Its sad that the two were married in what looked like a church. Or I should say a false church.
God has been very clear about how He feels about homosexuality. God doesn't play the PC game.
Its not like the rules aren't simple to understand, One man and one woman make a marriage. Anything else is a sham. I wish you whatever false happiness you can find. But I will never respect a homosexual marriage.
Just because you can find a state where gay marriage is legal, and a false church willing to perform such a travesty, doesn't make your pretend union any more legit.