She has no right to see anyone from the VA.
Dave must be the veteran eligible for VASH. VASH is a program to pay rent for wino veterans. If they have any income, they pay only a small percentage of it, and VASH pays the rest.
So, Amber will be in a shelter or under a bridge, unless she can shack up with Dave. She's hardly in a position to be "a woman, hear me roar".
Chad is apparently a wino buddy of Dave who isn't eligible for VASH, and who wants to be Dave's roomie on the taxpayers' tab.
Amber and Chad are blood enemies competing for a berth in Dave's free housing.
Amber is so pathetic some of her posts sound like Dennis the Menace.