What busts my balls is the fact that something like 80-85 percent of the discharges under DADT were the, "Oh, shit--you mean we might have to go into combat or on deployment? Hey, did I mention I like sucking dick?"
Sorry, no. You take the discharge you got, and apply for an upgrade the same as anyone else given an ADSEP or other separation for bodyfat, PRT failures, etc.