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uppityperson  (1000+ posts)       Sun Apr-20-08 02:31 PM
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FLDS case has a lot of different issues associated with it, isn't simple.
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Freedom of religious choices. Societal's obligation to those unable to protect themselves adequately (mostly children and elderly but others fall into this group also). Freedom for parents to raise their children as they wish.

I very much do not like what FLDS promotes. Kicking out young men/boys, teen/preteen marriage, keeping women uneducated and in burqas (almost) etc etc etc. It strikes me much as the Taliban in Afghanistan. I see no "fun" in Fundamentalist groups like this one.

So long as people don't get hurt, laws aren't broken, and they do it willingly, people can be as fundamentalist as they wish, as much as it makes a nasty smell.

Then the questions become is it voluntary, is anyone hurt?

If there is abuse, religion is not a defense.

I can see parallels between removing all the kids from this sect and what happened to parents of friend who were part of the "remove those pagan indians from their homes, send them off to boarding school or give them away" generation. I can see fears of what this may mean for people in the future, if the way you raise your children is not "typical" or accepted as being within "normal" guidelines, will They be able to take them away (again thinking of Taliban and the increasing fundamentalism of USA and our gvt)?

The sheer numbers of people involved here and uncertainty as to biological heritage complicate things further. Then you get the issue of do you send kids with biologic mother or with the one that has been responsible for raising them (if there is one)?

And yes, CPS can and has ****ed up in the past. Of course it has. But it also has done some good things, has helped some kids out of atrocious situations.

It does strike a lot of us in various different emotional ways. I am sure there are some posters here, like on other topics, that do not espouse open mindedness, that would like to have Fundamentalist groups like this continue on, for whatever reason. But there are also many of us who are affected deeply and emotionally by 1 or 2 or multiple factors in this complicated case, and those factors are not nec the same for each of us.

My heart goes out to those who suffer due to Fundamentalist crap.

Hmmm... let's see what the hive says:

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uppityperson  (1000+ posts)       Sun Apr-20-08 02:47 PM
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1. 4o views, no replies, so am kicking for people suffering Fundamentalism everywhere.


No Shit. You are linking the left's beloved religion of no choice. They are trying to figure out how to have you stoned. (and not in a liberal way)


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PerpetuallyDazed  (191 posts)      Sun Apr-20-08 03:05 PM
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3. "You're in America now..."
 "...abide by our laws or get the heck out." Isn't that the way it goes?

What I don't understand: Why were 400+ children taken into protective custody because of one accusation? Shouldn't an investigation be underway before you further traumatize the victims?
 


uh...protection?

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lizzy (1000+ posts)     Sun Apr-20-08 03:12 PM
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7. Native americans were not fundamentalists. Just different.
 Australians used to remove aboriginal children from their parents.
Now they think that was a mistake.

 :thatsright: apples and kangaroos?

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uppityperson  (1000+ posts)       Sun Apr-20-08 03:14 PM
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8. I'm not saying NA were fundamentalists, but many kids, a generation, got removed from families.
 Edited on Sun Apr-20-08 03:15 PM by uppityperson
Is that really what you got from what I wrote, that NA were fundamentalist? I suggest you re-read.

A generation of kids removed is the part that I find similar. Fears that FLDS will lose a generation of kids, and no, I do not think it is the same, but the fears are.

LDS I find more similar overall to Taliban.


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lizzy (1000+ posts)     Sun Apr-20-08 03:32 PM
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15. I have never said that native american cultures
 and FLDS were the same.
So, don't put words into my mouth.
But as far as I understand it, at least in some tribes one man could have multiple wives.

what the **** is this retard smoking?

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OmmmSweetOmmm  (1000+ posts)       Sun Apr-20-08 03:25 PM
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11. I hate it that these children have been programmed to believe that sexual
 Edited on Sun Apr-20-08 03:26 PM by OmmmSweetOmmm
abuse is part of the greater glory and that their mothers have little girl voices and vacant eyes. I don't know if the Constitution was violated in removing the children but I do hope that things can get sorted out and those children, I'm sure who are already psychologically damaged and emotionally damaged, go on to live better lives.

But as you pointed out -

I can see parallels between removing all the kids from this sect and what happened to parents of friend who were part of the "remove those pagan indians from their homes, send them off to boarding school or give them away" generation. I can see fears of what this may mean for people in the future, if the way you raise your children is not "typical" or accepted as being within "normal" guidelines, will They be able to take them away (again thinking of Taliban and the increasing fundamentalism of USA and our gvt)?

