My CONSERVATIVE REPUBLICAN parents taught me that if I wanted something, I had to work for the money to get it until I could buy what it was I wanted.
I wanted contacts when I was 16. They said I didn't need them. I went out and got a job, and bought them myself.
I wanted to drive THEIR car when I got my license. They said ok...as soon as I could afford the difference in their car insurance by adding me as a driver. I did....right after I got enough to pay for my contacts, which were a lot of money back in those days!!
My entire college education was paid by life insurance money, I received from my mother's death, and a trust that was set up from being burned as an infant. It was for tuition, dorm costs, books. I wanted money for clothes, entertainment, food...so I worked almost the whole time I was in school. I didn't have a car of my own until I after I graduated from college....and bought one AFTER I got a job. (paid $44 a month for that thing!)
No work, no money.
What a novel concept!!
My kids' father is a surgeon.
Yet both my kids were working by the time they were 16. Earlier really...the younger one went to work at 15 at Taco Bell, and my daughter babysat.
They wanted to go to the movies with friends? They paid for it.
They wanted to drive? They had to pay their car insurance.
When my daughter was in college...she had a choice. She could live in the dorm, and it would be paid for her. Or she could live at home. If she wanted to live in an apartment, she paid for it herself. She lived in the dorm for part of freshman year, and lived at home until she was 24! Then worked 2 jobs to have the apartment.
Conservatives were/are taught to go out and work for their money. We are also taught to GIVE up some of that money....to our Church, our kids' schools, charitable donations to Girl Scouts, Boy Scouts, Childrens' Hospitals, Red Cross, Salvation Army, Boys/Girls Clubs, etc, etc, etc!! And any other place/organization that we WANT to support.
WE learned from our parents and WE teach OUR children how to be productive people in society. WE weren't taught, nor do WE teach OUR children....how to collect welfare for generations.