New warning posted at the over-50 dating site:
DANGER
HERE THERE BE DUMMIES
ABANDON HOPE, ALL YE WHO ENTER HERE
We need to be realistic about this, who to go to for realism but ones mother in her 80-90's
When one goes to the sunbelt as a widow or divorced, the old farts will be all over you as long as you are under 70 with money from a deceased partner.
They have no interest in these older woman, they want a younger woman much younger then them, female companionship yes but also nursing care that is free and a live in woman to be their house keeper. Check any pre nep you as a woman sign. Sex is seldom involved in this.
Then there are the assisted living facilities, One grand mother in late 70's got into an altercation with another woman that was jealous of her and her 5 year friend wanted to spend time with my grandma then her. This was messy, and unexpected for us the family.
When I went into the field I was amazed at the depths of need of the older generation. Most of these people had spent 40 years of their life going without to educate and prepare their children to become adults. Their partner was gone and there were few to reminisce about old times. The ups and downs of living as a young adult and knew them.
I cannot tell you the number of patients that had sacrificed their lives for children who they had not seen in a couple years.
Just because the mother or father has enough money to pay for nursing care and a twice a year visit or never going to visit the parent because it makes the kids depressed and sad is no excuse.
Rant, darn once a parent is not cared for by family, and left to others to care for them ,
is this not worse then abortion and rejection from family that just wait for the parent to kick over and get what ever what these people struggled to make sure you are safe and secure.
