So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot

[SSG Snuggle Bunny]

Nevermind the fact that the thought of dirty hippies grinding against each other in sweaty, mucus-slickedened clumsy groping makes my stomach somersault; they're shreding each other over there.

The following collection is from the first couple of pages:

Prostitution is violence: http://www.democraticunderground.com/1002142688

I have visited prostitutes, and I don't apologize for it. It was 1971, in a place called Vung Tau.: http://www.democraticunderground.com/1002150556

Is stripping also violence: http://www.democraticunderground.com/1002149605

"Normal" Sexuality: http://www.democraticunderground.com/1002153363

What Consenting Adults Do In Private Is Their Own Business. Period.: http://www.democraticunderground.com/1002148428

Is the male ego so fragile that that some feel the need [to objectify women?]: http://www.democraticunderground.com/1002151402

Andaman tour operators offer 'human safari' to visitors, video shows Jarawa women dance for tourists: http://www.democraticunderground.com/1002154000

The lies men tell themselves about prostitution and strippers: http://www.democraticunderground.com/1002153158

Surrogate sex partner inspires story, film: http://www.democraticunderground.com/1002151147



It's strange. You'd think the people who eschew morality, gender roles and  plain ol' biology wouldn't be so confused and tumulted over something so basic as sex.

[Chris_]

"Surrogate sex partners" 

These idiots kill me.

[Revolution]

Since their whole universe over there is perverse, why would you expect it to be any different with sex. In fact, it might be MORE perverse. I mean, just look at what they accept as "the norm."

Nevermind the fact that the thought of dirty hippies grinding against each other in sweaty, mucus-slickedened clumsy groping makes my stomach somersault; they're shreding each other over there.

Many DUmors have many sexual kinks Sarge. It's not for us to judge....

 

[Karin]

Just another clash of the liberals.  The anything-goes crowd vs. the frigid feminists.  Stop looking there!  My eyes are up here! 

I dunno.  I'm still traumatized by SubAtomic's too-much-information. 

Poor Stevenumbers.  I'll bet he feels left out. 

[jukin]

IHMO, more apropos is "They're fighting over NO sex a lot."

[Maxiest]

Charlemagne (450 posts) Profile Journal Send DU Mail Ignore

"I have heard (in a feminism class I took as an undergrad in 2005."

Hmmmmm...  I have no idea why you guys can't find any jobs.  

However, I have also heard that stripping is demeaning; it objectifies women; and promotes, if not celebrates, the culture of rape.

Are these they same people who love and promote events like the Folsom Street Parade?

I am so confused.

It's like the other recent thread about abortion.  You are either for it or against it, you can't change your mind every day to fit your small minded agenda.

Oh and...

lildreamer316 (14,776 posts) Profile Journal Send DU Mail Ignore
36. It was empowering to me.

I enjoyed it thoroughly. It gave me more confidence in my body and in my self,although I was not really suffering from a problem there.

I spent 14 years in the business.

I bet...

obamanut2012
9. It is often a financial necessity for women

Which is what I think the real question is for all of us, as a society.

I suggest everyone read the chapter on going to a strip club in Norah Vincent's "Self-Made Man."

We knew it was coming,  I am just surprised the DUmmie didn't say it was Bush's fault.

seabeyond (66,561 posts) Profile Journal Send DU Mail Ignore
16. a woman stands there naked, a man clothed. man holds dollar for entertainment for her to eat.

where is her empowerment?

ALERT, ALERT! CODE PINKER!


I love watching them fight among themselves.   

[JakeStyle]

I'm surprised that w8liftinglady hasn't chimed in on the hooker threads.  She used to go on and on about how she paid her way through college by working as a dominatrix.

[Airwolf]

I don't know how much or if any dancers at the clubs have to give to the owners but if I made what they make I'd be doing it too. There are tons of places with dancers working the poles and they don;t exactly go away with minimum wages.

[zeitgeist]

"Surrogate sex partners" 

These idiots kill me.

 

[SSG Snuggle Bunny]

DU is in near-riots over anything involving sex but supposedly conservatives are so repressed we're only capable of thinking with our dicks:

Bandit (18,701 posts) Profile Journal Send DU Mail Ignore

I think Romney will choose a woman for his VP pick and I have a hunch
it will be Nikki Haley.. She doesn't seem nearly as stupid as Sarah Palin and every bit as pretty. Being Pretty means more to Republicans than either competence or intelligence..IMO

http://www.democraticunderground.com/1002154983

[zeitgeist]

DU is in near-riots over anything involving sex but supposedly conservatives are so repressed we're only capable of thinking with our dicks:

http://www.democraticunderground.com/1002154983

I use to have a great Adbot capture for a "Gay" Alaskan cruise. Adbot certainly knew its audience.

