Well then, she should be elevated to supreme commander of the household!

You don't think she isn't? Jeez, how long you been married? Anyone married over 10 years, at least pretends to relinquish authority to the dress. It's the only way to keep your sex life active.
I keep her car and lawn mower runnin', maintain the plumbing, electrical, etc and feed all the critters. That's my husbandly duty. Everything else is her problem. heh!
Hell, I ain't even on the bank account since my use of the debit card makes her want to commit homicide!