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My BF of 10 years just packed a Uhaul
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And moved out. I am heartbroken. Spending the night at my SIL's. She's like a sister tho.... He cut the power and left me $20. After everything I've done for him.....My nephew wants to know why Uncle M isn't coming to dinner too. 😥0 
 

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Fri Nov 16, 2012, 03:32 PM
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46. He had a few seizures n quit drinking I think there is something going on in his head..

He won't go to a neuro....I can't find a job n it's a cluster f**k. After everything I did for him and l we went thru
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51. Thx

Listed the house w a realtor buddy today. He gave me a few bucks. Going to stay with a friend tonite
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Sat Nov 17, 2012, 04:39 PM
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55. he's called me 4 times already this morning

I dropped off a check for him that came in the mail....I know, too nice of me....saw his new digs....ugh....not to offend anyone, but it is a dump and the entire complex scares the hell outta me. So he has gone from a beautiful 1700 3 bedroom sq. foot house to a studio shithole.

So he tells me "if it makes you feel better, I am miserable and can only think about you and I know it's all my fault".

And he hurt his broken back whilst moving. Ya think?

He's says he won't come back to our house (which is for sale) but maybe something else in the future.  Why put me through this?

I'm at my BFs house, eating homemade tacos tonite and Tbones tomorrow. Don't know where I'm going next. We'll see what tomorrow brings.

Thanks for all of your input and good wishes. 

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Re: DUmmy "blueamy66" dumped by long-time bf, left with $20 and the bills
« Reply #1 on: November 17, 2012, 07:52:26 PM »
3 bedrooms @ 1700 square feet?  That's not even enough room to change your mind. :rimshot:

If you farted, everyone in the house would know about it.
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Re: DUmmy "blueamy66" dumped by long-time bf, left with $20 and the bills
« Reply #2 on: November 17, 2012, 07:58:34 PM »
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My nephew wants to know why Uncle M isn't coming to dinner too

Because he wised up.

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Re: DUmmy "blueamy66" dumped by long-time bf, left with $20 and the bills
« Reply #3 on: November 17, 2012, 08:00:32 PM »
Because he wised up.

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Sounds like he got sober.
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Re: DUmmy "blueamy66" dumped by long-time bf, left with $20 and the bills
« Reply #4 on: November 17, 2012, 08:03:18 PM »
3 bedrooms @ 1700 square feet?  That's not even enough room to change your mind. :rimshot:

If you farted, everyone in the house would know about it.

My place isn't much bigger.  Guess I'm easy to please.
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Re: DUmmy "blueamy66" dumped by long-time bf, left with $20 and the bills
« Reply #5 on: November 17, 2012, 08:09:31 PM »

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46. He had a few seizures n quit drinking I think there is something going on in his head..

Maybe sober realization.

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He won't go to a neuro....I can't find a job n it's a cluster f**k. After everything I did for him and l we went thru

Yeah. He should give you more credit for helping to spend his money so he wouldn't have to worry about it. And before you claim that you did the house keeping, I've seen pictures of the inside of DUmmie houses. Unless you're different from the others, you helped him spend his money.
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Re: DUmmy "blueamy66" dumped by long-time bf, left with $20 and the bills
« Reply #6 on: November 17, 2012, 08:35:51 PM »
This is the fate of all shacked-up DUmpettes.

Shackups always end this way.

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Re: DUmmy "blueamy66" dumped by long-time bf, left with $20 and the bills
« Reply #7 on: November 17, 2012, 08:40:11 PM »
So is blueamy66 a guy or a gal?

Or an "it"?  :rotf:
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Re: DUmmy "blueamy66" dumped by long-time bf, left with $20 and the bills
« Reply #8 on: November 17, 2012, 08:40:40 PM »
3 bedrooms @ 1700 square feet?  That's not even enough room to change your mind. :rimshot:

If you farted, everyone in the house would know about it.