With some individual state laws being created with religious fervor (ie..the latest one where pregnant mothers must view sonograms before abortions), how soon will it be before Wiccan parents are deemed unfit or Hindus?

And what will happen when the state decides if you're a smoker, have a rottweiler dog, or perhaps go to McDonald's too often, that you are an abusive parent and come into your home and take away your children.

This is a very slippery slope.

I am so happy that at least for the time being that these children are safer, or at least I hope they are safer, but it makes me wonder in the future, how far the state will be able to go in regard to each of us as parents.



When the wiccans and the hindus start ****ing 13 year old girls, I would expect then their children would be taken away. Is that a hard concept to grasp? Apparently so.

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lizzy (1000+ posts)     Sun Apr-20-08 03:36 PM
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17. Most of these things aren't even been alleged by authorites, but
 by DU members. It's absurd to claim infanticide is alleged, when from the testimony of the CPS worker and the shrink it came out that there were no signs of abuse against babies, any boys or pre-pubesent girls.
Jeez.


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Seperate thread, same subject:
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pnwmom  (1000+ posts)      Sat Apr-19-08 05:49 PM
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A question no one's been asking the FLDS polygamists:
 Advertisements [?]If these mother-child bonds are so important to you, if it is such a detriment for your children to be separated from their mothers,
then why did Warren Jeffs order dozens of children to be taken from their birth parents in Arizona and Utah and sent to live with new families in Texas?

Why weren't you complaining then?

http://www.canada.com/globaltv/national/story.html?id=c...

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Many children won’t say who their parents are or even who they are. It’s possible some have Canadian connections or may even be Canadian since the surnames on the court documents match some of those in Bountiful — Johnson, Barlow, Steed, Jessop and Jeffs.

B.C.’s Attorney General Wally Oppal said Friday Canadian children are among the those seized. A federal spokesman could not confirm the report.

Part of the confusion, according to people with close connections to the Fundamentalist Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, is that last summer, the jailed prophet Warren Jeffs ordered dozens of children to be taken from their homes in Utah and Arizona and reassigned to new parents in the Texas compound.

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yella_dawg (1000+ posts)      Sat Apr-19-08 05:51 PM
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2. There's a difference between a lunatic doing something sick
 and the government doing the same thing. But it's okay, since there have been accusations of abuse. Accusations are enough nowadays.

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lizzy (1000+ posts)     Sat Apr-19-08 05:54 PM
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3. Ain't that something. I've read from an escaped sect member
 how FLDS men would keep the women in line by telling them that if they don't behave, their children will be taken away. But apparently it's all peachy-rosey when the state of TX did it.

trying to explain the difference wiould be pointless, of course.

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lizzy (1000+ posts)     Sat Apr-19-08 05:59 PM
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7. Out of 416 children and teenagers removed by the state, five are said to be
 Edited on Sat Apr-19-08 06:00 PM by lizzy
pregnant. That's less than 2 %. That hardly prooves all of the parents don't follow TX age of consent laws , and all children had to be removed.


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kestrel91316  (1000+ posts)       Sat Apr-19-08 06:33 PM
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31. She and a half dozen sock-puppet friends have been defending
 FLDS abusers for days now.........

One of them even proclaims women and children PROPERTY, subject to laws regarding unreasonable search and seizure.

Sick MFs..........


 how long until they start claiming freeper troll?

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NCevilDUer  (1000+ posts)      Sat Apr-19-08 07:20 PM
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58. Fun with math.
 Assuming an even spread over the years and equal numbers of male/female.

416 children.
25% are 13-16. That makes the pool 104.
50% are male. That makes the pool 52.
5 pregnancies in 52 girls = 10%, not 2%.

TEN PERCENT OF POST PUBERTY FEMALES UNDER 16.

It does kind of change the perception, doesn't it.


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lizzy (1000+ posts)     Sat Apr-19-08 07:24 PM
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60. If you gonna do the math, at least get your facts straight.
 It's been pointed time and time again that there are less males than females among the children

 
wouldn't that mean the % is higher then?

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lizzy (1000+ posts)     Sat Apr-19-08 07:52 PM
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70. Some statistics for Texas. Add it up.
 Edited on Sat Apr-19-08 07:54 PM by lizzy
Every 10 minutes, a teen in TX gets pregnant.

FLDS are not the only ones with the problem.

http://www.dshs.state.tx.us/famplan/tpp.shtm 


Strawman. The last defense of the retarded.

