These people make me want to puke. Is there any misdeed they won't defend. You have the same old line up of excuses on this one, big surprise.
Baby died after mom left in SUV while at work
LEE'S SUMMIT, MO -
The mother of a baby who died yesterday accidentally left her infant son alone in her SUV all day, police said Friday.
Lee's Summit police said their investigation is ongoing.
"The preliminary investigation has revealed that the 13-month-old child was unintentionally left in a vehicle during daytime hours as the child's mother entered her workplace," police said.
The mother is a teacher at the Lee's Summit School District while her husband also works for the district.
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http://www.kctv5.com/story/18149859/baby-died-after-mom-left-in-suv-while-at-work Fumesucker
15. It's comforting to us to blame the parents..
We tell ourselves I could *never* do that, we cannot let ourselves imagine doing such a thing to our own child.
If you could forget your wallet or your cell phone you could forget your child, our wetware is remarkably buggy in a lot of ways.
I read an article several years ago that basically said in virtually every case it's a disruption of the normal routine of the parent(s) that leads to this.
http://www.salon.com/2009/03/09/fatal_distraction/
The subhead of Gene Weingarten’s heartbreaking article in yesterday’s Washington Post asks an inflammatory question — “Forgetting a child in the back seat of a hot, parked car is a horrifying, inexcusable mistake. But is it a crime?†— but it’s a bit of a red herring. Weingarten makes it clear from the outset that his answer is no — and that, in any case, no punishment could match the life sentence of guilt that parents who have done so were handed the moment they realized what happened. Seeking to demonstrate how even the most conscientious parents can have a tragic lapse of memory, Weingarten not only interviewed 13 people who have endured the horror of killing their own children in a “perfect storm†of distraction and absent-mindedness, but also a memory expert, David Diamond, who explains why it could happen to any of us: “Memory is a machine, and it is not flawless. Our conscious mind prioritizes things by importance, but on a cellular level, our memory does not. If you’re capable of forgetting your cellphone, you are potentially capable of forgetting your child.â€
As unbelievable as that statement may sound, Weingarten makes a strong case for its truth. In every instance he covers, the parents responsible were dealing with unusual interruptions in their morning routine, got distracted and believed they’d already dropped their children off at daycare or with the baby sitter — when in reality, they’d skipped that step and left the children in their parked cars as they went to work. Says Diamond, “The important factors that keep showing up involve a combination of stress, emotion, lack of sleep and change in routine, where the basal ganglia is trying to do what it’s supposed to do, and the conscious mind is too weakened to resist. What happens is that the memory circuits in a vulnerable hippocampus literally get overwritten, like with a computer program. Unless the memory circuit is rebooted — such as if the child cries … it can entirely disappear.†Weingarten makes it chillingly clear how the lack of that “reboot†can lead to parents sincerely believing their kids are safe in their daily routines while they’re actually dying. “Several people … have driven from their workplace to the day-care center to pick up the child they’d thought they’d dropped off, never noticing the corpse in the back seat. Then there is the Chattanooga, Tenn., business executive who must live with this: His motion-detector car alarm went off, three separate times, out there in the broiling sun. But when he looked out, he couldn’t see anyone tampering with the car. So he remotely deactivated the alarm and went calmly back to work.â€
“I was that guy, before. I’d read the stories, and I’d go, ‘What were those parents thinking?’†says Mikey Terry, whose 6-month-old daughter, Mika, died of hyperthermia after he left her in a car while he went to work driving a truck, only to realize what he’d done when he was 40 long miles away. For those of us who haven’t experienced such a tragedy, perhaps the most disturbing element of Weingarten’s article is how he indicts us for our knee-jerk judgments of these parents, our insistence that we would never be so careless. He quotes psychologist Ed Hickling, who’s studied the effects of fatal car accidents on the surviving drivers: “We want to believe that the world is understandable and controllable and unthreatening, that if we follow the rules, we’ll be okay. So, when this kind of thing happens to other people, we need to put them in a different category from us. We don’t want to resemble them, and the fact that we might is too terrifying to deal with. So, they have to be monsters.†Weingarten follows that up with an example of one of the comments on a Charlottesville News Web site article about Lyn Balfour, who left her son, Bryce, to perish in her car: “If she had too many things on her mind then she should have kept her legs closed and not had any kids. They should lock her in a car during a hot day and see what happens.â€
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22. This sounds like what happened with me...
That day I almost forgot my daughter seemed as normal as any other day. I don't know what happened for me to have forgotten. My husband and I were working and going to college full time. We had another older daughter. We had full schedules that kept us going constantly.
It was like any other day, too. For some reason that I cannot explain I just bypassed the daycare altogether and went to work. Temperatures were below freezing.
Thinking about all this now has me just about crying because I know how close I came to killing my baby girl. Even though it was many years ago, it still feels like yesterday.
No woman should sit down and allow a man to speak about her reproductive rights.
Worried senior
139. Things happen
many years ago my cousin who had six or seven children at the time went to town which was several miles away. Half way there she realized she'd left the baby at home. Anything could have happened there too, luckily it didn't but it could have. She was not the type to have done anything to hurt one of her kids, she was busy, tired and her husband was on the road, everything depended on her.
Fumesucker
26. How can you punish them worse than the punishment they will live for the rest of their lives with?
“I was that guy, before. I’d read the stories, and I’d go, ‘What were those parents thinking?’†says Mikey Terry, whose 6-month-old daughter, Mika, died of hyperthermia after he left her in a car while he went to work driving a truck, only to realize what he’d done when he was 40 long miles away. For those of us who haven’t experienced such a tragedy, perhaps the most disturbing element of Weingarten’s article is how he indicts us for our knee-jerk judgments of these parents, our insistence that we would never be so careless.
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It goes on and on. The child's mother should be arrested and charged with a crime, involuntary manslaughter comes to mind. Enough of this "she has been through enough" bleeding heart LIBERAL bullshit, she killed a baby you idiots.