I have 3 bedrooms at 1100 square feet.  No one knows when I fart.  
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Re: DUmmy "blueamy66" dumped by long-time bf, left with $20 and the bills
« Reply #9 on: November 17, 2012, 09:05:21 PM »
This house is 1800 square feet and has two bedrooms.  The master bedroom on the first floor is very large, but the second bedroom is 'adequate'. 
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Re: DUmmy "blueamy66" dumped by long-time bf, left with $20 and the bills
« Reply #10 on: November 17, 2012, 09:12:05 PM »
This house is 1800 square feet and has two bedrooms.  The master bedroom on the first floor is very large, but the second bedroom is 'adequate'. 

Bedrooms are where you sleep, they don't need to be big, they just need to be big enough to keep your bed and dressers in it.
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Re: DUmmy "blueamy66" dumped by long-time bf, left with $20 and the bills
« Reply #11 on: November 17, 2012, 09:19:13 PM »
3 bedrooms @ 1700 square feet?  That's not even enough room to change your mind. :rimshot:

If you farted, everyone in the house would know about it.

That's the size of my house. We seem to do okay.

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Re: DUmmy "blueamy66" dumped by long-time bf, left with $20 and the bills
« Reply #12 on: November 17, 2012, 09:30:52 PM »
Bedrooms are where you sleep, they don't need to be big, they just need to be big enough to keep your bed and dressers in it.

Umm... other things can be done in the bedroom besides sleeping.    :evil: :evil: :evil:


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Re: DUmmy "blueamy66" dumped by long-time bf, left with $20 and the bills
« Reply #13 on: November 18, 2012, 04:56:46 AM »
Umm... other things can be done in the bedroom besides sleeping.    :evil: :evil: :evil:


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Re: DUmmy "blueamy66" dumped by long-time bf, left with $20 and the bills
« Reply #14 on: November 18, 2012, 05:34:28 AM »
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I can't find a job n it's a cluster f**k. After everything I did for him
I've met DUmmie chicks like that.
They hook up with a boyfriend. Move into his place and then, QUIT their jobs. Its just like the disability gravy train without the paperwork. And it always ends the same, the guy loses respect for the gal (she's too lazy even for housework), and he leaves her.

I don't even believe this lasted 10 years. I give it two at most.

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Re: DUmmy "blueamy66" dumped by long-time bf, left with $20 and the bills
« Reply #15 on: November 18, 2012, 06:08:37 AM »
That's the size of my house. We seem to do okay.

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Re: DUmmy "blueamy66" dumped by long-time bf, left with $20 and the bills
« Reply #16 on: November 18, 2012, 06:09:39 AM »
I've met DUmmie chicks like that.
They hook up with a boyfriend. Move into his place and then, QUIT their jobs. Its just like the disability gravy train without the paperwork. And it always ends the same, the guy loses respect for the gal (she's too lazy even for housework), and he leaves her.

I don't even believe this lasted 10 years. I give it two at most.

He was drunk the whole time. That would explain the missing 8 years.

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Re: DUmmy "blueamy66" dumped by long-time bf, left with $20 and the bills
« Reply #17 on: November 18, 2012, 06:15:51 AM »
I've met DUmmie chicks like that.
They hook up with a boyfriend. Move into his place and then, QUIT their jobs. Its just like the disability gravy train without the paperwork. And it always ends the same, the guy loses respect for the gal (she's too lazy even for housework), and he leaves her.

I don't even believe this lasted 10 years. I give it two at most.

OR, the woman has 4 kids with child support and food stamps, the woman owns the home.  Boyfriend moves in and quits his full time job.  He lives off her getting a few part time jobs here and there.  After 10 years the boyfriend meets another woman 10 years younger then the girlfriend and decides to put a run on this new woman, her kids are much younger then his girlfriends that in a couple of years will find the Child support will stop.  

The timing is off and he leaves too soon, gets a dump to stay in until the new woman gets able to let him move in.    To his shock the new woman and husband get back together and here he is out on all counts.  He now has great remorse for leaving a nice home so he picks up the phone to blubber for forgiveness and work his Ass off to get back into her good graces.   Hell any port in a storm.    

