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Family Says They Did Tip Gay Server, Didn't Leave Note
« on: November 26, 2013, 09:10:13 AM »
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After a gay server at a New Jersey restaurant said a customer denied her a tip and wrote her a hateful note on the receipt, a local family contacted NBC 4 New York and said their receipt shows they paid a tip and didn't write any such note.

The couple told NBC 4 New York that they believed their receipt was used for a hoax.
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What's with these shitty servers and their tip-less reciepts?  Every one of them is fake and they all have some stupid agenda they want to push.
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Re: Family Says They Did Tip Gay Server, Didn't Leave Note
« Reply #1 on: November 26, 2013, 09:17:24 AM »
Golly, a prancer who's a lying drama queen.  Imagine that.

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Re: Family Says They Did Tip Gay Server, Didn't Leave Note
« Reply #2 on: November 26, 2013, 09:25:26 AM »
From the link, someone made a comment saying that the waitress is a con artist.

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FOr all the people that have been trollled by this girl I read from someone that knew her that she made up a lie saying she had cancer as well in the past. Please further your investigation into this server. She gives others in the LGBT community who have honestly been treated unfairly a very bad name.

I wonder is she was really a Marine and if so, what kind of discharge did she get.
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Re: Family Says They Did Tip Gay Server, Didn't Leave Note
« Reply #3 on: November 26, 2013, 09:27:45 AM »
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She gives others in the LGBT community who have honestly been treated unfairly a very bad name.
It didn't happen but it still could have happened.  :whatever:
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Re: Family Says They Did Tip Gay Server, Didn't Leave Note
« Reply #4 on: November 26, 2013, 11:02:49 AM »
Who you gonna believe, people?

A drama queen who kinda knows how to fake shit, or a family with the ORIGINAL receipt and the credit card statement to back it up?
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Re: Family Says They Did Tip Gay Server, Didn't Leave Note
« Reply #5 on: November 26, 2013, 11:10:11 AM »
Quote from: Chris_ on November 26, 2013, 09:27:45 AM
It didn't happen but it still could have happened.  :whatever:

Fake but accurate. We all know those fundies were really condemning her, they probably even said grace before they ate. Hateful pricks!
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Re: Family Says They Did Tip Gay Server, Didn't Leave Note
« Reply #6 on: November 26, 2013, 01:10:55 PM »
I don't believe this happened either but even if it did, to say the message written on the receipt was hateful is over the top.  The alleged message said "I'm sorry but I cannot tip because I do not agree with your lifestyle."  Where is the hate in that?  It is merely explaining that the family allegedly doesn't agree with the lifestyle, but the gay faker had to present it as if the message was hateful.  Are we at the point where merely disagreeing with someone else choice is an act of hate? 
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Re: Family Says They Did Tip Gay Server, Didn't Leave Note
« Reply #7 on: November 26, 2013, 02:34:33 PM »
Quote from: DLR Pyro on November 26, 2013, 01:10:55 PM
I don't believe this happened either but even if it did, to say the message written on the receipt was hateful is over the top.  The alleged message said "I'm sorry but I cannot tip because I do not agree with your lifestyle."  Where is the hate in that?  It is merely explaining that the family allegedly doesn't agree with the lifestyle, but the gay faker had to present it as if the message was hateful.  Are we at the point where merely disagreeing with someone else choice is an act of hate?

Don't you know that disagreeing with any lifestyle, except for fundy conservatives, is as bad as anything hitler ever did? Get with the program man.
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Re: Family Says They Did Tip Gay Server, Didn't Leave Note
« Reply #8 on: November 26, 2013, 03:13:46 PM »
Quote from: Freeper on November 26, 2013, 02:34:33 PM
Don't you know that disagreeing with any lifestyle, except for fundy conservatives, is as bad as anything hitler ever did? Get with the program man.

BS. I do not care if the server had 22 rings in their nose as long as I know they were tested for TB, Aids and  Typhoid.

I do not want to see a finger in the soup, or some one sneezing over my meal.   If the service is good, I care less then if I know they have nipple rings or a Sir Albert in their dick.

