OK, it's time to clarify again.
My point was that a healthy sex drive, and a healthy sex life, are not the exclusive province of thin, attractive, young, healthy people; which was my impression of the opinion offered by owebumazombie's friend. I accept that it may not have been the writer's intent to marginalize the rest of us.
I also appreciate the kind words, vesta, but they are unnecessary. I am single by choice right now.
I am looking for a woman who excites and challenges me
intellectually, emotionally, and physically. My expectations are not about age, weight, education, fitness/absence of disabilities, or arbitrary ideas of "beauty", although I do like redheads and da boobiez.
I don't settle; I won't waste my time, my emotion, or my money on a woman who is unwilling or unable to engage me fully in all areas.
And I really can't say if I'm ugly or not, because that is purely subjective. So, here is the no-need-to-be-humble Dog:

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Dala- Painted Swedish horse. This one has glasses and hearing aids

-Good hearing protection is important when you only have a little hearing left
And, vesta, if you
are hitting on me- thanks!