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DainBramaged Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list    Thu Jul-21-11 11:19 AM
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My brother would have been 65 tomorrow   Updated at 6:25 PM
   
but he died from pancreatic cancer in early April of this year. Like my father who died at 64 from heart failure and my sister who is very ill and will be 63 in August probably will not reach the magic number for retirement either. I hadn't seen my brother since my father's funeral in 1985. He was one of the lost souls of Vietnam. Severely wounded by a 'popper', even winning two bronze stars for bravery in combat. Lyndon Johnson even pinned his Purple Heart on him when he arrived home to recover. he lost part of his foot and hand and had shrapnel in him they never removed. He came home and was briefly married, and fathered a daughter. Spent most of his years after that lost like so many of his brothers in arms. We had thought he had died years ago since there had been no contact with him from anyone in our families. But in April something told me to try and find him again. What I found was his obituary.

He lived FIFTEEN MINUTES from his daughter and about two hours from me, but had not contacted her in over 20 years. He had worked here and there but because of his ghosts, never could hold a job for long. When it was discovered he had cancer in early January of this year, he moved in with some members of the church he adopted. When he was placed in hospice, his minister contacted his daughter, but by the time she reached him, he had slipped into a coma and passed quietly. He is buried in a Veterans cemetery near where he lived. But thankfully he didn't die alone. His minister brought me up to speed on his life and death when I researched his church. He was a silent victim of Vietnam. He was a silent victim of the treatment our Veterans receive.


I don't know what ghosts convinced him to live apart form his families most of his adult life. I never got to talk to him after he came back because he disappeared immediately thereafter. And he was silent for the most part at my father;s funeral. he never knew his Mom had died in 2009. He didn't even know my sister and I were still alive nor did he want to know.

Neither my dad or brother got to enjoy 'retirement'. And now the wealthy pricks in Washington are trying to make it worse for the rest of us. I am sure the system failed my brother, because if it was a caring system, he would have found the help he needed long ago. All they provided was hospice in the end.


Thanks for reading.


Happy Birthday my brother, Happy Birthday.

Sounds like the wrong brother died.

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3. . . . .
   
The lost souls of Viet Nam veterans.

A national disgrace.

I hope you find peace, friend.

Peace from what? The one who has me on ignore hadn't seen his brother in 26 years. DainBramaged is just another DUmmy that has rejected his family.

Either that or they disowned him as an embarrassment. Much like you being banished to the basement.

BTW. Sup dude?

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5. My uncle is another silent victim -
   
he was married before serving in Viet Nam, and had 3 children. It was always a struggle. In the end he was a homeless alcoholic who lost his wife. Everyone said he was a great guy before the military service (this was in a small town where siblings had gone to school with him). He died from the alcoholism (and I would argue post-traumatic stress), and was living under a bridge at the time.





Come to think of it, unions do create jobs. Companies have to hire two workers to do the work of one.

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Actually, I have reasons to believe the brain-damaged primitive is 58, perhaps 59, years old.
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Boo-****in-hoo, DUdes.

Let's run down my family history:

--Grandmother dead at 60, breast/bone cancer.
--Grandfather dead at 59, alcohol.
--Father dead at 65, lung cancer.
--Uncle dead at 50, heart failure.
--Sister dead at 31, heart condition.

Not to mention all the other relatives I currently have, none of whom are yet 65, with serious medical conditions that likely will not live to see that age, or long past it.

Dain, you whine and whimper about how "they're going to make it worse for you".  Yeah, who's that?  Lemme take a wild shot in the ****ing dark--Obamacare.  You wanted it, you got it.  Now STFU.
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From all the bouncy tales we've read over the years, describing parties, reunions, dinners, funerals, and holidays, I'd say DUmmy
BrainDamaged has a typical DUmp democrat family, no better and no worse than the average democrat.

It's a rare democrat who knows whether the members of his immediate family are dead or alive.

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Actually, I have reasons to believe the brain-damaged primitive is 58, perhaps 59, years old.

Could be. I was thinking early 60's.
Come to think of it, unions do create jobs. Companies have to hire two workers to do the work of one.

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Could be. I was thinking early 60's.

It was about three, four, months ago that the brain-damaged primitive alleged himself to be 58 years old; I forget how that got injected into a campfire, or what the campfire was about.

But no matter his chronological age, he still comes across as a retarded 18-year-old.
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Milo Yiannopoulos "It has been obvious since 2016 that Trump carries an anointing of some kind. My American friends, are you so blind to reason, and deaf to Heaven? Can he do all this, and cannot get a crown? This man is your King. Coronate him, and watch every devil shriek, and every demon howl."

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From all the bouncy tales we've read over the years, describing parties, reunions, dinners, funerals, and holidays, I'd say DUmmy
BrainDamaged has a typical DUmp democrat family, no better and no worse than the average democrat.

It's a rare democrat who knows whether the members of his immediate family are dead or alive.

Add another to the list.

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7. Recommended.
   
Moving. thank you for sharing this.

It brings up something that I do not think about much. I have relatives who live less than five miles from me (mother, sister, brother-in-law) whom I have not spoken to in many, many years. Extended families are curious things.
Come to think of it, unions do create jobs. Companies have to hire two workers to do the work of one.

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I just finished reading my brothers widow's Facebook for the first time in over a year. You miserable victims never take responsibility for your own actions. She claimed on her FB that she is going back to school to seek a degree in "social justice" (law). She claimed her dream of being a lawyer was put on hold when she "fell ill" and her husband (my brother) died.

