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Alarimer's boyfriend lives in his daughters basement
« on: April 08, 2014, 06:38:21 AM »
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Mon Apr 7, 2014, 11:09 PM
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Worried about my boyfriend
He recently moved to the DC area to be closer to me and to his daughter who lives there. He just started a brand-new job and apparently there is some of the usual new-job bullshit he has to deal with. It's been two weeks of training and meetings and a lot of nonsense that is starting to wear him down a little.

I don't even think that's the real issue. Once he gets into his actual job, it should be okay.

The other problem (and a bigger one) is that is currently living in his daughter's basement and miserable. He shares his bed with his young grandson (who is about 3), because the house is full.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/1018602437

Hard to know where to start on this one from a disfunctional family point of view. The main point, from Alarmer's perspective is that her boyfriend would rather sleep in a urine soaked bed than in hers.

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I am looking for a job and eventually he and I will live together, but in the meantime I don't know what to tell him.

Not enough room in Momma alarmers basement? What about the attic?

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1. Too few facts to enable me to be helpful,

but I hope he finds something better.


What great insights you have elleng.

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5. Be the sounding board

for your bf if you must, but stay out of the family situation - don't even offer opinions/solutions. When it comes to family, an outsider will always be an outsider!
  

In alarmer's case, a way outsider!

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Re: Alarimer's boyfriend lives in his daughters basement
« Reply #1 on: April 08, 2014, 07:18:33 AM »
It doesn't sound like he's getting off to a good start with new job, either. 
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Re: Alarimer's boyfriend lives in his daughters basement
« Reply #2 on: April 08, 2014, 07:28:09 AM »
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It's been two weeks of training and meetings and a lot of nonsense that is starting to wear him down a little.

Are you ****ing serious???  It's a job!!! Me thinks the primitives BF has probably not worked in awhile and would rather be living off of our tax dollars.
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Re: Alarimer's boyfriend lives in his daughters basement
« Reply #3 on: April 08, 2014, 08:04:55 AM »
 :lol: I know, right?
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Re: Alarimer's boyfriend lives in his daughters basement
« Reply #4 on: April 08, 2014, 09:16:40 AM »
DUmmies don't do stress well.  That's usually a requirement for most jobs, if not life in general.  Don't know when I never had stress caused by a demanding boss, time schedules, unexpected events, etc.





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Re: Alarimer's boyfriend lives in his daughters basement
« Reply #5 on: April 08, 2014, 09:21:19 AM »

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Hard to know where to start on this one from a disfunctional family point of view. The main point, from Alarmer's perspective is that her boyfriend would rather sleep in a urine soaked bed than in hers
Are we sure that alarimer is a she? (Not that it matters . . .)
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Re: Alarimer's boyfriend lives in his daughters basement
« Reply #6 on: April 08, 2014, 09:41:41 AM »
Quote from: Mary Ann on April 08, 2014, 09:21:19 AM
Are we sure that alarimer is a she? (Not that it matters . . .)

Yeah, alarimer is a chick.


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Re: Alarimer's boyfriend lives in his daughters basement
« Reply #7 on: April 08, 2014, 09:53:07 AM »
Isn't this the same guy that's trying to kill her?  These DUmmies all look the same to me.
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Re: Alarimer's boyfriend lives in his daughters basement
« Reply #8 on: April 08, 2014, 10:06:55 AM »
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Worried about my boyfriend
He recently moved to the DC area to be closer to me and to his daughter who lives there. He just started a brand-new job and apparently there is some of the usual new-job bullshit he has to deal with. It's been two weeks of training and meetings and a lot of nonsense that is starting to wear him down a little.

I don't even think that's the real issue. Once he gets into his actual job, it should be okay.

The other problem (and a bigger one) is that is currently living in his daughter's basement and miserable. He shares his bed with his young grandson (who is about 3), because the house is full.

You are both ****ed up if you don`t see a problem with that.
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Re: Alarimer's boyfriend lives in his daughters basement
« Reply #9 on: April 08, 2014, 10:21:24 AM »
Alarimer is a fish biologist up in the northeast. She's even been published.

I ran her down once but it seemed inconsequential. She was easy to home in on because she flaps online alot...not just on DU.

Using Google maps I stood outside of her apartment, seemed like a nice place...the neighborhood and all.
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Re: Alarimer's boyfriend lives in his daughters basement
« Reply #10 on: April 08, 2014, 10:48:19 AM »
Quote from: EagleKeeper on April 08, 2014, 10:21:24 AM
Alarimer is a fish biologist up in the northeast. She's even been published.

In the OP she states that she is looking for a job. Not to imply that she isn't working now.
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Re: Alarimer's boyfriend lives in his daughters basement
« Reply #11 on: April 08, 2014, 11:16:26 AM »
Quote from: fatboy on April 08, 2014, 10:48:19 AM
In the OP she states that she is looking for a job. Not to imply that she isn't working now.

I do stand corrected, she was in North Carolina working for NCDENR.

http://portal.ncdenr.org/web/guest/contacts

You can search for Larimer and find her.
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Re: Alarimer's boyfriend lives in his daughters basement
« Reply #12 on: April 08, 2014, 11:40:11 AM »
Move to Tucson.
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Re: Alarimer's boyfriend lives in his daughters basement
« Reply #13 on: April 08, 2014, 12:05:42 PM »
Quote from: EagleKeeper on April 08, 2014, 09:41:41 AM
Yeah, alarimer is a chick.



 
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Re: Alarimer's boyfriend lives in his daughters basement
« Reply #14 on: April 08, 2014, 04:36:49 PM »
Since Alarmier is a biologist, she must certainly realize that a basement is a primitive's natural habitat. She should just leave her  B/F where he can thrive.
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Re: Alarimer's boyfriend lives in his daughters basement
« Reply #15 on: April 08, 2014, 07:45:17 PM »
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It's been two weeks of training and meetings and a lot of nonsense that is starting to wear him down a little.

Of course, for  chronically unemployed (D)Ummies, this equals:




Quote from: miskie on April 08, 2014, 04:36:49 PM
Since Alarmier is a biologist, she must certainly realize that a basement is a primitive's natural habitat. She should just leave her  B/F where he can thrive.
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