My wife's stark-raving moonbat step-father-in-law (her mother, also a stark-raving moonbat, is still married to this monster) began exposing my wife to pornographic films (among other things I won't get into) at the age of 11.
This abuse went on for five long years, until I got a phone call one day from not-yet-wife, after she locked herself in the bathroom, and called me screaming and crying. I could hear him banging on the locked bathroom door demanding that she either start masturbating to his videos, or he "would ****ing do it for her."
His excuse? He doesn't remember any of it, because he was drunk, or something, so it must not have ever happened. Her mother denied to her family and his family that anything ever happened, until his family accidentally stumbled on the court records involving the case. Her little sister became involved in this at some point too, but that's another story.
That's just a glimpse at what is at the bottom of the slippery slope you primitives are tiptoeing around (or possibly much worse). One of your own already chose to take that step.
Would one of you care to come over here and defend her step-father-in-law or her mother's actions? I'd love to hear what you have to say.