It boggles the mind that a 19 year old girl would give her 51 year old professor the time of day beyond the classroom. I'm not naive. I realize these relationships happen daily. But remembering what it was like to be a 19 year old college student, I just can't see it. I knew girls who made it their mission to bed older men. Especially the "forbidden" ones like teachers, bosses, or family friends. And married ones were even more alluring. But for me? Never understood it, never will I guess.
And I can't even begin to express my disgust at his behavior.