My SO has no Idea!

[Freeper]

Lady Freedom Returns (3,333 posts)

My SO has no Idea!


 
Last edited Sun Mar 31, 2013, 06:44 PM USA/ET - Edit history (1)

I have B.A. in Communications from MSSU. But I lost my copies of my transcripts due to the tornado and my flash drive with the electric copy getting stolen at a shelter. I have become delinquent in the payments of the loans due to no job since May 22, 2011. To get the transcripts I have to contact a clearinghouse and set up a payment plan. According to them I must get a paycheck so they can use the numbers on it to start to take payments off of it or my bank account number ( I don't have a bank account).

My SO keeps showing me jobs in my field and is yelling at me to apply. "Stop wasting your education" he says. Those jobs want copies of my transcripts. I can't give them what I no longer have. It like he is putting salt in a very open wound. He won't listen or understand. For now all I can do is pray for one of the fast food or clerk jobs to call. I am hurting so bad and he just won't stop and see what is going on.

So many are in a very similar boat right now in this country. It is a catch 22 for so many, need proof of education to get the job they are trained for, but can't get it due to not working and going delinquent. Thus, can not get the paperwork to change things.

And I am sure they to get to hear it from loved ones. But it still makes you feel alone in this world.

http://sync.democraticunderground.com/10022595364

Then they wonder why we think they aren't that bright.

I can't believe this DUmmy is having such a hard time during this massive recovery. Unemployment is at record lows, gas prices are high which shows how great the economy is, so I aint buying she can't get a job.

Kalidurga (4,693 posts)
2. Been there done that....

I had to work as a cashier for a year to get my payments up to date so I could go to school and finish my degree. Since graduating whatever I have that is kicking my butt went into overdrive and now I have hypertension, probably diabetes (I just had labs done a couple days ago) my joints started hurting like a bleep. I wish that was all, but anyway long story short I can't work right now and my payments are going to go delinquent again and I won't be able to go back to school in the fall to start finishing a four year. Unless I claim hardship due to illness to put off having to pay for now. Which I will probably do, but it seems kind of a big risk for me to go back to school anyway, knowing how big a risk it is due to my health issues.

OMG hypertension and diabetes, yeah there is no way this primitive can work. 

I've been working with hypertension for years, have achy joints, and am close to being a diabetic. My DR is such a hardass that he won't recommend disability and has this crazy idea that if I take meds I can still work. 

I also enjoy the tale of woe of having to work as a cashier for a full year, what you don't get full retirement after a full year on the job? Come work with me for a day DUmmy you would run screaming by 9am. 




 

[franksolich]

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10022595364

Oh my.

This is the primitive who left Joplin, Missouri, after that tornado a couple of years ago, saying she was going to hike from there to Seattle, Washington.  She got as far as Springfield, Missouri, and then quit; I dunno why.

Lady Freedom Returns (3,333 posts)    Sun Mar 31, 2013, 06:39 PM

My SO has no Idea!

I have B.A. in Communications from MSSU. But I lost my copies of my transcripts due to the tornado and my flash drive with the electric copy getting stolen at a shelter. I have become delinquent in the payments of the loans due to no job since May 22, 2011. To get the transcripts I have to contact a clearinghouse and set up a payment plan. According to them I must get a paycheck so they can use the numbers on it to start to take payments off of it or my bank account number ( I don't have a bank account).
 
My SO keeps showing me jobs in my field and is yelling at me to apply. "Stop wasting your education" he says. Those jobs want copies of my transcripts. I can't give them what I no longer have. It like he is putting salt in a very open wound. He won't listen or understand. For now all I can do is pray for one of the fast food or clerk jobs to call. I am hurting so bad and he just won't stop and see what is going on.
 
So many are in a very similar boat right now in this country. It is a catch 22 for so many, need proof of education to get the job they are trained for, but can't get it due to not working and going delinquent. Thus, can not get the paperwork to change things.
 
And I am sure they to get to hear it from loved ones. But it still makes you feel alone in this world.

