It's DUmmy Professor's fault guy kills himself

[Tucker]

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Tue Apr 17, 2012, 09:13 AM

Star Member ProfessorGAC (23,512 posts) Profile Journal Send DU Mail Ignore

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Friend of The Family Committed Suicide This Weekend
37 years old. Second attempt. His mom is our next door neighbor and a good friend of my wife. (Not that i'm not a friend of her too.) We moved in when he was in 7th grade.

He really planned this. Went to a very dark area, waited for a train, and jumped in front of it. Found him a couple hours before sunrise Sunday morning.

His mom is a wreck. My wife and i are taking care of the house and pets. She's going to stay at her daughter's house for an indefinite period, at the request of her therapist. (He wanted to hospitalize here, but the daughter said no.)

When he'd get way down, he'd call my wife and she had a way of perking him up. But, we went away for 11 days, and she and he didn't reconnect before the weekend. I had to work all day Sunday and Monday keeping my wife from blaming herself. She would get that way if i didn't try to help her not do it.

Just a bummer.
GAC

If you didn't put your own pleasures above someone else, the guy would still be alive. Although cleaning the train was probably a union job.

On a more serious note, do you actually believe that you have the power to hold sway over someone killing them self or not?

What an egotistical prick.

Brickbat (11,424 posts) Profile Journal Send DU Mail Ignore
2. *******it, I hate it when people make train crews do their dirty work for them.

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I hope the crew, you and your friends can find some peace.

Overtime at time and a half.

catbyte (1,376 posts) Profile Journal Send DU Mail Ignore
3. Please accept my condolences

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It must have been hell for him to be without any hope. It's certainly not your wife's fault--he was an adult and would have done it with or without your wife being home. I've found that if a person decides to check out, that's it. I hope he has achieved the peace that eluded him on earth.

Take care,

Diane
Anishinaabe in MI & mom to Leo, Sophie, Taz & Nigel, members of Dogs Against Romney, Cat Division
"We ride inside--HISS!”

Another democrat party voter base.

I don't believe a word of it. Just another depraved attention ho.

[Tucker]

Kaleva (6,630 posts) Profile Journal Send DU Mail Ignore
6. I won't be surprised if the day comes I'm told my soon to be ex wife is dead

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She's had serious mental issues for a very long time and has made numerous suicide attempts. I was well aware of all this before we got married. Many of her family has told me I'm the reason she's still alive today. Now that I'm out of the house, I can't be with her all the time but sometimes when we talk on the phone, I can easily tell she's down and out so I tell her to come and get me and I spend whatever time with her till she's feeling better (she has the car and all I have is a scooter).
But sometimes she can go downhill very fast and there may come a time when I don't catch that. I've already been telling myself I've done all I could but who knows how I'll feel if that does happen.

He was holding out for her to do it so he could get the insurance settlement. She kept lollygagging around.

He must have found someone more deranged. Is there a wedding in the future?

Again. I don't believe it.

[67 Rover]

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If you didn't put your own pleasures above someone else, the guy would still be alive. Although cleaning the train was probably a union job.

On a more serious note, do you actually believe that you have the power to hold sway over someone killing them self or not?

What an egotistical prick.

Overtime at time and a half.

Another democrat party voter base.

I don't believe a word of it. Just another depraved attention ho.

Ahhhh, these are the same folks that believe they can control this planets climate so preventing someone from killing themselves is cake.

[AllosaursRus]

Boy, I bet it was one helluva rush right before the train got there! Talk about catchin' a train!

I also noticed a DUmmie hoped he found peace after what he couldn't find on this earth. I didn't think primitives believed in an after life. I thought we were just worm food. In this guys case, I guess railroad ballast would be more like it. Couldn't have been much more than a red spot after a few feet!

[obumazombie]

As I recall owebuma was going to heal the planet, and cause the rising sea level to recede. He apprenticed for this project by walking on water during his gulf oil spill.

[Kyle Ricky]

As I recall owebuma was going to heal the planet, and cause the rising sea level to recede. He apprenticed for this project by walking on water during his gulf oil spill.

You forgot to add pay for people's mortgage and put gas in their car.

[obumazombie]

You forgot to add pay for people's mortgage and put gas in their car.

I won't forget Peggy Joseph any time soon. I wonder how she's doing. I wonder if owebuma can count on her vote.

[Kyle Ricky]

I won't forget Peggy Joseph any time soon. I wonder how she's doing. I wonder if owebuma can count on her vote.

I was doing a google search recently to see if there is anything new on her (or as Michelle Malkin calls her, Peggy the Moocher). But I came up empty.