Good service is hard to find , so the server has tattoos and a tongue ring,  Long as they can being the meal on time and make you comfortable, what's the bitch ?
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Re: Family Says They Did Tip Gay Server, Didn't Leave Note
« Reply #9 on: November 26, 2013, 03:24:45 PM »
Sandra Fluke comes to mind.
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Re: Family Says They Did Tip Gay Server, Didn't Leave Note
« Reply #10 on: November 26, 2013, 03:34:34 PM »
Hmmm . . . they took the FB page down, wonder why?  :whatever:

She raked in over 2k in donations. It's amazing how gullible the American public is for falling for these scams over and over again.
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Re: Family Says They Did Tip Gay Server, Didn't Leave Note
« Reply #11 on: November 26, 2013, 03:35:36 PM »
Quote from: Tess Anderson on November 26, 2013, 03:34:34 PM
Hmmm . . . they took the FB page down, wonder why?  :whatever:

She raked in over 2k in donations. It's amazing how gullible the American public is for falling for these scams over and over again.
She did a lot better than a wish a doo slug.
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Re: Family Says They Did Tip Gay Server, Didn't Leave Note
« Reply #12 on: November 26, 2013, 03:39:43 PM »
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Thanks everyone for your support - it took very fiber of my being not to spit in their food and say something. (Not gonna lie if kids weren't there it would of been a totally different story)
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=453425841430201&set=a.192270474212407.34793.192269477545840&type=1&comment_id=2624048&offset=0&total_comments=5894
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Re: Family Says They Did Tip Gay Server, Didn't Leave Note
« Reply #13 on: November 26, 2013, 03:50:10 PM »
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Dayna Morales Thanks everyone for your support - it took very fiber of my being not to spit in their food and say something. (Not gonna lie if kids weren’t there it would of been a totally different story)

Now I KNOW she did it, just like when she said to a local news reporter that it wasn't her handwriting, when the reporter never even asked her about it. This dyke now claims she wanted to spit in their food BEFORE it was served.

I would fire her now for this comment.
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Re: Family Says They Did Tip Gay Server, Didn't Leave Note
« Reply #14 on: November 26, 2013, 04:30:01 PM »
If she was doing her job, how would the family even KNOW what her lifestyle is? I worked as a waitress for years and I did not share personal information about my life with them.  Unless she was playing tonsil hockey with her girlfriend (not doing her job) how would they know???
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Re: Family Says They Did Tip Gay Server, Didn't Leave Note
« Reply #15 on: November 26, 2013, 07:03:54 PM »
I wish these stories would stop getting aired, but I have to say something, looking at the photos....

I want the merchant copy with their signature, not the customer copy with what they wrote.  The customer keeps the customer copy.  They could have wrote anything, and the ink looks different on both copies.  Somebody's fibbing, but I am more likely not to believe it's the family just because I don't want to believe anyone is really that rude.

Edit to add: Saw the video. If their credit card statement is showing the amount written and she's telling the truth, it may be a case of there's a third party, a colleague who tried to harass her.  I find that far more likely than customers who receive good service leaving nasty notes to their servers, or anyone doing that, really.
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Re: Family Says They Did Tip Gay Server, Didn't Leave Note
« Reply #16 on: November 26, 2013, 07:57:16 PM »
Quote from: lorelai on November 26, 2013, 07:03:54 PM
I wish these stories would stop getting aired, but I have to say something, looking at the photos....

I want the merchant copy with their signature, not the customer copy with what they wrote.  The customer keeps the customer copy.  They could have wrote anything, and the ink looks different on both copies.  Somebody's fibbing, but I am more likely not to believe it's the family just because I don't want to believe anyone is really that rude.

Edit to add: Saw the video. If their credit card statement is showing the amount written and she's telling the truth, it may be a case of there's a third party, a colleague who tried to harass her.  I find that far more likely than customers who receive good service leaving nasty notes to their servers, or anyone doing that, really.

You're trying too hard, ma'am.

Occams Razor says that the simplest explanation of any given set of facts is usually the truth. In this case, since the family can demonstrate conclusively enough for any court that they did, in fact tip the service, and coupling that to the fact that the waitress was denying that the note was in her handwriting without having been questioned about it to that point, and I'm afraid that Occam's Razor leans heavily in the direction that the waitress made up the whole thing for the purpose of attention whoring. That good-hearted people who were donating money upon hearing her story was merely icing on the cake for this chica.
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Re: Family Says They Did Tip Gay Server, Didn't Leave Note
« Reply #17 on: November 26, 2013, 08:19:35 PM »
Quote from: DefiantSix on November 26, 2013, 07:57:16 PM
You're trying too hard, ma'am.

