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A Visit From My RW Relatives Last Night
« on: August 15, 2010, 11:52:14 AM »
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About five years ago I remarried into a family that was definitely "right of center." I think one of the reasons my new wife was drawn to me was because I spoke a language that she was not used to hearing. A language of tolerance and inclusion. Prior to meeting me, she lived in an environment that was pretty typical of those on the right. I'm not saying that they were (are) wingnuts...far from it. However, my inclusion in this family has been interesting to say the least.

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My step-daughter and her husband came by to pick up their two toddlers that we were babysitting. The conversation eventually got into politics. I think it was an extension of our touching on the fact that they homeschool their children. This got us on the whole public school system and then quickly into President Obama's presidency.

I must tell you that I surprised myself on how passionately critical I was of the Obama Administration. I was a strong supporter of Mr. Obama and during the campaign contributed both time and money to help him obtain the presidency. I maintained my lonely position as the only "liberal" in the family. However, it was hard for my "right" family members to deny a lot of what I was saying.

The conversation started to get a little heated as I began to express how disappointed I was that our president had (in my opinion) folded on so may issues that were important to me and to a majority of our country. I expressed that my cynicism was complete. That I would no longer trust ANY politician...they are (as most already knew) lying SOB's that have little in common with those of us struggling for justice and a sense of fair play.

It scared the hell out of me that I sounded as angry as I did. I mean, I just became unhinged at the thought that I finally tied my star to someone that I truly believed would at the very least stand on Democratic principles and not, no matter how tough the fight, betray (our) convictions.

I hated...I mean I simply hated to be placed in this position with people that I had long tried to convince of the importance of getting a Democrat into office. It was like my whole relationship with these people was undermined. This angered me more.

As I realized that I was sounding more and more like them, I desperately tried to gather whatever remaining dignity I had and stated something to the following:

I have very little in common with my RW friends. However, I KNOW where THEY are coming from. Nothing they do surprises me because I know who they are. What hurts worse is when my own party abandons the basic tenets that have made the Dems the Party of the People.

I regained my balance and made it clear that I would NEVER vote for a republican.

I'm sorry that this sounds so depressing. I'm an "old" Democrat. I pride myself on upholding what I truly believe in my soul is the "right thing to do." If that now makes me some sort of radical...then I proudly wear that badge. I refuse to be put out to pasture by those who have never known an FDR or a JFK...Their world starts with Reagan and ends in Bush...with a moderate Dem sandwiched between them. How can they even begin to understand?

I remain a man without a party...

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Re: A Visit From My RW Relatives Last Night
« Reply #1 on: August 15, 2010, 12:18:23 PM »
About five years ago I remarried into a family that was definitely "right of center." I think one of the reasons my new wife was drawn to me was because I spoke a language that she was not used to hearing. A language of tolerance and inclusion. Prior to meeting me, she lived in an environment that was pretty typical of those on the right. I'm not saying that they were (are) wingnuts...far from it. However, my inclusion in this family has been interesting to say the least.

Translation: She had never smoked dope before and we've been bumming off the hard working idiots ever since.
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Re: A Visit From My RW Relatives Last Night
« Reply #2 on: August 15, 2010, 12:36:44 PM »
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I regained my balance and made it clear that I would NEVER vote for a republican.

Yes, they are the 'open minded' ones aren't they.

I've voted for Democrats.  They were the one in the race who were saying what I wanted to hear.  Granted, it doesn't happen often but it has happened and I'm sure it'll happen again.

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Re: A Visit From My RW Relatives Last Night
« Reply #3 on: August 15, 2010, 12:44:13 PM »
Yes, they are the 'open minded' ones aren't they.

I've voted for Democrats.  They were the one in the race who were saying what I wanted to hear.  Granted, it doesn't happen often but it has happened and I'm sure it'll happen again.

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Re: A Visit From My RW Relatives Last Night
« Reply #4 on: August 15, 2010, 12:54:45 PM »
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About five years ago I remarried into a family that was definitely "right of center." I think one of the reasons my new wife was drawn to me was because I spoke a language that she was not used to hearing. A language of tolerance and inclusion. Prior to meeting me, she lived in an environment that was pretty typical of those on the right. I'm not saying that they were (are) wingnuts...far from it. However, my inclusion in this family has been interesting to say the least.

Anyway...

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Re: A Visit From My RW Relatives Last Night
« Reply #5 on: August 15, 2010, 01:04:30 PM »
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About five years ago I remarried into a family that was definitely "right of center." I think one of the reasons my new wife was drawn to me was because I spoke a language that she was not used to hearing. A language of tolerance and inclusion. Prior to meeting me, she lived in an environment that was pretty typical of those on the right. I'm not saying that they were (are) wingnuts...far from it. However, my inclusion in this family has been interesting to say the least.

