Good as any place to mark my gratitude I suppose....
My parents divorced when I was very young. Both remarried when I hit 10. My stepmother was so glamorous. And a good, kind soul. My Dad was a man that never should have had children (I got that from him.) He didn't know what to do with a girl. My stepmom jumped in and entertained me, made me feel special. When my Dad would do "boy things" with my brother, my stepmom would take me out for girls night. It started with Ice Capades, to getting my colors done, to antique shopping, to having a special dinner in a sit-down restaurant. I felt glamorous too.
As we got older, my Dad and I found our way. He got Cancer and it sucked, as Cancer does. Toward the end, that I didn't know was the end, I flew up to surprise him for Father's Day. I ended up holding his hand, as he took his last breath with my stepmother at the other side. Bonding Moment? Yeah, it was all that. It was the most painful, and most supreme moment of my life.
Less than three years later, I was laid off from work, and at home, fixin to take my laundry to the laundromat. I got laid off on Friday, this was Tuesday. I had watched the news, then switched to Little House on the Prairie. Before I left, I switched over for some reason, and saw what had happened. I watched as I heard about what happened to the Pentagon. I knew my stepmom was there. She was there every Tuesday. She supported higher staff in the Navy, and hadn't retired yet.
Eight hours went by. I called her family, my Aunt, my Mom and Etta. Etta called the local hospitals all the way from Montana. (that always warms my heart.) I finally heard her voice, and she was home. She said she walked into the Pentagon, heard a loud boom, turned around, walked out, and drove home.
I consider myself very grateful that I didn't lose her that day.
I watch many of these remembering shows. Mostly to remind me how much I could have lost and didn't. And to remind myself how grateful I need to remember to be.
I truly consider myself to be blessed. And I pray for those that lost loved ones every day. It could have been me, it could have been my family. And it wasn't.
That I will never forget.