "I'll have a #3".   :lmao:



I ordered a #12 one time in Nevada when I was much younger. :-)
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Schadenfreude on March 29, 2009, 04:39:35 PM
I've found that guys like a slightly overweight, good personality, wicked smart and sometimes bitchy girl.  :wink:

Oh my heck, I do too! Yesh, yesh yesh!
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: asdf2231 on March 29, 2009, 04:40:24 PM
I've found that guys like a slightly overweight, cute, good personality, wicked smart and sometimes bitchy girl.  :wink:

They tend to rock your world because they aren't worried about their make up in the middle of things. :rofl:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Miss Mia on March 29, 2009, 04:40:55 PM
I ordered a #12 one time in Nevada when I was much younger. :-)

I assume she was more a #1.  LOL
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Miss Mia on March 29, 2009, 04:42:23 PM
They tend to rock your world because they aren't worried about their make up in the middle of things. :rofl:

Wait, you're not supposed to stop to reapply lipstick?   :thatsright:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Schadenfreude on March 29, 2009, 04:43:46 PM
Wait, you're not supposed to stop to reapply lipstick?   :thatsright:

I think if you are doing your toes whilst in the midst of things... that may be more of an indictment on the dude. Just sayn.  :evillaugh:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Miss Mia on March 29, 2009, 04:44:58 PM
I think if you are doing your toes whilst in the midst of things... that may be more of an indictment on the dude. Just sayn.  :evillaugh:


bwahahahahaha :rofl:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Mike220 on March 29, 2009, 04:45:34 PM
Wait, you're not supposed to stop to reapply lipstick?   :thatsright:

Depends on... umm... what you're doing.

Or so I've heard.

 :uhsure:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Schadenfreude on March 29, 2009, 04:46:28 PM
Depends on... umm... what you're doing.

Or so I've heard.

 :uhsure:

Mike... you weren't born yesterday....  :whatever: Oh wait maybe.... :-)
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Schadenfreude on March 29, 2009, 04:47:33 PM
I ordered a #12 one time in Nevada when I was much younger. :-)

Watch out for #12s in Nevada, especially around the Vegas area, I hear there are a lot of trannies.  :lmao:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: BEG on March 29, 2009, 04:48:27 PM
I say they would first marry #1 then divorce her after they figure out she is psycho (only after they have a kid so he has to deal with her the rest of his life).  Then he will marry #2 and eventually she will turn into #3. :p
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Schadenfreude on March 29, 2009, 04:49:33 PM
I say they would first marry #1 then divorce her after they figure out she is psycho (only after they have a kid so he has to deal with her the rest of his life).  Then he will marry #2 and eventually she will turn into #3. :p

You can have all 3.... good analysis BEG.  :-)
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Schadenfreude on March 29, 2009, 04:50:57 PM
Are there any more questions? I will be here for another 15 minutes?  :popcorn:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Gratiot on March 29, 2009, 04:51:08 PM
Watch out for #12s in Nevada, especially around the Vegas area, I hear there are a lot of trannies.  :lmao:

I bet there's a great story, which brought forth this hearsay.  Care to share?   :popcorn:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Schadenfreude on March 29, 2009, 04:53:25 PM
I bet there's a great story, which brought forth this hearsay.  Care to share?   :popcorn:

I was a 12 in a previous life.  :evillaugh:

Just kidding, I am just having fun here.  :lmao:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Mike220 on March 29, 2009, 04:54:17 PM
Mike... you weren't born yesterday....  :whatever: Oh wait maybe.... :-)

Hey! Easy now...

True, I wasn't was I...
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Gratiot on March 29, 2009, 04:55:00 PM
I was a 12 in a previous life.  :evillaugh:

Just kidding, I am just having fun here.  :lmao:

:cheersmate: Aren't we all  :cheersmate:

Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: asdf2231 on March 29, 2009, 04:55:24 PM
I was a 12 in a previous life.  :evillaugh:

Just kidding, I am just having fun here.  :lmao:

Wouldn't you have been an 11 before? just sayin... :-)
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Schadenfreude on March 29, 2009, 04:58:51 PM
Hey! Easy now...

True, I wasn't was I...

Im calling you babyface from now on.  :naughty:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Carl on March 29, 2009, 05:01:35 PM
If by super hot you mean a Hollywood airhead then will pass on that.

A serious,intelligent,conservative lady is super hot in my book so guess that is a combination of two and three. :cheersmate:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Schadenfreude on March 29, 2009, 05:01:53 PM
Wouldn't you have been an 11 before? just sayin... :-)

Whatever I am or was, I doubt there is a way to neatly categorize me.  :hyper:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Miss Mia on March 29, 2009, 05:03:31 PM
Whatever I am or was, I doubt there is a way to neatly categorize me.  :hyper:

Ain't that the truth.

:bolt:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: BEG on March 29, 2009, 05:04:29 PM
Wouldn't you have been an 11 before? just sayin... :-)

I'm thinkin' she is a #1.   :-)
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Gratiot on March 29, 2009, 05:04:34 PM
A serious,intelligent,conservative lady is super hot in my book so guess that is a combination of two and three.

+1  :cheersmate:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Schadenfreude on March 29, 2009, 05:05:41 PM
Oh I happen to have a picture of a Hot Crazy Bitch.... :evillaugh:

(http://img7.imageshack.us/img7/2709/kissyk.jpg) (http://img7.imageshack.us/my.php?image=kissyk.jpg)
By uber (http://profile.imageshack.us/user/uber)
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Gratiot on March 29, 2009, 05:06:29 PM
Wouldn't you have been an 11 before? just sayin... :-)

Is a #11 a #1 you'd hit twice, or is 'it' much like a #7?  Shivers... at the memory  :thatsright:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: BEG on March 29, 2009, 05:11:16 PM
Oh I happen to have a picture of a Hot Crazy Bitch.... :evillaugh:

(http://img7.imageshack.us/img7/2709/kissyk.jpg) (http://img7.imageshack.us/my.php?image=kissyk.jpg)
By uber (http://profile.imageshack.us/user/uber)


Yeah...look at those crazy bitch eyes. Scary.


*your hair looks super hot...it looks like mine.  :p
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Schadenfreude on March 29, 2009, 05:13:11 PM

Yeah...look at those crazy bitch eyes. Scary.


