And it's safe for men to assume then that all women are gold diggers too. Do these idiots even listen to themselves and extrapolate out their concrete thinking to other scenarios they would call be homophobes, racists, and misogynists were they to apply their own illogical way of thinking to other populations? The bottom line is it is best to use one's good JUDGEMENT(gasp that evil word) when in any situation and considering the circumstances. HOwever, we all in order to love, live, and grow need to take some chances. Unfortunately, we don't know sometimes until it's too late with some people because they are very good at hiding what they are that they are a threat to us. You can't walk through life totally anxious OR totally carefree.