It is odd to me that if a woman was raped she would not be asking for a morning after pill or at least monitoring her cycle from 20 days after the rape. I can find out i am pregnant on a dollar store pregnancy test at 9 days past ovulaton. Why would a woman wait til the baby formed to abort?
Gina reality here, say you agree to babysit a 11-12 year niece until parents come home from work.
Say this little girl comes to your home an hour late from school and says she was playing with friends. You and parents read her the riot act and she is grounded for a few days. A few weeks later you find out the neice disobayed parents and stopped at that nice old mans home for candy.---How did this come about for her to tell where she had been ??
Well she has a bad itchie discharge and it burns when she pees. Into the doctors and this baby has STD and possibiliby pregnent.---------, the baby was too afraid to tell on the nice old man as he had threatened her, to late for the morning after pill, so off to get the Cops to lock him up. Now you find she was indeed raped by that monster and indeed pregnent. [Now what?]
OR you have a son who at 12 begins to have a personality change, he drops out of sports and is angry all the time . Last thing one thinks of is sexual abuse------Send the kid to a theropist or just accept this is part of growing up. Naturally the head shrinker will blame the parents for the childs problems.
Kids just don't tell when they are made to feel all this is their fault.
Adult woman and men are not as much a target to the the monsters as the children are. Unfortunately not just strangers but trusted family and those we train them to respect, teachers cops, preachers and family friends.
Very complicated issue this sex thing is, there is no one rule that fits all. Incest is so strange, perhaps worse then being raped by a stranger.