*your hair looks super hot...it looks like mine.  :p

Blue-eyed debil!  :evillaugh:

It does look like yours head-on, but the profile is totally different... besides, I wanna be like you.  :popcorn:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Miss Mia on March 29, 2009, 05:13:24 PM
Is a #11 a #1 you'd hit twice, or is 'it' much like a #7?  Shivers... at the memory  :thatsright:

LOL!
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Miss Mia on March 29, 2009, 05:13:49 PM
Blue-eyed debil!  :evillaugh:

It does look like yours head-on, but the profile is totally different... besides, I wanna be like you.  :popcorn:

doesn't everyone????
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: BEG on March 29, 2009, 05:18:09 PM
Blue-eyed debil!  :evillaugh:

It does look like yours head-on, but the profile is totally different... besides, I wanna be like you.  :popcorn:

Take a picture of your profile. I wanna see it.
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Gratiot on March 29, 2009, 05:26:05 PM
I wanna see it.

Really now?  :naughty:  :uhsure:  :-)
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: BEG on March 29, 2009, 05:36:50 PM
Really now?  :naughty:  :uhsure:  :-)

Why yes...yes I do.  :p
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: dutch508 on March 29, 2009, 05:38:32 PM
I am so not touching this thread with any pole...no matter how long...

 :evillaugh:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: SSG Snuggle Bunny on March 29, 2009, 05:40:32 PM
Can we pick the form of insanity? What if #1's mode of insanity were nymphomania?

just askin'
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: BEG on March 29, 2009, 05:42:52 PM
I am so not touching this thread with any pole...no matter how long...

 :evillaugh:

You know you want to touch it with your pole.


*I'm channeling Schade.  :p
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: mamacags on March 29, 2009, 06:13:51 PM
I was just thinking at church today about some of the women I know that go there.  It just seems like the men that marry the #3s are the happiest.  I used to be ok looking with a pretty nice body but some serious issues.  Now I am a #3 and my marriage and personal life is so much better. 

I just wondered if a hot body and beautiful face is worth suffering with someone who is a freaking psychopath or not.  Even if I was super hot I would never tolerate some insane freak.  Not even if he looked like Brad Pitt and was naked on 1000 thread count cotton sheets in a 5000 sq ft house.
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: BEG on March 29, 2009, 06:22:28 PM
I was just thinking at church today about some of the women I know that go there.  It just seems like the men that marry the #3s are the happiest.  I used to be ok looking with a pretty nice body but some serious issues.  Now I am a #3 and my marriage and personal life is so much better. 

I just wondered if a hot body and beautiful face is worth suffering with someone who is a freaking psychopath or not.  Even if I was super hot I would never tolerate some insane freak.  Not even if he looked like Brad Pitt and was naked on 1000 thread count cotton sheets in a 5000 sq ft house.

There are probably just as many crazy ass 250 lbs women as there are crazy hot women.
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Mr Mannn on March 29, 2009, 06:30:29 PM
I would pick number one.
Lets be honest guys: No matter who you pick, they ALL have serious mental problems.
Might as well get the super hottie.  :evillaugh:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: BEG on March 29, 2009, 06:32:21 PM
I would pick number one.
Lets be honest guys: No matter who you pick, they ALL have serious mental problems.
Might as well get the super hottie.  :evillaugh:


You are so going to be in trouble.   :rotf:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: djones520 on March 29, 2009, 06:33:39 PM
I'd probably go with none of the options and remain single.

Call me shallow, but physical appearances do come into the equation for those that I wish to spend the rest of my life with.
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Mr Mannn on March 29, 2009, 06:36:08 PM

You are so going to be in trouble.   :rotf:
Moi?!  (looks all innocent)
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: DumbAss Tanker on March 29, 2009, 06:41:14 PM
I've found that guys like a slightly overweight, cute, good personality, wicked smart and sometimes bitchy girl.  :wink:

You left out the "Red hair" part.   :-)

As for the OP, I'm not seeing a real big reason to marry ANY of them.  #1 would ruin your life and/or possibly kill you sooner or later, #2 why would you even consider if you have nothing in common, and as for #3 she sounds like a great person to keep as a friend but with no physical attraction or sparks at all, no reason to take it any further than that.
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Schadenfreude on March 29, 2009, 07:02:47 PM
Can we pick the form of insanity? What if #1's mode of insanity were nymphomania?

just askin'

You so have my number!  :evillaugh:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Schadenfreude on March 29, 2009, 07:03:15 PM
Moi?!  (looks all innocent)


Hey, that's my line!  :evillaugh:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Schadenfreude on March 29, 2009, 07:05:50 PM
I was just thinking at church today about some of the women I know that go there.  It just seems like the men that marry the #3s are the happiest.  I used to be ok looking with a pretty nice body but some serious issues.  Now I am a #3 and my marriage and personal life is so much better. 

I just wondered if a hot body and beautiful face is worth suffering with someone who is a freaking psychopath or not.  Even if I was super hot I would never tolerate some insane freak.  Not even if he looked like Brad Pitt and was naked on 1000 thread count cotton sheets in a 5000 sq ft house.

I don't think you can project your personal experiences on to the whole wide world.... just saying.
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: mamacags on March 29, 2009, 07:09:18 PM
I wasn't saying that all super hot women are insane.  I mean just because I have never actually met a hot woman who was sane doesn't mean there are one or two out there. :-)

MrMannn maybe that is why you are single?  My brother is just not so much a prize at all in any definition of the word but he only wants to date barely legal really hot girls.  He has never actually dated one but just because he is in his mid 40s and never been married doesn't mean it won't ever happen.  I mean seriously he COULD win the lottery some day or something.  I think he has an impression that all of the women that he chats with online look like the girls on the sites he just looks at online. :rotf:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Chris on March 29, 2009, 07:10:37 PM
I agree with djones... I wouldn't bother with any of them if it's that much trouble.  I'll just post on CC and drink my beer.
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Schadenfreude on March 29, 2009, 07:11:18 PM
I wasn't saying that all super hot women are insane.  I mean just because I have never actually met a hot woman who was sane doesn't mean there are one or two out there. :-)

MrMannn maybe that is why you are single?  My brother is just not so much a prize at all in any definition of the word but he only wants to date barely legal really hot girls.  He has never actually dated one but just because he is in his mid 40s and never been married doesn't mean it won't ever happen.  I mean seriously he COULD win the lottery some day or something.  I think he has an impression that all of the women that he chats with online look like the girls on the sites he just looks at online. :rotf:

Ok... lol.
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: NHSparky on March 29, 2009, 07:23:31 PM
These are your only options...

