mamacags, my inviter, has not wished me a happy birtday. Could she not love me anymore? 
I'd say she's looking to get all the riff-raff (the rest of the posters on this thread, moi included

) out of the way, then after the kids have been fed and watered and bedded for the night, she'll come prowling.
If she ain't too tired, the fireworks oughta be fun.
