People are born that way and as such they deserve to live their lives as they see fit. Not only are they allowed to live their lives they are to be encouraged to express themselves openly and anyone who does not agree should be driven from society.
Please keep that in mind.
But then try to explain this...
leftyladyfrommo (7,113 posts)
Will men ever start seeing woman as people first, sex objects last?
This topic really bothers me. I'm old now so men don't see me as a sexual person any more. It's a huge relief.
But I see stuff every day. Every day where women are seen as sexual objects first. In every field. In every movie. And ridiculed if they don't live up to this unbelievably obsured standard. Is she pretty? Does she have a "great bod."
Doesn't seem to matter what a woman does - lots of smarts, lots of education, lots of everything. Wonderful person. It doesn't matter. In the end it's always whether she is viewed as "hot."
It is so depressing. Sometimes I wish women would all just say "**** this shit." And go back to wearing long dresses with long sleeves and high necks.
Isn't it amazing that homosexuals don't see potential mates as sex objects?
In fact, back when gay policy for the military was being debated if you were to suggest gays wanted to scope out young, physically fit specimens in the communal showers you would be derided for suggesting such a crass and apparently false claim.
Yes, only hetero men are capable of being objectifying monsters and they aren't born that way so it's absolutely their fault.
By all means, go see the rest of the thread. It's the same dysfunctional mess of distortions and overly emotional fake outrage. They refuse to discuss anything honestly with each other so conditioned are they to see any disagreement as evil against their godhood.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10024298093