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A Good Story About Online Personal Security
« on: January 13, 2011, 07:38:55 AM »
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After tossing her books on the sofa, she decided to grab a snack and get on-line. She logged on under her screen name ByAngel213. She checked her Buddy List an...d saw GoTo123 was on. She sent him an instant message:

ByAngel213:
Hi. I'm glad you are on! I thought someone was following me home today. It was really weird!

GoTo123:
LOL You watch too much TV. Why would someone be following you? Don't you live in a safe neighborhood?

ByAngel213:
Of course I do. LOL I guess it was my imagination cuz' I didn't see anybody when I looked out.

GoTo123:
Unless you gave your name out on-line. You haven't done that have you?

ByAngel213:
Of course not. I'm not stupid you know.

GoTo123:
Did you have a softball game after school today?

ByAngel213:
Yes and we won!!

GoTo123:
That's great! Who did you play?

ByAngel213:
We played the Hornets. LOL. Their uniforms are so gross! They look like bees. LOL

GoTo123:
What is your team called?

ByAngel213:
We are the Canton Cats. We have tiger paws on our uniforms. They are really cool.

GoTo1 23:
Did you pitch?

ByAngel213:
No I play second base. I got to go. My homework has to be done before my parents get home. I don't want them mad at me. Bye!

GoTo123:
Catch you later. Bye

Meanwhile.......GoTo123 went to the member menu and began to search for her profile. When it came up, he highlighted it and printed it out. He took out a pen and began to write down what he knew about Angel so far.

Her name: Shannon
Birthday: Jan. 3, 1985
Age: 13
State where she lived: North Carolina

Hobbies: softball, chorus, skating and going to the mall. Besides this information, he knew she lived in Canton because she had just told him. He knew she stayed by herself until 6:30 p.m. Every afternoon until her parents came home from work. He knew she played softball on Thursday afternoons on the school team, and the team was named the Canton Cats. Her favorite number 7 was printed on her jersey. He knew she was in the eighth grade at the Canton Junior High School . She had told him all this in the conversations they had on- line. He had enough information to find her now.

Shannon didn't tell her parents about the incident on the way home from the ballpark that day. She didn't want them to make a scene and stop her from walking home from the softball games. Parents were always overreacting and hers were the worst. It made her wish she was not an only child. Maybe if she had brothers and sisters, her parents wouldn't be so overprotective.

By Thursday, Shannon had forgotten about the footsteps following her.

Her game was in full swing when suddenly she felt someone staring at her. It was then that the memory came back. She glanced up from her second base position to see a man watching her closely.

He was leaning against the fence behind first base and he smiled when she looked at him. He didn't look scary and she quickly dismissed the sudden fear she had felt.

After the game, he sat on a bleacher while she talked to the coach. She noticed his smile once again as she walked past him. He nodded and she smiled back. He noticed her name on the back of her shirt. He knew he had found her.

Quietly, he walked a safe distance behind her. It was only a few blocks to Shannon's home, and once he saw where she lived he quickly returned to the park to get his car.

Now he had to wait. He decided to get a bite to eat until the time came to go to Shannon's house. He drove to a fast food restaurant and sat there until time to make his move.

Shannon was in her room later that evening when she heard voices in the living room.

"Shannon, come here," her father called. He sounded upset and she couldn't imagine why. She went into the room to see the man from the ballpark sitting on the sofa.

"Sit down," her father began,"this man has just told us a most interesting story about you."

Shannon sat back. How could he tell her parents anything? She had never seen him before today!

"Do you know who I am, Shannon ?" the man asked.

"No," Shannon answered.

"I am a police officer and your online friend, GoTo123."

Shannon was stunned. "That's impossible! GoTo is a kid my age! He's 14. And he lives in Michigan !"

The man smiled. "I know I told you all that, but it wasn't true. You see, Shannon , there are people on-line who pretend to be kids; I was one of them. But while others do it to injure kids and hurt them, I belong to a group of parents who do it to protect kids from predators. I came here to find you to teach you how dangerous it is to talk to people on-line. You told me enough about yourself to make it easy for me to find you. You named the school you went to, the name of your ball team and the position you played. The number and name on your jersey just made finding you a breeze."

Shannon was stunned. "You mean you don't live in Michigan ?"

He laughed. "No, I live in Raleigh It made you feel safe to think I was so far away, didn't it?"

She nodded.

"I had a friend whose daughter was like you. Only she wasn't as lucky. The guy found her and murdered her while she was home alone. Kids are taught not to tell anyone when they are alone, yet they do it all the time on-line. The wrong people trick you into giving out information a little here and there on-line.. Before you know it, you have told them enough for them to find you without even realizing you have done it. I hope you've learned a lesson from this and won't do it again. Tell others about this so they will be safe too?"

"It's a promise!"

That night Shannon and her Dad and Mom all knelt down together and thanked God for protecting Shannon from what could have been a tragic situation.
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Re: A Good Story About Online Personal Security
« Reply #1 on: January 13, 2011, 08:01:04 AM »
Whew, scary stuff.

Our children were not allowed on social network sites period.  They were also constantly monitored and "spied" on as they would tell it.  The computers were in the family area, never in their bedrooms. 

