Star Member sheshe2 (6,189 posts)
Hey white people...its on us!
Hey white people...its on us!
Last night I went on twitter when the Zimmerman verdict was announced...at least until I read the words of a father wondering WTH he was going to say to his black son. Then I started balling and the evening was basically over for me.
Surely every parent of a black child in this country has to grapple with teaching them some form of the Black Male Code. I remember the profound sense of what white privilege means hit me when one of my co-workers talked about how she had to make her son cut off his dreads when he was 13 so as not to make him a target. What mother of a white child has to think about those kinds of things? And what mother of a white child has to fear for their lives when they're walking home from the store?
Trayvon Martin, my son, and the Black Male Code
As I explained it, the Code goes like this:
Always pay close attention to your surroundings, son, especially if you are in an affluent neighborhood where black folks are few. Understand that even though you are not a criminal, some people might assume you are, especially if you are wearing certain clothes.
Never argue with police, but protect your dignity and take pride in humility. When confronted by someone with a badge or a gun, do not flee, fight, or put your hands anywhere other than up.
Please don't assume, son, that all white people view you as a threat. America is better than that. Suspicion and bitterness can imprison you. But as a black male, you must go above and beyond to show strangers what type of person you really are.
http://www.jessewashington.com/trayvon-and-the-black-male-code.html
We Can't Fix Ya!
SAT AUG 22, 2009 AT 12:01 PM PDT
I have come to one conclusion.
Race is a problem for white people to solve. If black people or brown people could have made racism go away it would have long since disappeared back into the nothing-ness from which it came.
Nah, it’s on white folks to make the necessary moves to kill and bury, once and for all, the notion of race. I think in a generation or two this just might happen.
For one thing no small part of the fear rising in the hearts of some our finest race-baiting carbon units is the realization that within a generation they will be the minority. This idea causes folk like Pat Buchanan to go to sleep at night clutching at his gonads. He’s been ringing the white folks we’re about to be outnumbered bell for a really long time. With the election of America’s first black president, many of the dull-normals suddenly got it.
In the America they grew up in, such a thing was not possible. A black president was not a notion the mouth-breathers ever considered. It couldn’t happen. For one thing the expectation was white people would never go for it. I still remember the old southern white man who said during the election season last year "I’m voting for the ******." Even so, he was in the minority.
The majority of white people in this country voted for dumb and dumber. They were willing to be led by two people who couldn’t find their butts with a flashlight and a map.
http://www.dailykos.com/story/2009/08/22/770764/-We-Can-t-Fix-Ya
Perhaps a good place to start is to listen to black people talk about what it means to be a parent these days. And keep your g-d mouth shut when it comes to advice - even when what they have to say makes you uncomfortable. Right now they feel like their children's lives are at stake - with good reason. Can we find a touch of empathy to spur some curiosity about what that might feel like as a parent?
That's what its going to take, folks. As overwhelming as it might seem, every time a white person opens themselves up to that reality we get one step closer to ending days like this. If we're ever going to get there - its on us.
http://immasmartypants.blogspot.com/2013/07/hey-white-peopleits-on-us.html
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http://www.democraticunderground.com/10023258336What a load of crap.
Race is a problem for white people to solve. If black people or brown people could have made racism go away it would have long since disappeared back into the nothing-ness from which it came.
The problem with that statement is there are several black people like Sharpton, and Jesse Jackson who make a living off of keeping people stirred up over race. It isn't us creepy ass crackers who turn everything into a an issue of race it is those on the left who see color first and then whatever took place second. The democrats have worked hard to keep minorities as perpetual victims then have turned around and tried to blame us for all the problems.
what mother of a white child has to fear for their lives when they're walking home from the store?
Plenty of white mothers have to fear for the lives of their children when they are walking home from the store. It just doesn't get the coverage that Saint Skittles got when a white kid gets beaten to death by black kids. This notion that we have to separate this by color is insane. Any person of any race has the same things to fear in our society. Any kid of any race can be killed for being in the wrong neighborhood at the wrong time.
If one dares bring up the high numbers of black on black violence then we are called racists. I guess the politically correct thing to do is turn a blind eye to the devastation and tell people we just can't understand their ways and who are we to judge anyway?
Star Member malaise (108,050 posts)
7. Here's the thing sheshe2
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the white man who still hates and fears the black man is terrified of one thing - pay back.
He knows what he did and would like to continue doing to non-white people and fears that the day he is outnumbered payback is coming.
If you think all those anti-women laws are about more than producing more white people, then you have no idea how afraid they really are.
America must remain white (as if it ever were) and they must remain on top by any means necessary.
I don't hate nor fear the black man, and this cracker has never done anything to oppress anyone. The fact that there are plenty of people who want to hold me responsible for sins of the past is insane.
Half-Century Man (842 posts)
9. I think you're close
The white man who did the majority of the racist damage is long gone. His white sons fear that they will be punished for the sins of their fathers, and so act in a way which is REMEMBERED as effective.
It wasn't, it bred unbelievable strength in it's intended victims. It still does, look to the women of Texas.
Strength which can withstand open aggression and respond with political action and peaceful social change. Strength as relentless as the tide. Mountains have fallen to the power.
We...the sons of Europeans who fled their masters only to try our hand at being masters, need to remember why we fled our masters. There are no good masters, not now, not then , not ever.
Yet you idiots are actively trying your best to give us masters. You want the government to control everything in our lives. You know the things your ancestors fled to come here.
coldmountain (112 posts)
18. White southerners need to lead the way instead of whining about others being bigots toward them
What if I said that black people need to lead the way instead of whining about bigotry against them? I would be called a racist and other names. So why is it acceptable for white people to be victims of bigotry? Bigotry is either wrong for everyone or for no one. You can't have it both ways.
Yes it it is sad that black folks suffered oppression, but you know what every damn one of us comes from ancestors who were oppressed at one time or another. It's time people grow the hell up and start taking responsibility for their own lives and enjoy the freedoms that this society has given us. Just because your grandfather was oppressed is not reason for you to sit around crying how tough your life is. Your life is tough because you have made the choice to not participate in society and use the opportunities that have been given to you. A lot of people gave their lives so you can have a better future, and you sitting on your ass crying about how unfair life is, is not how you should repay those who died. Doing something with your life and being successful is what everyone should strive for.