You have a choice of three women to marry.  Only three women in this contest.  Which one would you pick and why?

1. A super hot woman with a smokin' body but with serious mental problems.

2.  A regular looking woman who is seriously boring and you have no common interests.

3. A seriously ugly woman who weighs 250+ pounds but is really smart, a great cook, wonderful house wife, and loves sports as much as you.

Given my current marital issues/status I respectfully decline to state, but with my luck, I'd end up with a seriously ugly woman who weighs 250+, sucks at housework, is seriously boring, and has serious mental problems.

Just sayin.
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Gratiot on March 29, 2009, 07:29:24 PM
Given my current marital issues/status I respectfully decline to state, but with my luck, I'd end up with a seriously ugly woman who weighs 250+, sucks at housework, is seriously boring, and has serious mental problems.

Just sayin.

Sorry to hear, best of luck and prayers
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Toastedturningtidelegs on March 29, 2009, 07:29:37 PM
There are probably just as many crazy ass 250 lbs women as there are crazy hot women.
Yes! they are not mutually exclusive! I know really hot psychos and fat ugly psychos. I don't believe appearence or weight have anything to do with a persons mental capacity!  :cheersmate:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Toastedturningtidelegs on March 29, 2009, 07:38:21 PM
I'd probably go with none of the options and remain single.

Call me shallow, but physical appearances do come into the equation for those that I wish to spend the rest of my life with.
I agree. You can have an attractive normal woman!  :cheersmate:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Mr Mannn on March 29, 2009, 09:06:43 PM
I agree. You can have an attractive normal woman!  :cheersmate:
attractive normal woman: Oxymoron. There are NO normal women.
Try it on a wife. Snuggle up to her and whisper romantically in her ear, "Honey, you are so...normal."
Yeah, lets see how far that gets you.

numbers 1, 2, and 3 all want to hear that they are unique. When you see her you forget that any other woman is near. Her beauty rises with the sun each morning,  and when she's gone the stars shine a little less bright. God made the moon so her face and bathe in its soft light.

All women want to be #1. They WANT us to put up with bizarre mental conniptions because we are bewitched with her spell binding beauty. 
She is NOT a normal woman. At least that what you have to tell her.

Mr Mannn ~~~ still waiting for that super model God needs to punish.
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: DumbAss Tanker on March 29, 2009, 09:07:22 PM
Yes! they are not mutually exclusive! I know really hot psychos and fat ugly psychos. I don't believe appearence or weight have anything to do with a persons mental capacity!  :cheersmate:

I dunno, in my experience slender women with bony facial structure are all raving lunatics...of course most of them look that way exactly because they have mental problems, starting with anorexia or bulimia for the soup course of the banquet. 
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Gratiot on March 29, 2009, 09:10:12 PM
Mr Mannn ~~~ still waiting for that super model God needs to punish.

Have you tried searching Craigslist or Ebay?  :popcorn:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Mr Mannn on March 29, 2009, 09:14:27 PM
Have you tried searching Craigslist or Ebay?
I doubt I will see adds like: Help I'm a super model and I'm helplessly attracted to overweight, older guys with bad credit, Its like I'm being punished or something! I'm getting an M...No. Its two M's. Man..Mann...Mr Mannn. are you out there? Call me NOW!


Mr Mannn ~~~ his last hope is a Stepford Wife robotics breakthrough.
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: dutch508 on March 29, 2009, 09:18:33 PM
You know you want to touch it with your pole.


*I'm channeling Schade.  :p


Love you too, dear.

*suprisingly, also channeling Schadie!

 :-)
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Chris on March 29, 2009, 09:19:49 PM
I doubt I will see adds like: Help I'm a super model and I'm helplessly attracted to overweight, older guys with bad credit, Its like I'm being punished or something! I'm getting an M...No. Its two M's. Man..Mann...Mr Mannn. are you out there? Call me NOW!


Mr Mannn ~~~ his last hope is a Stepford Wife robotics breakthrough.

You poor fellow. :rofl:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Mr Mannn on March 29, 2009, 09:21:42 PM


MrMannn maybe that is why you are single? 

When I was 40 I gave up on dating. Up to then I was a dating machine. Since then I've got new cars, new computers...
Dang those gals sure eat a LOT!

Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Hawkgirl on March 29, 2009, 11:05:10 PM
I like think I'm fairly normal, fairly intelligent and fairly attractive.  I once had a boyfriend who chose another woman over me because she was "complex" and I was "simple"
Now, I've never been "accused" of being simple and I don't consider myself to be "simple"...however, that was the worst insult I've ever gotten... :lmao:

He did marry, about 8 years after our relationship, to a simple girl.

So, I truly believe men want a complex psycho bitch....just sayin... :-)


Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Toastedturningtidelegs on March 30, 2009, 03:38:05 AM
I dunno, in my experience slender women with bony facial structure are all raving lunatics...of course most of them look that way exactly because they have mental problems, starting with anorexia or bulimia for the soup course of the banquet. 
You don't get out much do you? Either that or you've been married since the beginning of time! :rotf:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Toastedturningtidelegs on March 30, 2009, 03:44:14 AM
I dunno, in my experience slender women with bony facial structure are all raving lunatics...of course most of them look that way exactly because they have mental problems, starting with anorexia or bulimia for the soup course of the banquet. 
Interesting! One could make the same argument that obese unnattractive women are that way because they have some mental or emotional issues as well. Ie. making themselves unnattractive to keep men at arms length. The black and white thinking can go both ways.
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Gratiot on March 30, 2009, 05:37:35 AM
Now, I've never been "accused" of being simple and I don't consider myself to be "simple"...however, that was the worst insult I've ever gotten... :lmao:

Eeks!  :(  Hugs
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: DumbAss Tanker on March 30, 2009, 06:37:44 AM
You don't get out much do you? Either that or you've been married since the beginning of time! :rotf:

Oh, sorry, didn't mean to make fun of your crazy Skeletor-lookin' girlfriend.
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: jtyangel on March 30, 2009, 06:39:12 AM
I didn't realize this was an either or proposition. either you are fat and mentally healthy(which I challenge for many overweight peole...just look at the ginormous former card dealer on DU) or you are thin and a total kook. I've gotten to know quite a few people that live in grey area we'll call healthy. You know, they are athletic or at least active, they care about their personal appearance, yet they are also well-balanced, emotionally stable people(not to be confused with perfect or unchallenged by daily problems which everyone is). Physical fitness has a way of balancing the mind in my experience and there are a vast number of people in the middle who just hope to stay healthy both physically and mentally.

