My first husband hated children. Said he was "allergic." I do not feel the same way, but we never had kids. Had something "taken," I would have had a huge freakin problem on my hands. Huge.
So, I never got to have kids, but I have one grandchild, with my 2nd husband. He is the greatest. I'd never felt that before; when he cries, you want to cry. When he laughs, your heart swells. It really is God's blessing. He'll be one year old in a few weeks.