Some kind of crap here.
Wake up in the night and find someone in your home that you did not invite and ---now what ?
We have seen in the last few years kids kidnapped, and adults raped and killed by people that get into the house. Not a good feeling to know someone may be climbing in a window at night for any reason.
We are not about to confront a stranger and ask them "what the heck are you doing here in the dark." Good way to get your own head blown off.
Got kids in their teens, let them know if they invite friends into the home at any time without your knowing it, there could be some blood spilled, yours, your kids, or the person they let in.
I had at one time a daughter that for some reason allowed a young man to stay in the cellar for a few days. He never left the cellar as I had 2 Dobe's that wandered the house day and night.
I had no idea the male was down there until the dogs alerted me there was something going on . I called the cops and they came and got the kid out of the cellar, he was an escapee from a detention center that had sweet talked my daughter into hiding him.
Daughter did not know he was held on charges of assaulting his 3 year old sister.
Never know who your kids will meet and feel sorry for, sneak them into the house to get fed or what ever.
Walk into a child's bedroom at night and find someone there, this is when one does not ask questions, the questions only come after a parent has taken a unknown threat out one way or the other.
Teach your boys well, never go a hunting a female even if she opens the door to let you in, tells you it is OK, Daddy or Mommy may wake up and that is the end of ones life right there and then.