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Re: A Good Story About Online Personal Security
« Reply #2 on: January 13, 2011, 08:25:50 AM »
I merely used this as an example. There are many adults that are negligent in maintaining some sort of online security. They often provide pics of their children and families to those that are essentially "strangers". They discuss far too much, as in where their children go to school, their childrens hobbies, sports, where they live, pics of their houses, work schedules, etc.  While this is not typically a big problem for men, it could potentially be a major problem for the women & their children.
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Re: A Good Story About Online Personal Security
« Reply #3 on: January 13, 2011, 08:32:28 AM »
Interesting story but a  :bouncy:

No way this could have happend the way the story was told. First off, how did the Cop find this girl and decide to teach her a lesson??

Who was following the girl, the cop??

Why would the cop show up at her ball game and get her attention.??

As a parent Thor were this man who claimed to be a cop comes to my house and told that story, I would never call my child into the room.   I would listen politely and then ask them to leave.  Then a few calls to make sure this man is in fact law enforcement.

Question about the cop, why my child, why follow her, what caused a cop to decide to PROTECT a complete stranger they had never met.?     Kind of freaky behavior on the part of a cop.

There are enough problems for the cops with real life perverts on line, what got his radar zoned in on this one child.?    Why were the parents informed that this cop felt a need to teach her a lession.?  Why not get the parents involved with perhaps her dangerous behavior on the internet before hand.?

Nope, we have here an Urban Legion ,sounds good on first reading but an hour after reading there is a ---hold on here, this sounds so odd I need to reread this.

Thor I believe you have been snookered,.




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Re: A Good Story About Online Personal Security
« Reply #4 on: January 13, 2011, 08:33:51 AM »
I merely used this as an example. There are many adults that are negligent in maintaining some sort of online security. They often provide pics of their children and families to those that are essentially "strangers". They discuss far too much, as in where their children go to school, their childrens hobbies, sports, where they live, pics of their houses, work schedules, etc.  While this is not typically a big problem for men, it could potentially be a major problem for the women & their children.

And, let me get on my personal soap box for a moment.  Please, please PLEASE don't advertise on FB or MySpace that you are not at home, going on vacation, or that your spouse/significant other is out of town.
I cringe everytime I see one of my friends doing that.  
Thank you.    
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Re: A Good Story About Online Personal Security
« Reply #5 on: January 13, 2011, 08:39:07 AM »
I merely used this as an example. There are many adults that are negligent in maintaining some sort of online security. They often provide pics of their children and families to those that are essentially "strangers". They discuss far too much, as in where their children go to school, their childrens hobbies, sports, where they live, pics of their houses, work schedules, etc.  While this is not typically a big problem for men, it could potentially be a major problem for the women & their children.
I understand.

 What I took and take from horror stories like you posted is that the danger is all too real and as we know to try to protect our children from themselves we can't lose sight of the fact that the danger is there no matter who does the posting  or why. Predators exist and being safe should never be taken lightly.  

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Re: A Good Story About Online Personal Security
« Reply #6 on: January 13, 2011, 08:39:27 AM »
vesta's post: Where's that facepalm smiley when you need it???????
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Re: A Good Story About Online Personal Security
« Reply #7 on: January 13, 2011, 08:50:12 AM »
vesta's post: Where's that facepalm smiley when you need it???????

Couldn't find it.  Want this one?

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Re: A Good Story About Online Personal Security
« Reply #8 on: January 13, 2011, 08:51:09 AM »
Couldn't find it.  Want this one?

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Re: A Good Story About Online Personal Security
« Reply #9 on: January 13, 2011, 08:59:28 AM »
Interesting story but a  :bouncy:

No way this could have happend the way the story was told. First off, how did the Cop find this girl and decide to teach her a lesson??

Who was following the girl, the cop??

Why would the cop show up at her ball game and get her attention.??

As a parent Thor were this man who claimed to be a cop comes to my house and told that story, I would never call my child into the room.   I would listen politely and then ask them to leave.  Then a few calls to make sure this man is in fact law enforcement.

Question about the cop, why my child, why follow her, what caused a cop to decide to PROTECT a complete stranger they had never met.?     Kind of freaky behavior on the part of a cop.

There are enough problems for the cops with real life perverts on line, what got his radar zoned in on this one child.?    Why were the parents informed that this cop felt a need to teach her a lession.?  Why not get the parents involved with perhaps her dangerous behavior on the internet before hand.?

Nope, we have here an Urban Legion ,sounds good on first reading but an hour after reading there is a ---hold on here, this sounds so odd I need to reread this.

Thor I believe you have been snookered,.





And THAT just goes to show you how clueless you are, Vesta.......  :hammer: :hammer: :hammer: (of course, YOU were the one wanting to pimp out your daughter...........)

Apparently you have a reading comprehension problem or didn't actually read the article. It's all explained in there.
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Re: A Good Story About Online Personal Security
« Reply #10 on: January 13, 2011, 09:03:51 AM »
Really Vesta? Just damn.  :thatsright:
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« Reply #11 on: January 13, 2011, 09:28:41 AM »
Vesta:

:facepalm:
"The state must declare the child to be the most precious treasure of the people. As long as the government is perceived as working for the benefit of the children, the people will happily endure almost any curtailment of liberty and almost any deprivation."- IBID

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Re: A Good Story About Online Personal Security
« Reply #12 on: January 13, 2011, 09:30:33 AM »
There are two sites that gather information online and make it easy to find. Both have opt out privacy policies.  www.zabasearch.com  and www.spokeo.com , I would recommend checking them and removing your names.