It's very odd, all these "sexual harassment" bouncies coming from the primitives.
It's stirring up memories here.
I've always been an average-looking male, nothing in particular about myself (other than the absence of ears, but remember, that's skillfully disguised by my wearing my hair a little bit longer than what is fashionable for men).
Just your normal all-American-looking male, nothing special.
In the course of my life, I've been approached by all sorts of people--as I still am, but it's less of a problem than it used to be--in one way or another subtly suggesting we "do something" "together." At which I inwardly recoil in revulsion, but outwardly remain mellow, cool, nonchalant, polite.
Sexuality is a very personal thing, and I would just as soon be the selector rather than the selectee.
I always--inwardly--laugh in derision whenever hearing another guy and his story of being approached by another guy suggesting they "do something" "together." I've had those, but that's something easily handled with grace and class and aplomb, compared with something else.
There is a class of people, better than child molesters but worse than gay recruiters, who "get off" on the idea of having sex with a deformed person or a handicapped person. These people, female and male, are abominable; I don't even want to breath the same air they do.
I cannot possibly imagine, unless one has a really twisted mind, what jollies one can get from bouncing around in the sack with a person who has no ears, or with a deaf person. That appears to be the focus of their erotic fantasies, "making out" with a freak or a vulnerable person.
(I use the word "freak" for strictly descriptive purposes; one has to admit the absence of ears makes one look, uh, rather unusual--in no way do I consider myself that badly. I am not disparaging myself; I am simply describing an aspect of myself that is indisputable.)
There seems this notion that the deaf are "easy," and in fact it's not helped, not helped at all, with the conduct of my peers, which does more to verify it than to refute it. Add to that this preposterous notion that there's something "special" about having sex with a deaf person (our "vulnerability" seeming to be what attracts).
Yeah, right.
It's happened quite a bit, and while I can handle unsolicited advances from normal people with ease and good manners, no feelings hurt, I've never been able with good graces to spurn someone turned on by what I myself consider a great deformity (the absence of ears) or a potential life-threatening condition (deafness).
Why such things turn some people on, I have no idea.
To protect myself, it's necessary that I emit the impression of being coldly insolent when around such people, and I try very hard to give that impression, but according to normal women, apparently I instead radiate an "aura of wistful vulnerability" (the neighbor's wife's own words).
I don't even want to breath the same air as these creeps.