Occams Razor says that the simplest explanation of any given set of acts is usually the truth. In this case, since the family can demonstrate conclusively enough for any court that they did, in fact tip the service, and coupling that to the fact that the waitress was denying that the note was in her handwriting without having been questioned about it to that point, and I'm afraid that Occam's Razor leans heavily in the direction that the waitress made up the whole thing for the purpose of attention whoring. That good-hearted people were donating money upon hearing her story was merely icing on the cake for this chica.

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Re: Family Says They Did Tip Gay Server, Didn't Leave Note
« Reply #18 on: November 26, 2013, 10:17:06 PM »
Waitress in tip tale, a former Stony Point resident, 'lies about everything,' former co-workers, friends say
http://www.lohud.com/article/20131126/NEWS/311260034/Waitress-from-Rockland-s-tale-of-lost-tip-over-gay-lifestyle-has-lied-in-the-past-ex-colleagues-say?nclick_check=1

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A North Rockland High School alumna accused of making up a story about being denied a tip at a New Jersey restaurant due to her sexual orientation has a reputation for lying, former colleagues and friends said.

Dayna Morales, 22, formerly of Stony Point, told reporters last week that a family at the Gallop Asian Bistro in Bridgewater, N.J., stiffed her out of a tip on a nearly $100 bill because she was gay. She produced a receipt with a note that said: “I do not agree with your lifestyle and how you live your life.”

Morales, now of Bedminster, N.J., had posted a picture of the receipt and complained of the injustice on a gay-friendly Facebook page called “Have a Gay Day.” She said she publicized the incident online because “others need to be informed this is still going on.”

Not surprised by this one bit.  :mental: :loser:
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Re: Family Says They Did Tip Gay Server, Didn't Leave Note
« Reply #19 on: November 26, 2013, 10:25:39 PM »
Quote from: Ptarmigan on November 26, 2013, 10:17:06 PM
Waitress in tip tale, a former Stony Point resident, 'lies about everything,' former co-workers, friends say
http://www.lohud.com/article/20131126/NEWS/311260034/Waitress-from-Rockland-s-tale-of-lost-tip-over-gay-lifestyle-has-lied-in-the-past-ex-colleagues-say?nclick_check=1

Not surprised by this one bit.  :mental: :loser:

Coach's First Law of DUmbshits certainly applies here.

DUmb****s lie. All the time, DUmb****s lie.
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Re: Family Says They Did Tip Gay Server, Didn't Leave Note
« Reply #20 on: November 26, 2013, 10:29:55 PM »
She's a hideous beast.  I'm not surprised she has issues.
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Re: Family Says They Did Tip Gay Server, Didn't Leave Note
« Reply #21 on: November 27, 2013, 10:55:02 AM »
Quote from: lorelai on November 26, 2013, 07:03:54 PM
I wish these stories would stop getting aired,

What, ones where the TRUTH comes out?
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Re: Family Says They Did Tip Gay Server, Didn't Leave Note
« Reply #22 on: November 27, 2013, 11:24:44 AM »
Quote from: NHSparky on November 27, 2013, 10:55:02 AM
What, ones where the TRUTH comes out?

Lorelai probably doesn't like the stories about the fake attacks on gays either.
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'No Tip' Server Lied About Having Cancer, Serving In Afghanistan, Say Friends
« Reply #23 on: November 27, 2013, 04:57:39 PM »
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Right after a receipt and credit card statement suggested a NJ server's tale about bigoted customers was a hoax, a local newspaper from her hometown started digging into her past. And now the Journal News reports that Dayna Morales, "has a reputation for lying," according to former colleagues and friends.

People were rallying around Morales and sending her tips after she shared a photograph of a receipt she got back at her work, NJ restaurant Asian Gallop Bistro. The receipt showed no tip, with the note, "I'm sorry but I cannot tip because I do not agree with your lifestyle and how you live your life." But then the family came forward saying that they actually did leave a tip, showing their copy of the receipt and a credit card statement that suggested they were truthful.

According to the Journal News, Morales lied about having cancer, her military service and damage to her home during Hurricane Sandy:   ...
http://gothamist.com/2013/11/27/receipt_saga_server_lied_about_havi.php#photo-1
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Re: 'No Tip' Server Lied About Having Cancer, Serving In Afghanistan, Say Friends
« Reply #24 on: November 27, 2013, 04:59:29 PM »
DUmmies lie...DUmmies always lie, this one is no different.
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