I'm wondering if some people don't LOOK for issues or imperfections in a person to fit their particular opinion of what fat, skinny, overweight, fit, athletic, etc person should be like to suit their own notions of what that is. Just wanted to put that out there.
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: mamacags on March 30, 2009, 07:18:15 AM
I didn't realize this was an either or proposition. either you are fat and mentally healthy(which I challenge for many overweight peole...just look at the ginormous former card dealer on DU) or you are thin and a total kook. I've gotten to know quite a few people that live in grey area we'll call healthy. You know, they are athletic or at least active, they care about their personal appearance, yet they are also well-balanced, emotionally stable people(not to be confused with perfect or unchallenged by daily problems which everyone is). Physical fitness has a way of balancing the mind in my experience and there are a vast number of people in the middle who just hope to stay healthy both physically and mentally.

I'm wondering if some people don't LOOK for issues or imperfections in a person to fit their particular opinion of what fat, skinny, overweight, fit, athletic, etc person should be like to suit their own notions of what that is. Just wanted to put that out there.

It is only either/or in this thread, not in real life.
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: jtyangel on March 30, 2009, 07:39:19 AM
It is only either/or in this thread, not in real life.

Well then the original point is moot then if it does not exist in real life :???: A man can't force himself to be physically attractive to someone he is not, nor do men necessarily have to trade in mental stability to have someone who cares for their outside appearance.

I would guess the choice is more like this when you don't know either person really well on an initial meeting: "with all things being equal on the inside from what I can tell, I'll take the physically attractive one".

As much as us girls would like to deny it, men are visual creatures. I think that initial attraction means a lot because of that and when you consider most people do not know each other well on that initial attractiveness meeting, then it should answer your question of what men would pick and why...at least initially. Most would probably ditch the headcase though no matter how beautiful if given the chance AND THEN look for another attractive woman that has ALL the qualities that they want. Just a learning and growing experience for most.

Plus I would submit that some people would think a very overweight person is wearing their mental health issues on the outside already kinda like one would be saying get away with 20 facial piercings. Kinda like a big warning flag. It may not be true necessarily, but it probably does give someone pause if you don't know the whys of why the weight is there becuase there are plenty of women for whom the weight is intimately tied to mental health issues they have. The argument obviously being that with a slender woman, she's not wearing a badge of her issues right on her sleeve for all the world to see which makes her more agreeable, initially, to your average guy.

I wasn't trying to ruffle your feathers, mama, I just think you've given the guys an impossible and unrealistic choice. I think you have a great thread going here, offshoots and all.  :bow: Heck, I've been insanely busy and I got out for this one and the ewww thread so  :cheersmate:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Toastedturningtidelegs on March 30, 2009, 07:53:32 AM
Oh, sorry, didn't mean to make fun of your crazy Skeletor-lookin' girlfriend.
:lmao: My size 8/10 girlfriend is laughing at your wrong headed assumption! Keep tryin pops! :rotf:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: BEG on March 30, 2009, 08:13:02 AM
:lmao: My size 8/10 girlfriend is laughing at your wrong headed assumption! Keep tryin pops! :rotf:

I thought I was your girlfriend.  :bawl:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Toastedturningtidelegs on March 30, 2009, 08:18:30 AM
I thought I was your girlfriend.  :bawl:
Ooops! My size 4/6 girlfriend?  :lmao: Gotta learn to keep you girls sizes straight! :-)
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: BEG on March 30, 2009, 08:28:51 AM
Ooops! My size 4/6 girlfriend?  :lmao: Gotta learn to keep you girls sizes straight! :-)

You still have your girlfiends confused.  I'm not a size 6.  :tongue:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Toastedturningtidelegs on March 30, 2009, 08:37:13 AM
You still have your girlfiends confused.  I'm not a size 6.  :tongue:
2/4? :-)
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Toastedturningtidelegs on March 30, 2009, 08:44:17 AM
You still have your girlfiends confused.  I'm not a size 6.  :tongue:
Careful Sweetie! Dumbass Tanker may come along and call you Skeletor! :-)
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: DumbAss Tanker on March 30, 2009, 09:06:35 AM
:lmao: My size 8/10 girlfriend is laughing at your wrong headed assumption! Keep tryin pops! :rotf:

You'll learn to listen to the voice of experience someday, I suppose, after you actually have some yourself, sonny-Jim.

 :lmao:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Taxman on March 30, 2009, 09:10:31 AM
I realize that I am late to the party, but I could never be attracted to an obese woman.  I would likely settle for number 2 and make the best of it.  I think we could eventually find some common ground.  Number one would be tempting but I am not sure I could tolerate the resultant headaches after awhile.  However a little Taxman therapy on a number 1 would have her as sane as can be after a few sessions on the couch.  :-)
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Schadenfreude on March 30, 2009, 09:16:06 AM
I do think that the wall flowers who become not so bad looking as adults fare best out of this deal.
I was fortunate that I was a late bloomer. I had no other choice but to use my personality and wit to compete with the hotties.

That's my theory and I'm sticking to it.  :tongue:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Toastedturningtidelegs on March 30, 2009, 09:20:07 AM
You'll learn to listen to the voice of experience someday, I suppose, after you actually have some yourself, sonny-Jim.

 :lmao:
It's all good gramps! Do you actually believe that there is no middle ground where a person can be healthy both mentally and physically?  :lmao:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Taxman on March 30, 2009, 09:29:28 AM
I do think that the wall flowers who become not so bad looking as adults fare best out of this deal.
I was fortunate that I was a late bloomer. I had no other choice but to use my personality and wit to compete with the hotties.

That's my theory and I'm sticking to it.  :tongue:

I just cannot imagine someone hotter than you.   :-)
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Toastedturningtidelegs on March 30, 2009, 09:30:05 AM
I do think that the wall flowers who become not so bad looking as adults fare best out of this deal.
I was fortunate that I was a late bloomer. I had no other choice but to use my personality and wit to compete with the hotties.

