Elizabeth, you had every right to any bitterness you felt towards your cheating ex and his skanky ho. I'm so glad you are above the fray now, but sad for your children and other family members.
You were DEFINITELY the better half of your marriage.
If you see my little terrier Dominic, give him a pat on the head for me and tell him I'll be there eventually.
Sorry, it's been a weepy sort of day for me. December 7th was the 9-11 of its time and it's also my birthday so I feel a bit overwhelmed emotionally.
Go in peace, Elizabeth.