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« Reply #18 on: November 18, 2012, 06:28:12 AM »
OR, the woman has 4 kids with child support and food stamps, the woman owns the home.  Boyfriend moves in and quits his full time job.  He lives off her getting a few part time jobs here and there.  After 10 years the boyfriend meets another woman 10 years younger then the girlfriend and decides to put a run on this new woman, her kids are much younger then his girlfriends that in a couple of years will find the Child support will stop.  

The timing is off and he leaves too soon, gets a dump to stay in until the new woman gets able to let him move in.    To his shock the new woman and husband get back together and here he is out on all counts.  He now has great remorse for leaving a nice home so he picks up the phone to blubber for forgiveness and work his Ass off to get back into her good graces.   Hell any port in a storm.    

vesta, I think you've exemplified the degraded part of society well. That's the portion I call the 'Jerry Springer' part of the 47%. Usually the women are only 'self-sufficient' by means of government support and any loser guy latches on to them for it. Trust me though many of the women aren't exactly nurturers, they are using their children for the same thing the men are who latch on to them. IN my view this is part of the problem that needs correcting. We've got generations of people using children as their own personal 'gravy train' so they care nothing for raising them better then they turned out. They didn't have them to parent and nurture them to be anything more then they are. I'd like to think it's outdated, but I've seen it firsthand and too numerous times to mention. Children providing a means of support for a couple of losers.

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Re: DUmmy "blueamy66" dumped by long-time bf, left with $20 and the bills
« Reply #19 on: November 18, 2012, 07:20:16 AM »
So, 10 years of sex with DUmmies wymins is worth $20...... :-)......cheap sluts ain't they.
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Re: DUmmy "blueamy66" dumped by long-time bf, left with $20 and the bills
« Reply #20 on: November 18, 2012, 08:18:03 AM »
OR, the woman has 4 kids with child support and food stamps, the woman owns the home.  Boyfriend moves in and quits his full time job.  He lives off her getting a few part time jobs here and there.  After 10 years the boyfriend meets another woman 10 years younger then the girlfriend and decides to put a run on this new woman, her kids are much younger then his girlfriends that in a couple of years will find the Child support will stop.  

The timing is off and he leaves too soon, gets a dump to stay in until the new woman gets able to let him move in.    To his shock the new woman and husband get back together and here he is out on all counts.  He now has great remorse for leaving a nice home so he picks up the phone to blubber for forgiveness and work his Ass off to get back into her good graces.   Hell any port in a storm.    

Your description only applies to liberal men. Conservative men have enough honor to do the decent and civilized thing.
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Re: DUmmy "blueamy66" dumped by long-time bf, left with $20 and the bills
« Reply #21 on: November 18, 2012, 10:45:49 AM »
I find this curious.
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I'm at my BFs house, eating homemade tacos tonite and Tbones tomorrow. Don't know where I'm going next. We'll see what tomorrow brings.
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Re: DUmmy "blueamy66" dumped by long-time bf, left with $20 and the bills
« Reply #22 on: November 18, 2012, 11:21:20 AM »
She is selling her boyfriend's house?  I want to hear the WHOLE story, DUmmie.  If it's your boyfriend's house, you can't sell it.  ;)
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Re: DUmmy "blueamy66" dumped by long-time bf, left with $20 and the bills
« Reply #23 on: November 18, 2012, 11:57:56 AM »
We thought DUmmy Horse with no Brain's slutty daughter was stupid for buying her shackup boyfriend a widescreen TV.

DUmmy blueamynumbers makes the slutty daughter look like a college professor:
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8. He left me with a mortgage.

Planned it for about 2 weeks.



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17. Is his name on it?

Because if it is, it will hurt him just as much as it will you if you can't keep up. I wish I had more help for you.


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20. No just mine

Oh well

And DUmmy blueamynumbers doesn't work.

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Re: DUmmy "blueamy66" dumped by long-time bf, left with $20 and the bills
« Reply #24 on: November 18, 2012, 12:03:39 PM »
I have 3 bedrooms at 1100 square feet.  No one knows when I fart.  

Oh, they do, they're just too smart to incur your wrath by letting on.

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