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NCevilDUer  (1000+ posts)      Sat Apr-19-08 08:28 PM
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81. Did you read your own stats?
 1 of 27 16 yr olds (since this is talking about 16 and under) = < 4%
1 of 58 15 yr olds = < 2%
1 of 967 14 yr olds = < .1%
1 of 5280 13 yr olds = < .02%

Add them together any you have 6% or less, which means 9% of FLDS girls 13-16 is 50% MORE than the Texas average.

And that refers only the the CIRRENTLY pregnant - does not include those who had children in the past two or three years (who refuse to identify themselves for fear of incurring the wrath of the elders).

And the general stats refer to children getting pregnant by other children - girls who have boyfriends who are teens themselves, mostly. Not childred who are being raped by adult men.

How could you, as a woman, possibly defend this?



how about. lizzy ain't a woman?

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roguevalley  (1000+ posts)       Sun Apr-20-08 03:34 PM
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235. sounds like you're right, seabeyond. I was a teacher and a 
 quasi-official of the court. If I even SUSPECTED child abuse I was OBLIGATED BY LAW to report. I HAD NO CHOICE in the matter and if I didn't do it, I could go to jail. But I guess pedo's rights are more important than saving women and children from rape and abuse.


yup.

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lizzy (1000+ posts)     Sun Apr-20-08 12:58 AM
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What if the moon was made of cheese?


tombstone...I'm sensing a tombstone...

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lizzy (1000+ posts)     Sun Apr-20-08 02:12 AM
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182. Yes, I am concerned for the safety of the children.
 Even the shrink who testified for CPS admitted that placing those children in foster care is going to be destructive. He also admitted they need special foster care, which does not exist.
So, pardon me if I am concerned about these children and the way they might suffer because state of TX removed them from their mothers.
Now the state is going to make even the mothers of the youngest ones to leave them.
And it's going to send these children to different sites.
So, yes I am concerned they will suffer.

backpeddle

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indie_ana_500 (1000+ posts)      Sun Apr-20-08 02:30 AM
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184. Ha. You must have an inside source, since none of what you said has
 been reported in the news. Do you just make this stuff up as you go along?

The children have been temporarily removed so that DNA tests can be performed, and the results come in, physical exams, and investigations away from the mothers (this is standard abuse investigation...you don't ask a possible child abuse victim in front of the possible perpetrator or one who aided the perpetrator if she's been abused; she simply cannot give an honest answer).

It has been reported that several of the young girls are pregnant (13 or younger), which of course probably means that even more of them have been raped but they are not pregnant at this time. Additionally, the children either don't know who their mothers are or they are lying, since the children are giving different names for themselves and identifying different people as their mothers at different times. So much for those "close mother-daughter" bonds. If they are that close, they surely would be able to point out their mothers.

This is standard investigation procedure, and it seems to me that they are being cautious and handling the situation fairly well, considering the large number of children. All the children have attorneys.

If the community had not been raping children, as is evidently what has been happening, none of this would've happened. The foster system is not the best for any child. But the answer is not to leave them in a situation where they will be harmed because of the possibility of not a great home life if they are removed. Many foster children are adopted and grow up to be happy people.


 TiT? is that you?

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roguevalley  (1000+ posts)       Sun Apr-20-08 03:36 PM
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237. you are disgusting. LIZZY DISABLED THEIR PROFILE. Freeper.
 Edited on Sun Apr-20-08 03:37 PM by roguevalley
Wow. What family values, supporting pedo's right to rape kids. Put your profile up, lizzy or go back to freeperland.


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kestrel91316  (1000+ posts)       Sat Apr-19-08 06:31 PM
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29. Let me guess - you had a child removed from your home for abuse and
 you're still working on your anger issues about it.........right???

Because I can't fathom any other logical reason for objecting to the removal of these kids from an obviously abusive environment.

Sick, sick, sick.


it's getting big. The lynch mob is in full force. Lizzy is DOOMED!!!!





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lizzy (1000+ posts)     Sun Apr-20-08 03:53 PM
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33. When did authorities allege that this particular sect (the one in
 Texas, whose children were removed) engaged in welfare fraud? Or physical abuse of children and child abandoment?
What came out of the testimony is that there were no signs of abuse against babies, pre-pubescent girls or any boys.
What authorities allege against them is that they believed in teenage girls getting married.
Not that they killed their infants, beat the children up, waterboarded babies, or kicked children out on the street.

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lizzy (1000+ posts)     Sun Apr-20-08 04:05 PM
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46. Allegations against all of FLDS are not the allegations
 about people at this particular ranch, whose children were removed.
The first link you provided even states that the boys in TX were not kicked on the street.
You can't blame people for what somebody else does.

