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What bothers me is the new husbands attitude.
Could he be hiding things from his new wife?
Male leaves first wife for a girl friend, His wife divorces him with the provision he keep her and kids on HIS insurance until the kids turn 26 and until she remarries.
He remarries and finds he cannot put her on his insurance because he has to pay for first wife and kids. I know of no insurance Co. that will insure more then one family, darn if this was so a man could insure 4 ex wives under the family plan.
Time for his new wife to do a wee bit of snooping, find his divorce decree and find out exactly what his obligations to his EX and kids are.
Then find out if he is actually divorced from his EX. Strange things do happen in life.