I thought he was going to say 'Urdu'.

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Re: A Visit From My RW Relatives Last Night
« Reply #6 on: August 15, 2010, 01:33:35 PM »
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Prior to meeting me, she lived in an environment that was pretty typical of those on the right.

What environment is that? One of hard work, self reliance, charity, patriotism and honor?

What a shitty environment...  :whatever:
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Re: A Visit From My RW Relatives Last Night
« Reply #7 on: August 15, 2010, 01:36:58 PM »
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About five years ago I remarried into a family that was definitely "right of center."

WTF??????????
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Re: A Visit From My RW Relatives Last Night
« Reply #8 on: August 15, 2010, 03:29:08 PM »
Ask anyone currently in service or retired military. What they can giveth they sure as **** can take it from you. That is no way for a free country to work , Its the same kind of system you want everyone to live under and even though we all have volunteered to live under it its no sunny day at the park compared to what 75% of this country has been getting courtesy of the US military.
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Re: A Visit From My RW Relatives Last Night
« Reply #9 on: August 15, 2010, 07:17:11 PM »
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I mean, I just became unhinged
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Re: A Visit From My RW Relatives Last Night
« Reply #10 on: August 15, 2010, 07:17:51 PM »
Bouncy. Same old, tired format. Two bongs.
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Re: A Visit From My RW Relatives Last Night
« Reply #11 on: August 15, 2010, 08:45:37 PM »
Did you ever notice that they just take it for granted that the "evil, RW-nut pukes" will include them in the family?  Over and over, the "tolerant" liberals mention how they've dumped friends and family over political differences, but they never show any gratitude for the fact that those "intolerant, hateful, wingnuts" are consistently willing to actually tolerate the libs? 

Of course, I suppose if they actually noticed that they are consistently tolerated, they'd put it down to the RWers being too stupid to understand their political views, or dream up some other way to pat themselves on the back instead of recognizing the hypocrisy of their views.   ::)
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« Reply #12 on: August 15, 2010, 09:01:20 PM »
Did you ever notice that they just take it for granted that the "evil, RW-nut pukes" will include them in the family?  Over and over, the "tolerant" liberals mention how they've dumped friends and family over political differences, but they never show any gratitude for the fact that those "intolerant, hateful, wingnuts" are consistently willing to actually tolerate the libs? 

Of course, I suppose if they actually noticed that they are consistently tolerated, they'd put it down to the RWers being too stupid to understand their political views, or dream up some other way to pat themselves on the back instead of recognizing the hypocrisy of their views.   ::)

No kiddin'! "Toots" has a coupla wannabe MoonBats on her side of the family. I say wannaBe 'cause if the shirt hit the fan, they'd be on my doorstep wantin' fed! Thank goodness they live states away!

Yet every time they show up we accept them into the fold. They are family after all. Hell, I've got a dope smokin' brother, but when he gets in trouble I still come a runnin'!
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Re: A Visit From My RW Relatives Last Night
« Reply #13 on: August 16, 2010, 05:41:01 PM »
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It was like my whole relationship with these people was undermined.

Believe me, primitive, it happened the day you opened your pie hole and started repeating lib ideology.  It's just taken this long to dawn on you something they've taken for grated all along.

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Re: A Visit From My RW Relatives Last Night
« Reply #14 on: August 16, 2010, 06:46:36 PM »
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As I realized that I was sounding more and more like them, I desperately tried to gather whatever remaining dignity I had and stated something to the following...

Doncha just LOVE the sanctimony? Typical of the primitive, he chooses to mask his ignorance and shame with delusions of intellectual superiority.

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What hurts worse is when my own party abandons the basic tenets that have made the Dems the Party of the People.

What the primitive MEANT to say was that it hurts when, yet again, he's contributed time, money and hopeychange to a self-absorbed bullshit artist.

Ya think this guy would have learnt by now that if you're gonna sell your ass, make sure you get paid before ya drop trou, chuckles.  :loser:


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Re: A Visit From My RW Relatives Last Night
« Reply #15 on: August 16, 2010, 07:59:53 PM »
About five years ago I remarried into a family that was definitely "right of center." I think one of the reasons my new wife was drawn to me was because I spoke a language that she was not used to hearing. A language of tolerance and inclusion. Prior to meeting me, she lived in an environment that was pretty typical of those on the right. I'm not saying that they were (are) wingnuts...far from it. However, my inclusion in this family has been interesting to say the least.

Translation: She had never smoked dope before and we've been bumming off the hard working idiots ever since.

HA HA!!! Nice. :hi5: :cheersmate: