How about offering free self-defense lessons instead of dancing together in harmony

How about admitting that some cultures need to change, and that we have a moral right to say so. Most American women have no idea how good we have it here, and every time a whiny feminist starts complaining about the patriarchy in the US, they should donate $100 to organization that work to change societies where women are actually suffering.
There are still cultures where a widow is expected to commit suicide when her husband dies. There are cultures where young girls are forced to marry, and then when they are damaged by giving birth before their bodies are ready for it, they are ostracized. There are cultures where rape victims are stoned for "adultery." And women in the US have the audacity to complain that our government isn't 50% female, or that birth control isn't free.