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Offline Lauri

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"I think its time for a new therapist"
« on: March 25, 2008, 08:15:23 PM »
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I think its time for a new therapist....again
   

I got put on "probation" ****ing probation.....for missing too many sessions....appareantly being in the hospital, almost dying, and horrible infections are not reason enough to miss. At one point my rash was so bad I couldn't put any clothes on without pain, and had to lie in bed naked....she says I should have found a way to make it. Today I went, despite horrible allergies ( brought an entire box of Kleenex) and back pain that makes it hard to breathe ( because of the rash and how sensitve it has made my skin, I still can not wear a bra and it is causing major problems for my back) I"m just so pissed, if anyone should understand illness, it should be a doctor, and, in my opinion, especially a therapist whom I talk to all the time about my ailments and how they effect me. Am I over reacting....or is it time for a new tdoc?

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9. thank you. I needed to hear that. She made me feel like a hypochondiac, or some crazy person who claims to be sick, her actions make me feel unvalidated and that is not right.

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5. probation? nt.
   
   
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7. yup
   
I should be used to it....this has been an issue with every class, job, therapist, SO I have ever had.

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i typically leave the mental issues alone.. but this one was posted in the lounge over there.. and she/he admits she has a flaky way of handling her life. *everyone* around her/him tells them this.. but, its the therapists fault?  :whatever:
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Re: "I think its time for a new therapist"
« Reply #1 on: March 25, 2008, 08:21:12 PM »
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23. Good grief!
   
:wow: And I thought my therapist telling me to get a boyfriend was bad...wow. That's not cool at all, and I'm sorry you're having to deal with this. :hug: Hope things get better for you soon, RP!


even when they hire people to tell them the truth, they cant stand it..
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Re: "I think its time for a new therapist"
« Reply #2 on: March 25, 2008, 08:49:09 PM »
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I got put on "probation" ******* probation.....for missing too many sessions....appareantly being in the hospital, almost dying, and horrible infections are not reason enough to miss. At one point my rash was so bad I couldn't put any clothes on without pain, and had to lie in bed naked....she says I should have found a way to make it. Today I went, despite horrible allergies ( brought an entire box of Kleenex) and back pain that makes it hard to breathe ( because of the rash and how sensitve it has made my skin, I still can not wear a bra and it is causing major problems for my back) I"m just so pissed, if anyone should understand illness, it should be a doctor, and, in my opinion, especially a therapist whom I talk to all the time about my ailments and how they effect me. Am I over reacting....or is it time for a new tdoc?

That creates mental images darker then even the very bowels of hell have yet to contemplate.
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Re: "I think its time for a new therapist"
« Reply #3 on: March 25, 2008, 08:54:42 PM »
i think its pretty sad when you've burned thru everyone you know in real life and are forced to ask your 'friends' online what they think of your mental health evaluator..

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Re: "I think its time for a new therapist"
« Reply #4 on: March 25, 2008, 09:48:21 PM »
Court ordered therapy can be brutal.  The client doesn't set the rules.  But they still try. 
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Re: "I think its time for a new therapist"
« Reply #5 on: March 25, 2008, 10:04:04 PM »
Looks like it is a good therapist who told this person exactly what they needed to hear....honestly...and saw right through their bullshit.

That DUmmie is so entrenched in victimhood, and they got called on it....it's nnneeeevvveerrrr their fault, and they are "sick" all the time too <sniff> <sniff>.

Here's a novel idea DUmmie, if you are court ordered to go see a therapist and you really ARE chronically sick, go get a DOCTOR'S note from your physician saying as much in order for your stories to be credible.  That would be asking way too much, because it involves taking responsibility for yourself, and it also takes away from the attention you crave from the therapist, "Oh, you POOR thing, I hope you get better!" Yeah, right...you are being court ordered to see a therapist for a reason.
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Re: "I think its time for a new therapist"
« Reply #6 on: March 25, 2008, 10:19:00 PM »
Quote from: Lord Undies on March 25, 2008, 09:48:21 PM
Court ordered therapy can be brutal.  The client doesn't set the rules.  But they still try. 

interesting.. i never thought of that angle.

hmm..
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Re: "I think its time for a new therapist"
« Reply #7 on: March 25, 2008, 10:21:01 PM »
Quote from: LadyLiberty on March 25, 2008, 10:04:04 PM
Looks like it is a good therapist who told this person exactly what they needed to hear....honestly...and saw right through their bullshit.