That's my theory and I'm sticking to it.  :tongue:
Quiet down over there Skeletor!  :-) :-*
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: mamacags on March 30, 2009, 10:35:55 AM
Well then the original point is moot then if it does not exist in real life :???: A man can't force himself to be physically attractive to someone he is not, nor do men necessarily have to trade in mental stability to have someone who cares for their outside appearance.

I would guess the choice is more like this when you don't know either person really well on an initial meeting: "with all things being equal on the inside from what I can tell, I'll take the physically attractive one".

As much as us girls would like to deny it, men are visual creatures. I think that initial attraction means a lot because of that and when you consider most people do not know each other well on that initial attractiveness meeting, then it should answer your question of what men would pick and why...at least initially. Most would probably ditch the headcase though no matter how beautiful if given the chance AND THEN look for another attractive woman that has ALL the qualities that they want. Just a learning and growing experience for most.

Plus I would submit that some people would think a very overweight person is wearing their mental health issues on the outside already kinda like one would be saying get away with 20 facial piercings. Kinda like a big warning flag. It may not be true necessarily, but it probably does give someone pause if you don't know the whys of why the weight is there becuase there are plenty of women for whom the weight is intimately tied to mental health issues they have. The argument obviously being that with a slender woman, she's not wearing a badge of her issues right on her sleeve for all the world to see which makes her more agreeable, initially, to your average guy.

I wasn't trying to ruffle your feathers, mama, I just think you've given the guys an impossible and unrealistic choice. I think you have a great thread going here, offshoots and all.  :bow: Heck, I've been insanely busy and I got out for this one and the ewww thread so  :cheersmate:

I wasn't upset.  My original point was if guys would put up with insanity to have a super hot wife or not.  I was just curious.  I wasn't going for realism in any sense.  I had a question for the women here too.  Would you be willing to marry a super ugly gross guy if he was seriously rich, would you marry a super hot guy that was dumb as rocks, or would you marry a normal looking guy who posts 1000+ posts a month on DU?
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Schadenfreude on March 30, 2009, 10:37:35 AM
I just cannot imagine someone hotter than you.   :-)

I just have the power to make you think that.  :naughty:

My minor in Psychology and my undeniable power of persuasion has really paid off.
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Sweet Dee on March 30, 2009, 10:39:01 AM
This thread amuses me :)  lol
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Schadenfreude on March 30, 2009, 10:39:41 AM
Quiet down over there Skeletor!  :-) :-*

As I grab another truffle and simultaneously pinch a fat roll.  :evillaugh:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Schadenfreude on March 30, 2009, 10:40:15 AM
This thread amuses me :)  lol

You want me too.  :evillaugh:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Schadenfreude on March 30, 2009, 10:41:34 AM
I wasn't upset.  My original point was if guys would put up with insanity to have a super hot wife or not.  I was just curious.  I wasn't going for realism in any sense.  I had a question for the women here too.  Would you be willing to marry a super ugly gross guy if he was seriously rich, would you marry a super hot guy that was dumb as rocks, or would you marry a normal looking guy who posts 1000+ posts a month on DU?

Eeek... this is mirroring real life.

Just kidding boys!  :evillaugh:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Eupher on March 30, 2009, 10:43:17 AM
Having been romantically involved with at least one nutcase, who happened to be strikingly beautiful, I can say with complete authority that that's a Hell unlike anything I ever want to go through again.

That said, the idea of hooking up with a 300-pounder ain't my idea of heaven, either.

I like the wallflower analogy. Wallflowers are far less needy, require no "high maintenance" and are much more inclined to be "normal" in all the usual ways.

The old expression, "Beauty is skin deep, but ugly goes right to the bone" isn't entirely true.  :innocent: 
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: BEG on March 30, 2009, 10:47:59 AM
Having been romantically involved with at least one nutcase, who happened to be strikingly beautiful, I can say with complete authority that that's a Hell unlike anything I ever want to go through again.

That said, the idea of hooking up with a 300-pounder ain't my idea of heaven, either.

I like the wallflower analogy. Wallflowers are far less needy, require no "high maintenance" and are much more inclined to be "normal" in all the usual ways.

The old expression, "Beauty is skin deep, but ugly goes right to the bone" isn't entirely true.  :innocent: 

Oh Schade's type of wallflower is VERY HIGH MAINTENANCE.  Don't say I didn't warn ya....just sayin'.   :p
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: BEG on March 30, 2009, 10:49:20 AM
I wasn't upset.  My original point was if guys would put up with insanity to have a super hot wife or not.  I was just curious.  I wasn't going for realism in any sense.  I had a question for the women here too.  Would you be willing to marry a super ugly gross guy if he was seriously rich, would you marry a super hot guy that was dumb as rocks, or would you marry a normal looking guy who posts 1000+ posts a month on DU?

I would rather be single or live with Schade. 

*By the way, there are no normal guys who post on DU (unless you are a mole). 
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Eupher on March 30, 2009, 10:51:17 AM
Oh Schade's type of wallflower is VERY HIGH MAINTENANCE.  Don't say I didn't warn ya....just sayin'.   :p

Hmmm. Well, there are exceptions to every rule.

Wallflowers can "come into their own" and realize just what they've been missing. That's the first step toward insanity..... :evillaugh:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Celtic Rose on March 30, 2009, 10:52:18 AM
I wasn't upset.  My original point was if guys would put up with insanity to have a super hot wife or not.  I was just curious.  I wasn't going for realism in any sense.  I had a question for the women here too.  Would you be willing to marry a super ugly gross guy if he was seriously rich, would you marry a super hot guy that was dumb as rocks, or would you marry a normal looking guy who posts 1000+ posts a month on DU?

I think the convent looks like the best choice out of those  :cheersmate:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: BEG on March 30, 2009, 10:53:22 AM
Hmmm. Well, there are exceptions to every rule.