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lizzy (1000+ posts)     Sun Apr-20-08 03:58 PM
Response to Reply #36
39. Alleged cemetery that exists from the allegations? Whose allegations?


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kestrel91316  (1000+ posts)       Sun Apr-20-08 03:59 PM
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42. So are you alleging that the women who have escaped from FLDS don't 
 actually exist? Are you alleging that the Lost Boys don't exist? That they have never told of any abuse? How about Bistline and his two books? He's a figment of our imaginations?

What about rape and child abandonment do you think is not abusive? And do you seriously expect waterboarding of infants and episodic food deprivation of girls to leave bruises?

These folks are expert abusers. They know how to physically abuse without leaving evidence, and they certainly know how to psychologically abuse.


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lizzy (1000+ posts)     Sun Apr-20-08 06:54 PM
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63. Minimum ages for marriage are not even the same in different
 states. In Texas you could legally marry at 14 (with parental permission) until 2005. Now they raised it to 16.
The same goes for the age of consent-it varies from state to state. So, what exactly is a "reasonable age of consent?"


me thinks, lizzy may well be a 'sex with kiddies is just peachy' DUmmie.
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Breeze54  (1000+ posts)       Sun Apr-20-08 07:24 PM
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Canadian children found at Texas polygamy compound: B.C.'s A-G
 Advertisements [?]Canadian children found at Texas polygamy compound: B.C.'s A-G

http://www.nationalpost.com/story.html?id=455927

Kelly Sinoski, Canwest News Service and Agence France Press

Published: Friday, April 18, 2008

Canadian children are among the 416 seized from a polygamous cult in Texas last month, according to B.C.'s Attorney General.

Wally Oppal said he was alerted to the issue by federal officials Friday morning because of the similar situation in Bountiful, B.C.

"There are some Canadians involved," Mr. Oppal said Friday. "That doesn't surprise me given that we've been told there's a lot of movement back and forth in the communes. We know there are Americans in Bountiful. It's very difficult for the agencies to exactly get all the details."

However, a federal spokesman could not confirm the report.

Eugenie Cormier-Lassonde of the Department of Foreign Affairs is monitoring the situation but had not received any confirmation on the citizenship status of the children.

Mr. Oppal said federal officials are still trying to confirm how many B.C. and Canadian children were seized in the raid, which occurred at the Yearn for Zion ranch over fears that teenaged girls were being coerced into marrying, and in some cases being sexually abused by, much older men.

The compound is one of several homes of the breakaway Fundamentalist Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.

More than a thousand church members live in the closed community of Bountiful, in the B.C. Interior. "I'm always concerned. It points out to us how encompassing it is and it really knows no borders when we hear of matters like this," Mr. Oppal said. "It's chaos down there now."

In San Angelo, Texas, Friday, the raucous hearings to determine custody of the children, which may be the largest in U.S. history, entered its second day.

Randy Mankin, the editor of Eldorado Success, a weekly newspaper in the area, said the judge ordered all the children to remain in state custody for the time being.

The judge also ordered DNA tests for every child and parent from the community.

"All I can say is that some of us in Texas are standing up and cheering," Mankin said. "We're very proud of our judge."

Lawyers for the church and some of the children had tried to convince a judge that child welfare officials overstepped their bounds when they took all the ranch's children into protective custody.

But Angie Voss, a Texas child protection official, maintained that the "culture of young girls being pregnant by older men" placed all the children at risk.

The girls, she said, were in danger of sexual abuse and the boys were being "groomed" to become perpetrators.

According to numerous reports, Voss also confirmed Friday that some of the children seized are Canadian citizens.

The department asked the judge to place all the sect's children in the custody of the state after finding evidence in a days-long raid beginning April 3 that they say shows girls as young as 13 were "spiritually married" to significantly older men at the ranch.

More....

another thread, same DUmmies. http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=389x3184991

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lizzy (1000+ posts)     Sun Apr-20-08 07:39 PM
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10. That same article says that there are americans at Bountiful in Canada.
 It sounds like these people were moving between these communities.

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lizzy (1000+ posts)     Sun Apr-20-08 07:43 PM
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12. You article doesn't say their parents were not there.
 It says there were movements of people between those two communities


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lizzy (1000+ posts)     Sun Apr-20-08 07:47 PM
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15. What I find really fascinating is that some articles claim CPS
 is going to try and place some of those kids with relatives.
They probably do have a lot of relatives, but most of those relatives most likely live at the same kind of compounds.

Frank, you really need to do a run on lizzy. She/He/It may well be running for a promotion to next tier.
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