Kalidurga (4,693 posts)    Sun Mar 31, 2013, 06:55 PM

2. Been there done that....

I had to work as a cashier for a year to get my payments up to date so I could go to school and finish my degree. Since graduating whatever I have that is kicking my butt went into overdrive and now I have hypertension, probably diabetes (I just had labs done a couple days ago) my joints started hurting like a bleep. I wish that was all, but anyway long story short I can't work right now and my payments are going to go delinquent again and I won't be able to go back to school in the fall to start finishing a four year. Unless I claim hardship due to illness to put off having to pay for now. Which I will probably do, but it seems kind of a big risk for me to go back to school anyway, knowing how big a risk it is due to my health issues.

nadinbrzezinski (117,966 posts)       Sun Mar 31, 2013, 06:59 PM

3. Hugs

All I can do

^^^no, it's not; the cousin could send her a nice check too, but is too miserly to give a dime.

Ruby the Liberal (23,285 posts)    Sun Mar 31, 2013, 07:04 PM

4. You aren't applying because of transcripts?

I have never been asked by a potential employer for transcripts. Only graduate schools. Don't let that hold you back.

Cronus Protagonist (15,022 posts)    Sun Mar 31, 2013, 07:09 PM

6. Yup.

And even if one did, you would be working in the job and tell them you'll get the transcripts as soon as the governing body sends them to you. Use the paycheck to pay for it and get yourself re-established.
 
Or, you could try my method and completely ignore your college education and do something productive with your life instead, like giving gifts to children... you don't need a degree to do that!

Brickbat (13,956 posts)    Sun Mar 31, 2013, 07:06 PM

5. What jobs want transcripts?

jazzimov (248 posts)    Sun Mar 31, 2013, 07:11 PM

7. Contact MSSU. They should have copies of your transcripts.

I had to nadin "MSSU;" the primitives are so provincial, thinking everybody knows everything in their own little part of the world.  It's Missouri Southern State University in Joplin.

[Freeper]

Looks like Frank and I were reading the same thread. 

[Gern]

How the hell can you not find a job for almost two years other than either sheer hubris ("I'm too good to work at RiteAid") or sheer laziness?

It's unfathomable to me.

[franksolich]

Looks like Frank and I were reading the same thread. 

Yeah.

I'm not as quick as you are.

But whatever; it's all good.

[GOBUCKS]

Those jobs want copies of my transcripts. I can't give them what I no longer have. It like he is putting salt in a very open wound. He won't listen or understand. For now all I can do is pray for one of the fast food or clerk jobs to call.

So you need copies of your transcript to get a job? Really?

And does the DUmmy really think she qualifies for anything that pays more than fast food or a clerk job? After taking the easiest possible path through college?

Not in the 0conomy.

[DumbAss Tanker]

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10022595364

Oh my.

This is the primitive who left Joplin, Missouri, after that tornado a couple of years ago, saying she was going to hike from there to Seattle, Washington.  She got as far as Springfield, Missouri, and then quit; I dunno why.
...

...which, relative to Joplin, is in nearly the completely opposite direction, if one's destination is the State of Washington.

[I_B_Perky]

http://sync.democraticunderground.com/10022595364

Then they wonder why we think they aren't that bright.

I can't believe this DUmmy is having such a hard time during this massive recovery. Unemployment is at record lows, gas prices are high which shows how great the economy is, so I aint buying she can't get a job.

OMG hypertension and diabetes, yeah there is no way this primitive can work. 

I've been working with hypertension for years, have achy joints, and am close to being a diabetic. My DR is such a hardass that he won't recommend disability and has this crazy idea that if I take meds I can still work. 

I also enjoy the tale of woe of having to work as a cashier for a full year, what you don't get full retirement after a full year on the job? Come work with me for a day DUmmy you would run screaming by 9am. 
 

Same here Freep except I don't have bad joints, I got bad feet.  My doc would laugh at me if I told him I wanted to get on disability.

jazzimov (248 posts)    Sun Mar 31, 2013, 07:11 PM

7. Contact MSSU. They should have copies of your transcripts.

The dummie can't do that because then the dummie would have he/she/it's so called impediment to being gainfully employed removed and then have to tell he/she/it's hump mate that the problem is with the dummie.

[longview]

I've never been asked for transcripts, nor do I ask to see anyones.  I think this chica is full of doo doo.

But even if not, can't one just call the university, pay some dollars and get an official transcript? 

[DumbAss Tanker]

I've never been asked for transcripts, nor do I ask to see anyones.  I think this chica is full of doo doo.

But even if not, can't one just call the university, pay some dollars and get an official transcript? 