She is a liar just like the rest of you  In reality she took one semester of college then quit, met my brother then proceeded to spend all of his money. She has always been "ill" she didn't fall ill then suddenly not able to go to school.  She gave him HER methadone that caused to overdose yet she refuses to accept her part of his death. She is a lying pig, just like the rest of you.

A little side note, she wrote a post about seeing a dog locked in a car with the windows rolled up, she claimed she called the police and then somehow it turned into republican's fault.

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I just finished reading my brothers widow's Facebook for the first time in over a year. You miserable victims never take responsibility for your own actions. She claimed on her FB that she is going back to school to seek a degree in "social justice" (law). She claimed her dream of being a lawyer was put on hold when she "fell ill" and her husband (my brother) died.

She is a liar just like the rest of you  In reality she took one semester of college then quit, met my brother then proceeded to spend all of his money. She has always been "ill" she didn't fall ill then suddenly not able to go to school.  She gave him HER methadone that caused to overdose yet she refuses to accept her part of his death. She is a lying pig, just like the rest of you.

A little side note, she wrote a post about seeing a dog locked in a car with the windows rolled up, she claimed she called the police and then somehow it turned into republican's fault.

Wow, I don't see bouncies on FB very often.  How creative. :whatever:
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I'll ignore the political rant at the end of his comment ::) and say I just said a Prayer that God Bless his Brother.
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I'll ignore the political rant at the end of his comment ::) and say I just said a Prayer that God Bless his Brother.

Actually, madam, that's probably what's going on.  We know what sorts of people we are.
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Milo Yiannopoulos "It has been obvious since 2016 that Trump carries an anointing of some kind. My American friends, are you so blind to reason, and deaf to Heaven? Can he do all this, and cannot get a crown? This man is your King. Coronate him, and watch every devil shriek, and every demon howl."

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he still comes across as a retarded 18-year-old.
  Exactly.  I was floored when I found out he was in his 50's. 

I think his point is that it's NOT FAIR when some of us do not make it to the SS retirement age, and so therefore we should all be able to retire on the dole whenever it suits our fancy. 

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  Exactly.  I was floored when I found out he was in his 50's. 

I think his point is that it's NOT FAIR when some of us do not make it to the SS retirement age, and so therefore we should all be able to retire on the dole whenever it suits our fancy. 

He talks like he's three in some of his posts in the lounge. Especially when he talks about cats.

Come to think of it, unions do create jobs. Companies have to hire two workers to do the work of one.

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He talks like he's three in some of his posts in the lounge. Especially when he talks about cats.



Additionally, I always had the impression the brain dead primitive is sort of gay; not a full-fledged one, but sort of.
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Milo Yiannopoulos "It has been obvious since 2016 that Trump carries an anointing of some kind. My American friends, are you so blind to reason, and deaf to Heaven? Can he do all this, and cannot get a crown? This man is your King. Coronate him, and watch every devil shriek, and every demon howl."

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Yes, he once posted an OP in the Lounge entitled "Post your Kittehs and Goggies here!" 


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Yes, he once posted an OP in the Lounge entitled "Post your Kittehs and Goggies here!"

What's a "Goggie"? Is it like when nadin finds something interesting on Google?

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OK, help me out here. Who is responsible for the most part for any veteran feeling like he has no where to go and no one wants him or her around? Which group went around protesting Vietnam and the people that fought in that war then when they came home did everything to shame and embarrass them? Here's a helpfull hint for the DUmpmonkies. It wasn't Conservatives.
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OK, help me out here. Who is responsible for the most part for any veteran feeling like he has no where to go and no one wants him or her around? Which group went around protesting Vietnam and the people that fought in that war then when they came home did everything to shame and embarrass them? Here's a helpfull hint for the DUmpmonkies. It wasn't Conservatives.

 [/quote ]--------the people that fought in that war then when they came home did everything to shame and embarrass them?

Memory must be slipping here.

As I remember it, the people that yelled the most about returning Vets from that altercation were the same folks that sent their Sons to Canada or had friends to keep their Sons at home,  in college, or working for a government job far from the war.

 :fuelfire:----------Looking back, at that time even instate tution was very expensive for that time,  few kids unless they had parents that were professional could afford the education and ran about becoming hippies. These kids mostly came from influential family's that were conservative or liberal as it effected their kids.

Our war was fought by the poor of all races, ground troops that had no influence to get them a job as a State or Government worker.

Few could pass the written exams to get into the Navy,  Air Force or Coast Guard, some had to be taught to read instructions on how to lace their boots.

The draft needed body's that were healthy enough to run and shoot the enemy and not frag their superior.

Some how the boys drafted who were knuckle heads when they went in, most of them came out alive as MEN.

Others just were not suited for the job, this I know as the Federal Prison on CV island had to open the top floors of the unite to hold the swelling inmate population.

 Horrid time for them and the Marines that guarded them. ------Top floors had electricity that went back to the 1920's, Slop buckets that were used as toilets in some cases.   

I have pictures of me as a kid water skiing past the Castle showing arms waving at me out the barred windows as I waved back.   Today I wonder if there was some kind of window to be pulled down in the winter.
   
When it came time for release of the prisoners they were herded out a bus given their release papers that were pink and sent off.   One visiting the base knew when a big release had come about as the parking lot out side the main gate was littered with the papers the prisoners that thrown out the window.

Please don't forget that the parents of these kids had seen horror beyond belief in WW2, Big problem for them when it came to their own children to serve and suffer as they did.

Interesting time for me as at one point I dated a Marine that was out of the service and worked in the Chaplain's Office at the Castle, his parents were professional and the closest he got to the war was SF on Holiday. All his enlistment was spent either as a Castle guard or later as a GS 3-4 .