Taking care of your family is one way to be a man.......
1-don't marry babby's momma......so she and baby can get foodstamps, free housing, healthcare, etc..
2-score the good dope for mom so mom will be laid back......when she ain't laying down.
3-impregnant baby's momma many times so as to increase government support.
4-pip baby's momma out when drugs have killed your penis.
5-go to prison so state takes better care of family.