You can't lose. Both look good.
That said, I've always liked long hair on a girl. (somehing to play with) 

I was hoping you would be easy on me. I just wonder if I am too old to pull off long hair.
No, on most women, longer hair softens the face so it should be good as one ages, so long as it is cared for and worn appropriately. Either way, you look great, Schade. The thing I like about short hair on you is it shows off your neck. You've got a great neck!