[JohnnyReb]

I use to have a great Adbot capture for a "Gay" Alaskan cruise. Adbot certainly knew its audience.

Now that right there shows how stupid DUmmies are...especially the queer ones... everyone knows that ice cold water and dicks don't mix....not only do you get the shrinkage factor, you get the limpage factor too.

[Maxiest]

Now that right there shows how stupid DUmmies are...especially the queer ones... everyone knows that ice cold water and dicks don't mix....not only do you get the shrinkage factor, you get the limpage factor too.

Shrinkage+Limpage=No-goage.

[MoshMasterD]

I recall a long time ago, this DUchebagger chick wrote that her husband is going to marry their lover.  Yes, poligamy.  And boy,did the DUmp cheer!

[vesta111]

I recall a long time ago, this DUchebagger chick wrote that her husband is going to marry their lover.  Yes, poligamy.  And boy,did the DUmp cheer!

I have no problem with woman that have to live by their Witt's, my problem is with the MEN that are paracits that live off them.

As a Conservative I believe people should be allowed to go into any business they wish and are good at. A girl that spends 5 years in dance school that has not the talent to go on Broadway and is stuck at a job selling shoes is going no where.  A girl that spends 5 years learning to pole dance and makes $500.00 a night, well that takes talent.

REALITY here, the DC Madam did not round up girls on the streets, she hired girls with class, in college and those just out of college with a degree in something to allow them to actually talk to the men with money.

These girls were not the bimbos that Hugh Hefner had at his home, none of them would want to be caught dead in that place.

Rumors were that the Water Gate breaking was to actually get the books on the high class hookers that had in fact married some of Washingtons high up was more plausible then looking for the accounts of campane donors.

Sex is one thing it is hard to fight about.     Newport News VA. New law that strippers had to cover up their body's, guess what the rape reports went out of sight.     

With all businesses there is the graft paid to the cops and the extortion from the suppliers.    I am sure the purveyors of sex pay as much as the local Mom and Pop store on the corner.

Unfortunately Sex not a want but a need for humans of both sexes.   How can anyone fight about a need stronger then food or water???

I would like to know if not in a religious cult, those that go into sex with others, group sex can make it a life long commitment.

SEX is not LOVE, when age and medical problems arise, the lust is over, people have to depend on LOVE to keep them together.

Sex is there, even old people like me get aroused from time to time, but it is a personal thing that has nothing to do with Love. Yes we old ladys do get a quiver in our fanny from time to time.

Fighting about sex is akin to fighting about how much water someone should drink in a day.

[Maxiest]

I have no problem with woman that have to live by their Witt's, my problem is with the MEN that are paracits that live off them.

As a Conservative I believe people should be allowed to go into any business they wish and are good at. A girl that spends 5 years in dance school that has not the talent to go on Broadway and is stuck at a job selling shoes is going no where.  A girl that spends 5 years learning to pole dance and makes $500.00 a night, well that takes talent.

REALITY here, the DC Madam did not round up girls on the streets, she hired girls with class, in college and those just out of college with a degree in something to allow them to actually talk to the men with money.

These girls were not the bimbos that Hugh Hefner had at his home, none of them would want to be caught dead in that place.

Rumors were that the Water Gate breaking was to actually get the books on the high class hookers that had in fact married some of Washingtons high up was more plausible then looking for the accounts of campane donors.

Sex is one thing it is hard to fight about.     Newport News VA. New law that strippers had to cover up their body's, guess what the rape reports went out of sight.     

With all businesses there is the graft paid to the cops and the extortion from the suppliers.    I am sure the purveyors of sex pay as much as the local Mom and Pop store on the corner.

Unfortunately Sex not a want but a need for humans of both sexes.   How can anyone fight about a need stronger then food or water???

I would like to know if not in a religious cult, those that go into sex with others, group sex can make it a life long commitment.

SEX is not LOVE, when age and medical problems arise, the lust is over, people have to depend on LOVE to keep them together.

Sex is there, even old people like me get aroused from time to time, but it is a personal thing that has nothing to do with Love. Yes we old ladys do get a quiver in our fanny from time to time.