Wallflowers can "come into their own" and realize just what they've been missing. That's the first step toward insanity..... :evillaugh:

I was kidding, Schade is extremely normal.   :lmao:  Seriously....I swear.   :-)
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Sweet Dee on March 30, 2009, 10:55:01 AM
I think the convent looks like the best choice out of those  :cheersmate:
]

lol  agreed :)
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Eupher on March 30, 2009, 10:55:49 AM
I was kidding, Schade is extremely normal.   :lmao:  Seriously....I swear.   :-)

And so was I. Kidding, that is.  :evillaugh:

I have seen on these pages what Schade's capable of. And you're not too far behind her.  :hyper:

 :-)
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: BEG on March 30, 2009, 10:57:14 AM
And so was I. Kidding, that is.  :evillaugh:

I have seen on these pages what Schade's capable of. And you're not too far behind her.  :hyper:

 :-)

Nuh uh, I'm a good girl I am. 
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Eupher on March 30, 2009, 10:58:18 AM
Nuh uh, I'm a good girl I am. 

Of course you are.  :evillaugh:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: jtyangel on March 30, 2009, 10:58:49 AM
You'll learn to listen to the voice of experience someday, I suppose, after you actually have some yourself, sonny-Jim.

 :lmao:

Experience dictates that only heavy, unattractive women are sane? So what happens to once fat women who are now average/athletic? Did they automatically lose the sanity jackpot?  :popcorn:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: jtyangel on March 30, 2009, 10:59:25 AM
I do think that the wall flowers who become not so bad looking as adults fare best out of this deal.
I was fortunate that I was a late bloomer. I had no other choice but to use my personality and wit to compete with the hotties.

That's my theory and I'm sticking to it.  :tongue:

For me, it was being a smartass and dying my hair really really red. I get you!  :naughty: :-)
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: BEG on March 30, 2009, 10:59:42 AM
Of course you are.  :evillaugh:

I could always show you just how good I am.  

*Somebody smack me, I'm channeling Schade again.  
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: jtyangel on March 30, 2009, 11:00:05 AM
I just cannot imagine someone hotter than you.   :-)
:maddernhell: :maddernhell: :angryvillagers:



 :-)
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Schadenfreude on March 30, 2009, 11:00:08 AM
Hmmm. Well, there are exceptions to every rule.

Wallflowers can "come into their own" and realize just what they've been missing. That's the first step toward insanity..... :evillaugh:

You are reading me like a book.  :o
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Schadenfreude on March 30, 2009, 11:00:43 AM
I would rather be single or live with Schade. 

*By the way, there are no normal guys who post on DU (unless you are a mole). 

I'll make you feel goood.
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: BEG on March 30, 2009, 11:00:48 AM
Experience dictates that only heavy, unattractive women are sane? So what happens to once fat women who are now average/athletic? Did they automatically lose the sanity jackpot?  :popcorn:

You are far from "average" but you did jump the crazy train a long long time ago.  
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Eupher on March 30, 2009, 11:00:51 AM
I could always show you just how good I am.  

*Somebody smack me, I'm channeling Schade again.  

Perhaps you could. But you won't. At least not yet.  :evillaugh:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Schadenfreude on March 30, 2009, 11:01:30 AM
For me, it was being a smartass and dying my hair really really red. I get you!  :naughty: :-)

Hello Ginger!
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: jtyangel on March 30, 2009, 11:02:04 AM
I wasn't upset.  My original point was if guys would put up with insanity to have a super hot wife or not.  I was just curious.  I wasn't going for realism in any sense.  I had a question for the women here too.  Would you be willing to marry a super ugly gross guy if he was seriously rich, would you marry a super hot guy that was dumb as rocks, or would you marry a normal looking guy who posts 1000+ posts a month on DU?

I'm sorry for making assumptions then. I've just been called a few choice names before for putting my opinion with so sometimes I feel like I have to preface anything I say.

As for your question. The DU affiliation automatically would disqualify #3. And #1, gross is the key word there...if a guy was stinky and just filthy, all the money in the world can't make up for that. I guess I'd take #2 and make the best of it, especially if he had other mad skillz.  :-)
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: BEG on March 30, 2009, 11:02:09 AM
Perhaps you could. But you won't. At least not yet.  :evillaugh:

Perk.....explain further.   :hyper:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Schadenfreude on March 30, 2009, 11:02:16 AM
I could always show you just how good I am.  

*Somebody smack me, I'm channeling Schade again.  

I am here for ya! :evillaugh:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: jtyangel on March 30, 2009, 11:02:51 AM
As I grab another truffle and simultaneously pinch a fat roll.  :evillaugh:

That's muscle! Skelator was musculor below his chin.  :-)
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Schadenfreude on March 30, 2009, 11:03:41 AM
That's muscle! Skelator was musculor below his chin.  :-)

I don't care who you are, that there was funny!  :lmao:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: BEG on March 30, 2009, 11:04:18 AM
I am here for ya! :evillaugh:

As always.   :-*
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Eupher on March 30, 2009, 11:05:09 AM
Perk.....explain further.   :hyper:

[In my best Margaret Hamilton voice] - "In good time, my pretty."
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: jtyangel on March 30, 2009, 11:05:25 AM
Having been romantically involved with at least one nutcase, who happened to be strikingly beautiful, I can say with complete authority that that's a Hell unlike anything I ever want to go through again.

That said, the idea of hooking up with a 300-pounder ain't my idea of heaven, either.

I like the wallflower analogy. Wallflowers are far less needy, require no "high maintenance" and are much more inclined to be "normal" in all the usual ways.

The old expression, "Beauty is skin deep, but ugly goes right to the bone" isn't entirely true.  :innocent: 

But that does get to the heart about misconceptions. Some women who are now very fetching were once those wallflowers, yet some people might make assumptions that they were always what they are now as middle aged women. As adults, they are still low-maintenance, but have perhaps gained better skills when it comes to their outside or are more astute at letting what's in show out if that makes sense.
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: BEG on March 30, 2009, 11:06:22 AM
Hello Ginger!

[youtube=425,350]yEYi7XPs3ew[/youtube]

Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Eupher on March 30, 2009, 11:06:28 AM
But that does get to the heart about misconceptions. Some women who are now very fetching were once those wallflowers, yet some people might make assumptions that they were always what they are now as middle aged women. As adults, they are still low-maintenance, but have perhaps gained better skills when it comes to their outside or are more astute at letting what's in show out if that makes sense.

Complete agree with you.

h5  :cheersmate:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: jtyangel on March 30, 2009, 11:08:18 AM
You are far from "average" but you did jump the crazy train a long long time ago.  

