My mom stopped working when I around 2 years old because, due to the mandatory overtime at her job, she felt like she was the babysitter. She dropped me off at my babysitter's house when I was still mostly asleep, then I was usually asleep by the time she picked me up.
This is the way it goes today, woman have other people raise their kids to work outside the home. Here comes the guilt trip and the parents shower their kids with what they want as a substitute for their own hands on care of the children.
If both parents work many hours including weekends, the kids spend a maximum of 2 hours a day with their parents.
Meanwhile during this time clothing has to be washed, dinner cooked, floors washed and carpet cleaned. Phones answered, bills paid and time spent grocery shopping.
It is no wonder some kids grow up feeling abandoned. And the loss of quality time with spouse does lead to divorce as the parents never have a chance to be together, have fun without having to not worry about the kids, bills or Aunt Nellie's hemorrhoids.
Sad world today, and I suspect this is a good start to controlling future generations by
others with control intent.
Somehow it has been made almost impossible to have a single worker in the family to raise their own children. For the average Joe and Jane to not both work and raise just one child not to mention 2-3+ others, would put them into a state of living back 100 years ago.