Fighting about sex is akin to fighting about how much water someone should drink in a day.

402 words of Wow!

[SSG Snuggle Bunny]

Fighting about sex is akin to fighting about how much water someone should drink in a day.

If you drink too much water you are guaranteed--not might, not could--but absolutely will kill yourself.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Water_intoxication

Analogies work best when you know something about both subjects.

[DumbAss Tanker]

I did not realize there was such a thing as sexually-transmitted stupidity.

 

[docstew]

402 words of Wow!

BS for breaking the vow to not quote vesta

[Maxiest]

BS for breaking the vow to not quote vesta

Damn't I forgot...

[GOBUCKS]

I guess we'll always have that tiny handful of people who don't have vestanumbers on "ignore".

That's fine. People should be allowed to read whatever tripe they want.

But it's going too far to quote her, and force decent and civilized people to see her posts.

Quoting vestanumbers isn't much different from posting YouTube clips of a Frisco gay pride parade.

[SSG Snuggle Bunny]

But it's going too far to quote her...

Especially at length.

If people are going to do that they need to truncate the lunacy.

[DumbAss Tanker]

Frank's approach on that is worthy of emulation; a quote box but with all the content cut.  That way, the purpose, and referent for the post, is much clearer.

[delilahmused]

Yeah, these women feel so objectified! One of the premium channels had a series about the Bunny Ranch. Those women are treated with more respect (they have the sweetest little housemother) than most office clerks I've seen, they're pampered beyond belief and genuinely seem to love their jobs. And evidently women can be chauvinists against themselves and other women since porn stars like Jenna Jameson and Belladonna have their own production companies and earn scads and wads of money from each and every production. The women who work at Hooters (and actually applied for jobs there on their own) don't want the jobs because there's always some kind of sports playing on the TV's in the background. Some women actually like attention from men. What a concept.

Oh and women objectify men too. I could give a flying rat's ass if these guys are usually gay cuz those are damn hot bods! We have an all male revue that comes every year to our little bar in Yoncalla. The place is packed! I like the fireman and the black guy that comes out in spats and a tux and does Puttin' on the Ritz (does he ever!). Our husbands never seem to mind given the agitated state we come home in.

[youtube=425,350]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DNfpoQ4iRl8[/youtube]

[vesta111]

Yeah, these women feel so objectified! One of the premium channels had a series about the Bunny Ranch. Those women are treated with more respect (they have the sweetest little housemother) than most office clerks I've seen, they're pampered beyond belief and genuinely seem to love their jobs. And evidently women can be chauvinists against themselves and other women since porn stars like Jenna Jameson and Belladonna have their own production companies and earn scads and wads of money from each and every production. The women who work at Hooters (and actually applied for jobs there on their own) don't want the jobs because there's always some kind of sports playing on the TV's in the background. Some women actually like attention from men. What a concept.

Oh and women objectify men too. I could give a flying rat's ass if these guys are usually gay cuz those are damn hot bods! We have an all male revue that comes every year to our little bar in Yoncalla. The place is packed! I like the fireman and the black guy that comes out in spats and a tux and does Puttin' on the Ritz (does he ever!). Our husbands never seem to mind given the agitated state we come home in.

[youtube=425,350]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DNfpoQ4iRl8[/youtube]

I love that link Delilah, shows the hypocrisy's of the male that can stop at a tittie bar and then find out their wives and girlfriends are headed out to watch male strippers.

Men can feel free to look at hooters but when his wife checks out a male dancers Package, Wow the SHTF.    .

Fear I would guess from the male that their woman is compairing another male to them. Fear that their woman may need more excitement then they can deliver. Fear that Gay males can turn on their woman more then they can.

Fear as they age they could loose their woman to a younger and sexier man then they---Who had a great body and all their hair.

Fear that while they stop for a drink after work their wives may do the same----they know well full and good why they do this, so when their woman does the same they become suspicious.

I found out many years ago that when a man out of the blue starts acting Jealous of his mate for no reason, the men do indeed have a reason, they themselves are up to no good.

I have seen this happen way to often to be pure coincidence, this also goes into the Gays and Lesbians I have worked with.   

Now as I seem to rile up the males posting here, I expect them  to turn into wolves, not quote me, just wonder how I a female can see into the no-no land of the male species. 

Age old question on sex, why do men get off watching tapes of lesbians in action????  This one I have not yet understood.   Any ideas ??????