Yeah, well you have to be a little nuts to torture yourself through athletic conditioning.  :-)
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: BEG on March 30, 2009, 11:08:30 AM
But that does get to the heart about misconceptions. Some women who are now very fetching were once those wallflowers, yet some people might make assumptions that they were always what they are now as middle aged women. As adults, they are still low-maintenance, but have perhaps gained better skills when it comes to their outside or are more astute at letting what's in show out if that makes sense.


I wont lie, I have always been high maintenance but I swear I'm not a psycho.  
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: jtyangel on March 30, 2009, 11:08:48 AM
Hello Ginger!

Shut your mouth!  :bawl:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: jtyangel on March 30, 2009, 11:10:35 AM
I don't care who you are, that there was funny!  :lmao:

He had a face only Forensic Files could love. I wonder where Skelator falls in the 3 male choices? Do you think he posts on DU?
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: BEG on March 30, 2009, 11:12:40 AM
He had a face only Forensic Files could love. I wonder where Skelator falls in the 3 male choices? Do you think he posts on DU?

Skelator is kind of hot:

(http://talleywhackers.files.wordpress.com/2009/01/skeletor_1024.jpg)

Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: dutch508 on March 30, 2009, 11:14:14 AM
BEG...you have some issues.



(but I can dig that.)
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: BEG on March 30, 2009, 11:16:11 AM
BEG...you have some issues.



(but I can dig that.)

Is it the Skelator attraction? 
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Eupher on March 30, 2009, 11:16:52 AM
Is it the Skelator attraction? 

No, it's the Roman thong thing. You're wondering if he's naked underneath that thing.
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: jtyangel on March 30, 2009, 11:18:01 AM
[youtube=425,350]yEYi7XPs3ew[/youtube]



Mia will not be pleased :evillaugh:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: dutch508 on March 30, 2009, 11:20:58 AM
Is it the Skelator attraction? 

I do have a shaved head...
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: jtyangel on March 30, 2009, 11:22:34 AM
I do have a shaved head...

Gotta be a close shave if you are going for the skeletor look :lmao:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Sweet Dee on March 30, 2009, 11:23:32 AM
Gotta be a close shave if you are going for the skeletor look :lmao:

 :lmao:   :rotf:  brilliant.
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: BEG on March 30, 2009, 11:27:56 AM
Gotta be a close shave if you are going for the skeletor look :lmao:

Spit my water right onto my keyboard.  LOL
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: BEG on March 30, 2009, 11:28:36 AM
No, it's the Roman thong thing. You're wondering if he's naked underneath that thing.

Well he does have tights on, I hope he's not ghey. 
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Eupher on March 30, 2009, 11:32:10 AM
Well he does have tights on, I hope he's not ghey. 

You never can tell with those Marvel guys. And gals.
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: dutch508 on March 30, 2009, 11:36:05 AM
Gotta be a close shave if you are going for the skeletor look :lmao:

h5, sweetie!




(bitch)
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: jtyangel on March 30, 2009, 11:49:53 AM
h5, sweetie!




(bitch)

I'm confused did I get bitchslapped or hi 5d :lmao: :-*
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: dutch508 on March 30, 2009, 11:52:13 AM
I'm confused did I get bitchslapped or hi 5d :lmao: :-*


if you don't know, then it didn't hurt much!

(h5'd, btw)
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: debk on March 30, 2009, 12:04:44 PM
I was the super, super skinny wallflower in high school....couldn't buy a date.  :bawl:

Dated when I first went college, then went with a good-looking, super eogtistical jock for 3 years of college....he married the chubby blonde sorority girl.  :argh:

Met and married a good-looking, super egotistical doctor at 24.....and became a blonde....:badmood:

Separated at 39, divorced at 40 and became a redhead....which for some reason brought me confidence.  :evillaugh:

At almost 41, met a super smart, confident, normal looking guy who made me feel like I was the sexiest woman in the world and who taught me to like and respect myself .....and I'm still with him 15 years later!    :naughty:

12 months of therapy at 48 made me realize I was basically normal... :-)

Now, at 56....I'm not skinny and I have some wrinkles and a lot of gray hair hiding under the red, I am smart, and most importantly...I'm pretty content with myself and my life.  :shucks:

Maybe...just getting older is the answer to becoming content.... :II:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: jtyangel on March 30, 2009, 12:06:52 PM
I was the super, super skinny wallflower in high school....couldn't buy a date.  :bawl:

Dated when I first went college, then went with a good-looking, super eogtistical jock for 3 years of college....he married the chubby blonde sorority girl.  :argh:

Met and married a good-looking, super egotistical doctor at 24.....and became a blonde....:badmood:

Separated at 39, divorced at 40 and became a redhead....which for some reason brought me confidence.  :evillaugh:

At almost 41, met a super smart, confident, normal looking guy who made me feel like I was the sexiest woman in the world and who taught me to like and respect myself .....and I'm still with him 15 years later!    :naughty:

12 months of therapy at 48 made me realize I was basically normal... :-)

Now, at 56....I'm not skinny and I have some wrinkles and a lot of gray hair hiding under the red, I am smart, and most importantly...I'm pretty content with myself and my life.  :shucks:

Maybe...just getting older is the answer to becoming content.... :II:


Wow, our paths are eerily similar with small minor detail-like changes. I'm at your red head phase btw.  :uhsure: :-)
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: debk on March 30, 2009, 12:17:02 PM
Wow, our paths are eerily similar with small minor detail-like changes. I'm at your red head phase btw.  :uhsure: :-)

Becoming a redhead was the best thing I ever did....and it all came about because the dark dye job I did to get rid of the blonde turned green! Went back to my hairdresser and he made my hair red and that was in 1991 before being a redhead was popular.

My naturally dark hair was boring, and the blonde represented my stupidity... that is no reflection on blondes...but represented the Stepford wife that I had become because it was what I thought I had to be to be the "proper doctor's wife"...

The red was the "new" me....the one who learned to finally stick up for herself, know that I was a decent mother and human being, and that I wasn't someone's incompetent, ignorant daughter, step sister, wife......
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: BEG on March 30, 2009, 12:27:11 PM
Becoming a redhead was the best thing I ever did....and it all came about because the dark dye job I did to get rid of the blonde turned green! Went back to my hairdresser and he made my hair red and that was in 1991 before being a redhead was popular.