Not absolutely positive, but I believe one of the consequences of being declared delinquent on a Federally-backed student loan is that they freeze your access to transcripts.

[USA4ME]

What does it say about a Communications major that can't explain to others what's going on?

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[longview]

Not absolutely positive, but I believe one of the consequences of being declared delinquent on a Federally-backed student loan is that they freeze your access to transcripts.

That makes sense.  I also forgot the DUmmy factor.  Reasonable people, if they can't pay their student loans, notify the holder and get a forebearance because it would be for legitimate reasons.  Not just stop paying.

[I_B_Perky]

Not absolutely positive, but I believe one of the consequences of being declared delinquent on a Federally-backed student loan is that they freeze your access to transcripts.

Doesn't surprise me DAT. It makes sense.  Another unintended consequence of the liberal wet dream. Banks cannot force a university/college/whatever to do anything but the federal government can. Wait until the fed government starts taking the dummies tax refunds to repay student loans. That there is gonna be real hilarious.   

[Mr Mannn]

Lady Freedom Returns (3,333 posts)    Sun Mar 31, 2013, 06:39 PM
My SO keeps showing me jobs in my field and is yelling at me to apply. "Stop wasting your education" he says.

Another DUmmy soon to be DUmped by a boyfriend. Neome was DUmped as well. What do both of these gals have in common? They are both lazy ass leeches living off another. Both will be kicked out. Both are looking to hop on the Disability bandwagon. ----in short they are both DUmmies.

Lady Freedom, you will die alone and unloved. No sympathy from me.

[I_B_Perky]

Another DUmmy soon to be DUmped by a boyfriend. Neome was DUmped as well. What do both of these gals have in common? They are both lazy ass leeches living off another. Both will be kicked out. Both are looking to hop on the Disability bandwagon. ----in short they are both DUmmies.

Lady Freedom, you will die alone and unloved. No sympathy from me.

I'm reminded of this song Mr Mannn:

[youtube=425,350]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-zKSLPYfnIc[/youtube]

[docstew]

I call BS. I've gotten transcripts multiple times since I left college, and I still have student loan debt. As long as you don't owe money to THE SCHOOL, they'll send your official transcripts for a nominal fee of around $20

[NHSparky]

I've been asked--ONCE.  I didn't have them with me.  All I did was sign a release, much like one signs an SF-180 to release military records (which I, unlike John Kerry, have done.)

[SSG Snuggle Bunny]

My SO keeps showing me jobs in my field and is yelling at me to apply.

I think in the world of Proglodytes this qualifies as abusive.

[franksolich]

I think in the world of Proglodytes this qualifies as abusive.

I like that new word you coined.

It's great.

[NHSparky]

I think in the world of Proglodytes this qualifies as abusive.

Only a matter of time before that's added to Oxford English Dictionary.  Well played, sir.  Well played.

[Delmar]

Lady Freedom Returns (3,340 posts)

My SO has no Idea!


 
Last edited Sun Mar 31, 2013, 06:44 PM USA/ET - Edit history (1)

I have B.A. in Communications from MSSU. But I lost my copies of my transcripts due to the tornado and my flash drive with the electric copy getting stolen at a shelter. I have become delinquent in the payments of the loans due to no job since May 22, 2011. To get the transcripts I have to contact a clearinghouse and set up a payment plan. According to them I must get a paycheck so they can use the numbers on it to start to take payments off of it or my bank account number ( I don't have a bank account).

Pathetic act-of-God tornado excuse, flash drive stolen out of her shopping cart, no job in nearly two years, and no bank account.  Coming up with the missing college transcripts will not help this hapless reject, she should be grateful if she finds a minimum wage job pushing a broom.    

[I_B_Perky]

I think in the world of Proglodytes this qualifies as abusive.

 

H5 Sarge!!!

[Texacon]

She can't get them because they don't exist and she doesn't want to fess up to the ...  SO, whatever the hell that is.

KC

[Evil_Conservative]

Or, you could try my method and completely ignore your college education and do something productive with your life instead, like giving gifts to children... you don't need a degree to do that!

Please tell me this is a mole. 

[Traveshamockery]

Please tell me this is a mole. 

That's the reply that had me shaking my head.  Someone has a job giving gifts to children?  Brownies baked with marijuana and passed out at schools don't qualify as gifts, DUmmie.