What is with their pathological need to connect over every victimhood and potential tragedy out there? Have they nothing positive they can connect over?

I do agree with others about the self-awareness thing more then anything. You have to keep your wits about you and too many times to mention I can recall women I know who let themselves get shit-faced drunk or pranced about liked they owned a place with a big chip on their shoulder or were way too trusting. Women have to do to a better job of protecting themselves. I'm not saying by any stretch every man is a rapist, but liberals are famous for denying human nature and also twisting the circumstances of events that conspire.
I'd like to know how many of these are regret and not rape(not the stories of those who suffered abuse as minors of course--there is no excuse for those--the person who did that is a straight up criminal).