That DUmmie is so entrenched in victimhood, and they got called on it....it's nnneeeevvveerrrr their fault, and they are "sick" all the time too <sniff> <sniff>.

Here's a novel idea DUmmie, if you are court ordered to go see a therapist and you really ARE chronically sick, go get a DOCTOR'S note from your physician saying as much in order for your stories to be credible.  That would be asking way too much, because it involves taking responsibility for yourself, and it also takes away from the attention you crave from the therapist, "Oh, you POOR thing, I hope you get better!" Yeah, right...you are being court ordered to see a therapist for a reason.

maybe its the insurance company? I could see why they dont want to keep paying for services she isnt using.

i dont know what the answer is for a person like this, but youre right. the victimhood is deep in this one and when she thinks someone with no pain called her out, she found out that other people do indeed live their lives without bitching constantly.
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Re: "I think its time for a new therapist"
« Reply #8 on: March 25, 2008, 11:24:25 PM »
Translation: My therapist is NOT telling me what I want to hear. I had a small red spot on my arm and didn't feel like going to my therapist...she's NOT coddling me and blaming everyone else for my problems and you KNOW I'm not responsible for my situation. Sooo...I didn't bother to call and tell her I wouldn't be there, I just went to the emergency room. They refused to admit me. I mean, this rash could've been anything...sure it's gone now, but it could've been ARM CANCER! Now I have to invent a new fricking disease whenever I get pissed at my therapist and don't want to go. SHE says I'm perfectly healthy and need to stop feeling sorry for myself and get a life...bitch!

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Re: "I think its time for a new therapist"
« Reply #9 on: March 26, 2008, 01:08:41 AM »
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6. Bottom line....
 If you missed the sessions because you were ill, she is wrong to do this to you. It is disrespectful to you.
 
Rising Phoenix  (1000+ posts)      Tue Mar-25-08 03:31 PM
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9. thank you
I needed to hear that. She made me feel like a hypochondiac, or some crazy person who claims to be sick, her actions make me feel invalidated and that is not right.


 :rotf: Oh shit, that's too funny.
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Re: "I think its time for a new therapist"
« Reply #10 on: March 26, 2008, 05:27:41 AM »
Quote from: delilahmused on March 25, 2008, 11:24:25 PM
Translation: My therapist is NOT telling me what I want to hear. I had a small red spot on my arm and didn't feel like going to my therapist...she's NOT coddling me and blaming everyone else for my problems and you KNOW I'm not responsible for my situation. Sooo...I didn't bother to call and tell her I wouldn't be there, I just went to the emergency room. They refused to admit me. I mean, this rash could've been anything...sure it's gone now, but it could've been ARM CANCER! Now I have to invent a new fricking disease whenever I get pissed at my therapist and don't want to go. SHE says I'm perfectly healthy and need to stop feeling sorry for myself and get a life...bitch!

Cindie

I almost dropped my daughter from laughing while reading that! :rotf: :lmao:
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Re: "I think its time for a new therapist"
« Reply #11 on: March 26, 2008, 06:39:42 AM »
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Rising Phoenix  (1000+ posts)      Tue Mar-25-08 03:29 PM
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7. yup
 I should be used to it....this has been an issue with every class, job, therapist, SO I have ever had.

Um, you would think that would be A CLUE!!!!!!!!!  :thatsright:
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Re: "I think its time for a new therapist"
« Reply #12 on: March 26, 2008, 07:17:56 AM »
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but it could've been ARM CANCER!  Then I looked at it and I think some got in my EYE!!!!!!

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Re: "I think its time for a new therapist"
« Reply #13 on: March 26, 2008, 02:01:24 PM »
The therapist should take awya her internet access to the DUmp. 

Someone once said that going to the DUmp for mental advice is like having AA meetings in a bar.
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Re: "I think its time for a new therapist"
« Reply #14 on: March 26, 2008, 02:46:00 PM »
Gotta be court ordered therapy. No therapist you were seeing on your own would say that.
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Re: "I think its time for a new therapist"
« Reply #15 on: March 26, 2008, 07:34:34 PM »
Whenever I see the word "therapist" I think of the SNL Jeopardy! skit:
[youtube=425,350]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=etmHaeaNsCw[/youtube]

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