My naturally dark hair was boring, and the blonde represented my stupidity... that is no reflection on blondes...but represented the Stepford wife that I had become because it was what I thought I had to be to be the "proper doctor's wife"...

The red was the "new" me....the one who learned to finally stick up for herself, know that I was a decent mother and human being, and that I wasn't someone's incompetent, ignorant daughter, step sister, wife......

Me too, my hair kept getting blonder and blonder so I tried to dye it a dark blonde/light brown and it turned a greenish blue.  Had to get it dyed red to cover up the green.  It was a fairly dark auburn color and I immediately knew I looked much better with darker hair.  I have had various shades of red and brown ever since.
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: formerlurker on March 30, 2009, 12:34:54 PM
I was the super, super skinny wallflower in high school....couldn't buy a date.  :bawl:

Dated when I first went college, then went with a good-looking, super eogtistical jock for 3 years of college....he married the chubby blonde sorority girl.  :argh:

Met and married a good-looking, super egotistical doctor at 24.....and became a blonde....:badmood:

Separated at 39, divorced at 40 and became a redhead....which for some reason brought me confidence.  :evillaugh:

At almost 41, met a super smart, confident, normal looking guy who made me feel like I was the sexiest woman in the world and who taught me to like and respect myself .....and I'm still with him 15 years later!    :naughty:

12 months of therapy at 48 made me realize I was basically normal... :-)

Now, at 56....I'm not skinny and I have some wrinkles and a lot of gray hair hiding under the red, I am smart, and most importantly...I'm pretty content with myself and my life.  :shucks:

Maybe...just getting older is the answer to becoming content.... :II:


H5 -- great post!
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: jtyangel on March 30, 2009, 12:43:51 PM
Becoming a redhead was the best thing I ever did....and it all came about because the dark dye job I did to get rid of the blonde turned green! Went back to my hairdresser and he made my hair red and that was in 1991 before being a redhead was popular.

My naturally dark hair was boring, and the blonde represented my stupidity... that is no reflection on blondes...but represented the Stepford wife that I had become because it was what I thought I had to be to be the "proper doctor's wife"...

The red was the "new" me....the one who learned to finally stick up for herself, know that I was a decent mother and human being, and that I wasn't someone's incompetent, ignorant daughter, step sister, wife......

Hi 5! I was a redhead(dyed) as an older teen and young adult(also during the 'not popular to be a redhead phase' :cheersmate:. I suppose for me I'm reclaiming some of the person I lost along the way so I know where you are coming from! I won't bore you with the details, but it feels pretty damn good to be where I am at now. Not always comfortable or easy, but definitely better!
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Tucker on March 30, 2009, 04:19:40 PM
1. A super hot woman with a smokin' body but with serious mental problems.

I'm shallow. :lmao:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Miss Mia on March 30, 2009, 04:30:23 PM
Becoming a redhead was the best thing I ever did....and it all came about because the dark dye job I did to get rid of the blonde turned green! Went back to my hairdresser and he made my hair red and that was in 1991 before being a redhead was popular.

My naturally dark hair was boring, and the blonde represented my stupidity... that is no reflection on blondes...but represented the Stepford wife that I had become because it was what I thought I had to be to be the "proper doctor's wife"...

The red was the "new" me....the one who learned to finally stick up for herself, know that I was a decent mother and human being, and that I wasn't someone's incompetent, ignorant daughter, step sister, wife......

Me too, my hair kept getting blonder and blonder so I tried to dye it a dark blonde/light brown and it turned a greenish blue.  Had to get it died red to cover up the green.  It was a fairly dark auburn color and I immediately knew I looked much better with darker hair.  I have had various shades of red and brown ever since.

Hi 5! I was a redhead(dyed) as an older teen and young adult(also during the 'not popular to be a redhead phase' :cheersmate:. I suppose for me I'm reclaiming some of the person I lost along the way so I know where you are coming from! I won't bore you with the details, but it feels pretty damn good to be where I am at now. Not always comfortable or easy, but definitely better!


Damn straight, red heads are the best!  :wink:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: debk on March 30, 2009, 04:36:09 PM

Damn straight, red heads are the best!  :wink:

Redheads rule.... :-)


you either have to be one....or live with one to understand.  :evillaugh:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: LC EFA on March 30, 2009, 05:24:52 PM
#1 - Because insanity is a two way street  :evillaugh:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Duke Nukum on March 30, 2009, 07:16:38 PM
Under those conditions, why would any man choose to get married?

#3 sounds like a buddy more than a wife and so there is no need to marry her if you go to your 250+lb buddy who loves to cook for the games.  She'll probably be there too so we can all hang out at Ted's house and not have to get married.

#1, well for a while I was with a non-hot woman with serious mental problems and so hot or not, no thanks.

That leaves #2, why are we getting married again?  Anyway, since I have my own interests and she has her own interests and she isn't insane so we could probably live together for a long time without ever seeing each other so I guess that is the best choice.

But really, if one is limited to these three choices, what is the point?  Marriage isn't compulsory.
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Celtic Rose on March 30, 2009, 07:18:13 PM

Damn straight, red heads are the best!  :wink:

Yes Ma'am! :wink:
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: ReardenSteel on March 30, 2009, 09:42:38 PM
Number 4- I'm holding out for a 95 year old, heavy smoking, multi-millionaire with a tricky ticker (sound mind needed) who just want's me to clean her pools all day and do some shirtless housework.

Really I'd have to go with #3 if any. Extra weight is not a really big deal to me if most of it is in the right places and a person is hygienic. Plus, if she were as into sports as I am, we could work out together if for no other reassons than good health and a longer life together. (I like big butts and I can not lie)

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Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: rich_t on March 30, 2009, 10:19:48 PM
These are your only options...

You have a choice of three women to marry.  Only three women in this contest.  Which one would you pick and why?

1. A super hot woman with a smokin' body but with serious mental problems.

2.  A regular looking woman who is seriously boring and you have no common interests.

3. A seriously ugly woman who weighs 250+ pounds but is really smart, a great cook, wonderful house wife, and loves sports as much as you.

None of the above.
Title: Re: Guys a question for you.
Post by: Wineslob on March 31, 2009, 11:32:20 AM
"Masturbation for 1000, Alex".