Don't believe this bouncy for a second, for the following reasons....
1) I've lived in Virginia my entire 51 years, traveled extensively throughout the South and Midwest, and I have YET to see any of what this DUmbass says happened....
2) If it DID happen, one call to Jessee Jackassson would have NAACP, ACLU, NBC, ABC, CBS, CNN, NYT, MSNBC, USATODAY, NEWSWEEK, et al. fist fighting in the streets for a chance to interview said DUmbass, and do an "in depth" expose on the diner....
3) The waitress was probably Black....